Pushy to me means instant block. If someone is pushy via mail, it sets off alarm bells and there's no way I'm putting myself in the same room as someone who doesn't understand the word no in a simple message.
Remember both parties must want to meet equally as much. If someone is on the fence or undecided, being pushy will just push them away. Chat to folk, be a little bit cheeky, but respectful, intruguing someone enough to want to meet you is far better than bullying them into it  |
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"tks for answers dont get me wrong im not pushy as i am a bit shy so getting nowhere on here"
You're over 45... You'll have to accept that's an upper limit age for many on here, regardless of gender or sexual preference, so don't take it personally. Read profiles and communicate with those who are actively looking to meet someone a bit older |
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"morning all genuine question do guys have to be a little bit pushy to get anywhere on here "
absolutely push pull harrass hound and stalk..you want her to think that her pussy is the last 1 in the world and its your duty to get it..she will come around eventually  |
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"morning all genuine question do guys have to be a little bit pushy to get anywhere on here
absolutely push pull harrass hound and stalk..you want her to think that her pussy is the last 1 in the world and its your duty to get it..she will come around eventually "
Also maybe just try to get her address and call round  |
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"morning all genuine question do guys have to be a little bit pushy to get anywhere on here
absolutely push pull harrass hound and stalk..you want her to think that her pussy is the last 1 in the world and its your duty to get it..she will come around eventually "
She will not. The smell of desperation isn't sexy. |
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"morning all genuine question do guys have to be a little bit pushy to get anywhere on here
absolutely push pull harrass hound and stalk..you want her to think that her pussy is the last 1 in the world and its your duty to get it..she will come around eventually
She will not. The smell of desperation isn't sexy. "
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"Pushy to me means instant block. If someone is pushy via mail, it sets off alarm bells and there's no way I'm putting myself in the same room as someone who doesn't understand the word no in a simple message.
Remember both parties must want to meet equally as much. If someone is on the fence or undecided, being pushy will just push them away. Chat to folk, be a little bit cheeky, but respectful, intruguing someone enough to want to meet you is far better than bullying them into it "
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There's a certain pushy that I do like. There's so many messages coming in that the guys kinda have to be a bit pushy with me and text me a few times because I forget or just don't open the message. I've had the best times with guys we were just a bit more persistant than the rest. |
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"There's a certain pushy that I do like. There's so many messages coming in that the guys kinda have to be a bit pushy with me and text me a few times because I forget or just don't open the message. I've had the best times with guys we were just a bit more persistant than the rest. "
That sounds an awful lot like hard work.... |
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Hi Scooby
Being pushy doesn't get you more meets. The website has what feels like a million men to every woman. And most women don't meet here . So many profiles are women who are in relationships. thinking if they have a singles profile theyll have more of a chance to have mff.
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"There's a certain pushy that I do like. There's so many messages coming in that the guys kinda have to be a bit pushy with me and text me a few times because I forget or just don't open the message. I've had the best times with guys we were just a bit more persistant than the rest.
That sounds an awful lot like hard work...."
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Honestly I don't think there's one set formula that will work on all girls. Persistence is an automatic turn off for me, but apparently it works for some girls. Every one is different so you and you're approach, whatever that might look like, won't work on everyone. |
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"Honestly I don't think there's one set formula that will work on all girls. Persistence is an automatic turn off for me, but apparently it works for some girls. Every one is different so you and you're approach, whatever that might look like, won't work on everyone. "
This. People like and respond to different things. |
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Play it cool, if you have the looks, the gift of the gab and are well proportioned the ladies Will flock to you just as they would in real life.
I think as a rule of thumb if you can't pull in a pub or club then you won't have much luck on a site where guys are ten a penny hence you really have to be exceptional |
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"Play it cool, if you have the looks, the gift of the gab and are well proportioned the ladies Will flock to you just as they would in real life.
I think as a rule of thumb if you can't pull in a pub or club then you won't have much luck on a site where guys are ten a penny hence you really have to be exceptional "
I strongly disagree with this. |
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"Play it cool, if you have the looks, the gift of the gab and are well proportioned the ladies Will flock to you just as they would in real life.
I think as a rule of thumb if you can't pull in a pub or club then you won't have much luck on a site where guys are ten a penny hence you really have to be exceptional
I strongly disagree with this. "
Out of curiosity, could I ask why? Don't mean to pry, just intrigued. |
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"They don’t flock in pubs and clubs lol"
What I'm trying to say is that in a pub or club is an open field and if a guy is chatty and witty with the confidence to approach women he will usually score esp when everyone is drinking and having the Craic but in here the odds are stacked and women can afford to be choosy hence so you really have to stand out. |
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"morning all genuine question do guys have to be a little bit pushy to get anywhere on here "
Nope ... doesn't work in real life wont work here. Commen ground and decency tends to be better options. Pushy !!!  |
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"morning all genuine question do guys have to be a little bit pushy to get anywhere on here
absolutely push pull harrass hound and stalk..you want her to think that her pussy is the last 1 in the world and its your duty to get it..she will come around
eventually
Also maybe just try to get her address and call round "
ermm yea call around.. lol |
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