"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance  "
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance "
I mean we do live In a small country
There is always going to be that paranoia situation where you might actually know each other,
But we are all on here for a reason and don’t judge others and be respectful of each other privacy’s |
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance it's all about discretion, not closeness."
spot on bud,discretion is a must,but it probably does scare a few peeps if they are too near |
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance it's all about discretion, not closeness. spot on bud,discretion is a must,but it probably does scare a few peeps if they are too near"
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance "
I don't have the problem out in the sticks my close is Wexford town or waterford |
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"I got a messages from a lad who said I'll never look at u in work the same way again.. That's way too close.. "
he's prob thinking in work " I know what her pussy looks like, pity I can't taste it".
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"It doesn't necessarily bother us but hate when we get a message saying....we're within a mile of each other. Wanna fuck?
Proximity is not what gets my engine going."
I always thought kilometers were sexier anyway |
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"It doesn't necessarily bother us but hate when we get a message saying....we're within a mile of each other. Wanna fuck?
Proximity is not what gets my engine going."
yeah that might suit on a night out but not at 2 pm in the day lol would be good to meet for a few drinks if it happened on a nightout |
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"It doesn't necessarily bother us but hate when we get a message saying....we're within a mile of each other. Wanna fuck?
Proximity is not what gets my engine going.
I always thought kilometers were sexier anyway"
I dunno, the metric martyrs were hot as fuck |
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"It doesn't necessarily bother us but hate when we get a message saying....we're within a mile of each other. Wanna fuck?
Proximity is not what gets my engine going.
I always thought kilometers were sexier anyway
I dunno, the metric martyrs were hot as fuck"
I had to google that.... but yes I agree hotties |
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"I got a messages from a lad who said I'll never look at u in work the same way again.. That's way too close.. "
Wow that's close. Do you still work together? |
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance it's all about discretion, not closeness. "
Not everyone understands discretion though |
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance it's all about discretion, not closeness.
Not everyone understands discretion though"
It's very easy, it's just alot don't follow it. I have nothing to hide yet I'm discrete. |
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That's creepy as fuuuuck - bet he didn't have the manners to let you know who he was in return either!!
Distance doesn't matter like others have said, it's about discretion - if they "get it" and are discreet then they could be my next door neighbour and it wouldn't matter! (would be handy though!) |
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That's creepy as fuuuuck - bet he didn't have the manners to let you know who he was in return either!!
Distance doesn't matter like others have said, it's about discretion - if they "get it" and are discreet then they could be my next door neighbour and it wouldn't matter! (would be handy though!) |
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance it's all about discretion, not closeness.
Not everyone understands discretion thoughIt's very easy, it's just alot don't follow it. I have nothing to hide yet I'm discrete. "
A lot is discrete yes but for the remainder that dosent it can cause problems. |
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I've never he an issue with closeness once everyone is on the same page. Chat on KIK and Cam first then meet in person. Once everyone knows what is expected all should be fine. |
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Depends very much on the person, nearly ran over a fabber in local Lidl car park yesterday
Normally though, would be very wary, too many idiots and people with no concept of boundaries. We are very careful who we meet. |
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As the old saying goes, Don't Fab on your own doorstep.
In.my area, the doorsteps about 10 miles long but I understand that they're much shorter in the cities, probably due to the price of an acre and the overcrowding  |
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"I’ve found the ones who are close by expect you to want to meet and are pushier 
Yep and can get nasty if u say no as well 
Yep had a guy go to my local shop and ask could I see his car "
ah thats defo not right tho,ladies have it so much worse,i didnt think it be that bad in all honesty x stay safe ladies |
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance it's all about discretion, not closeness.
Not everyone understands discretion though"
Yep, I remember someone on here posting on a thread about how someone sent her family and friends pics she had up here. Some people just don't respect privacy or discretion and in doing so ruin it for others. |
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I remember when part of a couple profile on here and we would get messages from guys close by who would be saying "I'm not too far from you" or "I'm passing through your area" or "I'll be passing through your area" clearly hinting as if they were expecting us to drop what we were doing to meet them or entertain them.
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"How close do you consider too close?
Someone messages you and they live within a mile or quarter mile. I’m always wary of that close!
How far do they need to be to be a comfortable distance it's all about discretion, not closeness. "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Close is all fine and dandy till someone thinks that they only want u meeting them and start using knowlage gained trough fab meets to control another it happens
On the flip side those nights when u think ill send a fancy a fuck msg can actualy turn into steamy encounters |
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It depends on the person really. I've had msgs from a guy that thought that just because we were within 1/4 mile that we should be fuck buddies. He had no interest in finding out whether we would be a good match, that didn't seem to matter to him.
I block, he deletes his profile, starts a new one & we begin that cycle again. |
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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago
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I won't meet anyone in my area, I prefer to travel. I have found anyone close by have been really pushy to meet and at one stage I had several messages from men trying to figure out who I was, if they knew me and even had one guy accusing me of being his girlfriend. So anyone within 20 mile radius is a no for me. |
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By *man79Man
over a year ago
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There’s a girl lives within walking distance from me whom I meet every now and again. She’s not originally from the area and we but know it’s all about mutal fun. The way it should be! |
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"Depends very much on the person, nearly ran over a fabber in local Lidl car park yesterday
Normally though, would be very wary, too many idiots and people with no concept of boundaries. We are very careful who we meet. "
You do realise they play better when they haven't been run over with a car..... |
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"Depends very much on the person, nearly ran over a fabber in local Lidl car park yesterday
Normally though, would be very wary, too many idiots and people with no concept of boundaries. We are very careful who we meet.
You do realise they play better when they haven't been run over with a car....."
I swerved at the last minute obviously  |
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"Depends very much on the person, nearly ran over a fabber in local Lidl car park yesterday
Normally though, would be very wary, too many idiots and people with no concept of boundaries. We are very careful who we meet.
You do realise they play better when they haven't been run over with a car.....
I swerved at the last minute obviously "
Were u rubber neackin to get a better look? |
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"It depends on the person really. I've had msgs from a guy that thought that just because we were within 1/4 mile that we should be fuck buddies. He had no interest in finding out whether we would be a good match, that didn't seem to matter to him.
I block, he deletes his profile, starts a new one & we begin that cycle again."
 that is so annoying |
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"Depends very much on the person, nearly ran over a fabber in local Lidl car park yesterday
Normally though, would be very wary, too many idiots and people with no concept of boundaries. We are very careful who we meet.
You do realise they play better when they haven't been run over with a car.....
I swerved at the last minute obviously
Were u rubber neackin to get a better look?"
Nah, sure I've seen it all before  |
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"Depends very much on the person, nearly ran over a fabber in local Lidl car park yesterday
Normally though, would be very wary, too many idiots and people with no concept of boundaries. We are very careful who we meet.
You do realise they play better when they haven't been run over with a car.....
I swerved at the last minute obviously
Were u rubber neackin to get a better look?
Nah, sure I've seen it all before "
Oh so checked out there basket before! |
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For me it's not about distance or location but mainly discretion, I'm not originally from Waterford so not many people know me so any distance is fine.
Funnily enough had a message from someone not to long ago who lived in the same town I grew up in, been gone so long we didn't know who each other were, so said fuck it why not |
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"I got a messages from a lad who said I'll never look at u in work the same way again.. That's way too close.. "
You'll never look at him again in the same way either
Some things may be true but best left unsaid. |
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Only 5 mins away has suited us for a few years now. Easy to arrange quick last minute hr or so fun, for longer we tend to go away though as both have nosey neighbors. |
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