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One to one meets, sex parties or Vanilla club?
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What are your preferences?
For a lot of couples starting fresh or returning to swinging/casual sex lifestyle, Vanilla club seems to be the place to go. Easy to meet other couples and get the first verifications.
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"I used go to a lot of parties, but now I prefer one to one(or two). "
I suppose, once you get to know the "scene" and meet a couple of regulars that you like, it is much more intimate.
But then, the parties could offer the diversity and the prospects of multiple "experiences" , the same night. Even though, nothing happens during some of them  , as people are d*unk too quickly or there is no chemistry, not to mention that some couples don't play, ever. |
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It's hard to know!! Maybe some people need a drink or two to help unlock some personal in habitations they have? I personally prefer if they were and I to be sober so they know what they are doing!! But a one on one to start normally works to ease you back in!! |
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"..not into gangbangs find that thing weird if im pefectly honest but each to their own  "
I always wondered, if I could still maintain an erection, when "rubbing shoulders" with so many men, not to mention the stink of a room with so many sweaty horny men and one woman  !? Definitely, not my cup of tea, but to each to their own. |
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prefer one to one meets
but parties (meet and greets etc not sex parties if that makes sense) are a good way to meet people and get your faces out there, though we are a quiet couple so sometimes we feel overwhelmed at parties.
each have their pros and cons
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I think some people seem to have misleading views on the club scene.
In the vanilla there are 2 very seperate areas..downstairs for socialising (no play allowed) and upstairs for playing.
And in the play areas there are private amd more public play areas.
People seem to think it is just one massive orgy. And as tempting as that might sound it is not the case.
Group play does occur of course but it is certainly not a giant orgy or free for all.
I think there is fun to be had in all aspects.
Meets and greets are great for getting to know people.
House parties are more intimate and each host has their own rules / vibe
One on one meets are also amazing but would recommend social meet first
Club nights are great as you get to socialise and to play if you wish. Best of both worlds |
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