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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, hopefully  it can be tricky after all!
I've done this before, personally resulting in a wonderful friendship, so hopefully it will take off this time too for someone else!
Simply say that you're "in" and after a while message the name of two profiles that you like, who also post within the thread, to myself.
Note: Not just two profiles you like the look of, they have to join in on the thread! 
Preferably when/if the thread maxes out or at least when a good amount join in (you can't pick yourself sure ) and I'll post the picks on Friday!
I know some will think "why not just send them a message in the first place?" but not everyone is good at starting a conversation. That doesn't mean they're not worth talking to hopefully this can be a nice wee ice breaker for some!
Ultimately it's all for a bit of fun which you can't have enough of! As well as a platform to maybe help those who are a bit nervous |
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"Well, hopefully it can be tricky after all!
I've done this before, personally resulting in a wonderful friendship, so hopefully it will take off this time too for someone else!
Simply say that you're "in" and after a while message the name of two profiles that you like, who also post within the thread, to myself.
Note: Not just two profiles you like the look of, they have to join in on the thread!
Preferably when/if the thread maxes out or at least when a good amount join in (you can't pick yourself sure ) and I'll post the picks on Friday!
I know some will think "why not just send them a message in the first place?" but not everyone is good at starting a conversation. That doesn't mean they're not worth talking to hopefully this can be a nice wee ice breaker for some!
Ultimately it's all for a bit of fun which you can't have enough of! As well as a platform to maybe help those who are a bit nervous "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the deadline Pete? "
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deadline Pete?
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone "
We've missed you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deadline Pete?
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone "
And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deadline Pete?
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone
And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself? "
He should be
He sends the perfect first message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deadline Pete?
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone
And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself?
He should be
He sends the perfect first message "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the deadline Pete?
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone
And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself? "
Of course, I have to lead by example |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the deadline Pete?
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone
We've missed you "
You big softie 
Are you in, missy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deadline Pete?
I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse
With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone
We've missed you
You big softie
Are you in, missy? "
No. Only for you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!
Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend
I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!
So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me  |
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"Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!
Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend
I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!
So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me "
You only put up those that pick each other Or you put up everyone's choices even if there's no match? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!
Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend
I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!
So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me
You only put up those that pick each other Or you put up everyone's choices even if there's no match?"
Everyones!
Matches will be a nice wee bonus but it's to hopefully help break the ice for those who may be a little shy
All in the name of some flirty fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!
Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend
I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!
So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me
You only put up those that pick each other Or you put up everyone's choices even if there's no match?
Everyones!
Matches will be a nice wee bonus but it's to hopefully help break the ice for those who may be a little shy
All in the name of some flirty fun! "
If I match I propose......
Sorry I might be getting carried away with the day thats in it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I presume the key is to pick people you don’t normally chat with/know?"
You can do!
You can let someone you've not chatted to know you like the look of them or you can simply put a spring in the step of your bessie mate!
If just one thing comes from this I'd want it to be a smile on someone's face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Well that's everyone, filters permitting, messaged who had yet to pick! Sorry if I pestered anyone would hate to miss anyone out!
Hopefully even more to come before tomorrow afternoon
Thanks to everyone who joined in! Hopefully a bit of fun and flirtation headed everyone's way for the weekend! |
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