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Fun with someone from the same town as you? Good idea or bad idea?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So, I have been chatting with this really sexy lady for over a year now. We get on well and have a good laugh in our messages. Only problem is she is reluctant to meet because we are both from the same town. My thinking on this is we are both discrete, certainly will not be talking to anyone ever on my fab experiences so why not meet and have some great fun?

Just wondering if anyone else was ever in the same situation? What happened and how it turned out?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are ye both single?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're both adults right? If somebody happens to find out ye hsve sex, I'm sure the world won't go up on flames. People don't care nearly as much about other people's lives as we think. Have at it!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Both in boring marriages,

Nobody else would know thought only us two,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both in boring marriages,

Nobody else would know thought only us two, "

I can see why she might be a bit reluctant so.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As boring as her marriage is, maybe she just finds the fantasy appealing but doesn't really want to follow through with it?

Same town excuse seems a little bs to me unless it's a smallest town in a country

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By *ubyRidesAgainWoman over a year ago

RebelRoad

Doesn't matter how big or small the town is, if people have big mouths!! That's the real problem, I'm lucky to know a few locals as swingers but that's as far as it goes. The term Don't shit on your own doorstep, rings true for me. And personally for me I'd never go down that route

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

I don't meet anyone close by. Met someone a couple of years ago just a half hour away and he turned into a complete creep. An hour away seems to be the magic distance. For a regular meet/fwb it's close enough to make spontaneous plans and do some quick prep beforehand if you both find some free time, but far enough away that they don't expect you to be at their beck and call, or keep turning up unannounced.

Fwb tried that once... He surprised me in the shower while I was shaving my pits... Not sure he's over it yet

Normal service, ie, me being given ample time to prep and look fabulous before he arrives, was resumed very quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since I live in Dublin, not a problem as such....

Wilder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have met a guy down road from us lots times , he is single , great fun , and handy ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both married? Best not go there, it could turn messy.

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By *oxic1998Woman over a year ago

Belfast

Never meet to close to your own home.....too risky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would tend to agree with most of the advice you got here. Best not to take that chance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've not met each other. You've chatted for a year. Move on. You're wasting your time for her boredom relief.

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By *hesexaddictMan over a year ago

Dublin

If the OH’s were to find out It could be very messy, might not be able to go shops, walk etc would be even worst if there’s kids involved.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She's probably nervous that , nice as you may be , it could all blow up in your faces .

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By *ookwhoitishaMan over a year ago

outside Strabane

And that's why living in a county like Donegal where everyone knows everyone it's hard to get a meet

Any women in the NorthWest want to prove me wrong

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By *antra MassageMan over a year ago

city

If its a small town, she may also know you're wife. And I can understand her reluctance. Don't force the issue. You haven't met after a year of chatting, so it's time to walk away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too risky....

All is good till the consequences kick in.

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