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over a year ago
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"All single guys out there, what's working for ye? And if ya have nothing to contriube don't comment "
Just an idea... might be better to ask girls this question. |
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"All single guys out there, what's working for ye? And if ya have nothing to contriube don't comment
Just an idea... might be better to ask girls this question. "
don't suggest that. A list as long as your arm will be given and you could do everything on it and still not get replies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All single guys out there, what's working for ye? And if ya have nothing to contriube don't comment
Just an idea... might be better to ask girls this question. "
Actually I think it's a better idea to have a look at the whole situation from a male perspective.
Us girls keep posting advice on these kind of threads and they just keep popping up.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I found worked for me and obviously its different for everyone.
I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
I stopped messaging any females that I saw and started to message those that really interested me and sent messaged I found interesting.
I also upgraded my photos.
I got involved on the forums and that helped hugely.
I know that approach wont be for everyone as i am usually in no huge rush to arrange a meet but it has improved my enjoyment of the site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I found worked for me and obviously its different for everyone.
I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
I stopped messaging any females that I saw and started to message those that really interested me and sent messaged I found interesting.
I also upgraded my photos.
I got involved on the forums and that helped hugely.
I know that approach wont be for everyone as i am usually in no huge rush to arrange a meet but it has improved my enjoyment of the site"
Cheers dude. Great advise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the profile first of all, respect the age and not looking for sm if on the profile, say more than just hi, send a face pic, dont rant if no reply, be yourself and dont take any of it too seriously. It is meant to be fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I found worked for me and obviously its different for everyone.
I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
I stopped messaging any females that I saw and started to message those that really interested me and sent messaged I found interesting.
I also upgraded my photos.
I got involved on the forums and that helped hugely.
I know that approach wont be for everyone as i am usually in no huge rush to arrange a meet but it has improved my enjoyment of the site"
When are you going to start Fab masterclasses for Fab newbies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise |
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise "
but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush. "
If someone started talking to me here about the weather I would super glue my underwear to my flange and retire |
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush.
If someone started talking to me here about the weather I would super glue my underwear to my flange and retire"
or small talk in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I found worked for me and obviously its different for everyone.
I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
I stopped messaging any females that I saw and started to message those that really interested me and sent messaged I found interesting.
I also upgraded my photos.
I got involved on the forums and that helped hugely.
I know that approach wont be for everyone as i am usually in no huge rush to arrange a meet but it has improved my enjoyment of the site
When are you going to start Fab masterclasses for Fab newbies "
I tried they were all enrolled in your profiles for newbs class already ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush. "
Hence why I said it wont be for everyone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush. "
Somehow I dont think that anyone is interested in talking about the weather.
It's just nice to make sure that you click with a person and avoid the meet being in any way awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Still learning myself but I suppose be yourself, be polite and be patient. Sooner or later you will click with someone.
Also dont depend on fab for your sex life, see it as a little treat every now and again  |
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush.
Somehow I dont think that anyone is interested in talking about the weather.
It's just nice to make sure that you click with a person and avoid the meet being in any way awkward. "
weather was an e.g.. I'm on about small talk in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush.
Somehow I dont think that anyone is interested in talking about the weather.
It's just nice to make sure that you click with a person and avoid the meet being in any way awkward. weather was an e.g.. I'm on about small talk in general. "
I feel like I need to try and start a coversation with someone on here about the weather now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush.
Somehow I dont think that anyone is interested in talking about the weather.
It's just nice to make sure that you click with a person and avoid the meet being in any way awkward. weather was an e.g.. I'm on about small talk in general. "
Me too. There's a HUGE amount of things to talk about without even saying a "hello" to someone.
Some people just click naturally without any effort. |
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush.
Somehow I dont think that anyone is interested in talking about the weather.
It's just nice to make sure that you click with a person and avoid the meet being in any way awkward. weather was an e.g.. I'm on about small talk in general.
Me too. There's a HUGE amount of things to talk about without even saying a "hello" to someone.
Some people just click naturally without any effort. "
this is the approach "fuck the small talk, my will is hard just looking at your pictures". That should work wonders. |
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush.
Somehow I dont think that anyone is interested in talking about the weather.
It's just nice to make sure that you click with a person and avoid the meet being in any way awkward. weather was an e.g.. I'm on about small talk in general.
Me too. There's a HUGE amount of things to talk about without even saying a "hello" to someone.
Some people just click naturally without any effort. this is the approach "fuck the small talk, my will is hard just looking at your pictures". That should work wonders. "
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By *eebawMan
over a year ago
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"What I found worked for me and obviously its different for everyone.
I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
I stopped messaging any females that I saw and started to message those that really interested me and sent messaged I found interesting.
I also upgraded my photos.
I got involved on the forums and that helped hugely.
I know that approach wont be for everyone as i am usually in no huge rush to arrange a meet but it has improved my enjoyment of the site"
Ye very good points I used to be like that and need to go back to them points i used to have good fun at socials parties and meet and greats . Great banter games chats etc and if fun was had that was a bonus. Yes this is a swinging site but theres a social side to swinging too most guys dont see this and I think thats why us bad guys get bad rep on here. I’m think I’m good at advice but bad at usein my own advice . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested."
Eh. What? |
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"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested.
Eh. What? "
a no reply can mean a message wasn't seen or bulk deleted. Happened me many times in the past. No reply message one, spoke to the same person some time later |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested.
Eh. What? a no reply can mean a message wasn't seen or bulk deleted. Happened me many times in the past. No reply message one, spoke to the same person some time later "
Oh ok I totally misread this. You mean the message wasn't replied to. I thought you meant the reply was no. Massive misunderstanding. Good thing we cleared that up cos I didn't wanna have to kick your arse up and down the street. Phew. |
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"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested.
Eh. What? a no reply can mean a message wasn't seen or bulk deleted. Happened me many times in the past. No reply message one, spoke to the same person some time later
Oh ok I totally misread this. You mean the message wasn't replied to. I thought you meant the reply was no. Massive misunderstanding. Good thing we cleared that up cos I didn't wanna have to kick your arse up and down the street. Phew. "
ye, message wasnt replied to but spoke the next time. Misunderstandings happen |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested.
Eh. What? a no reply can mean a message wasn't seen or bulk deleted. Happened me many times in the past. No reply message one, spoke to the same person some time later "
I get that, and will give a second or third chance if that looks to be the case, but not going to bombard someone with messages when they're clearly not interested. |
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By *kmanMan
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
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No cock pics!
A personality"
Seems to help lol.. plus accept that 95.6% of women and couples are not going to be interested in you.
Still leaves a lot that maybe are 
And don't take yourself too serious
I am off to find the 4.4% that might be  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested.
Eh. What? a no reply can mean a message wasn't seen or bulk deleted. Happened me many times in the past. No reply message one, spoke to the same person some time later
I get that, and will give a second or third chance if that looks to be the case, but not going to bombard someone with messages when they're clearly not interested."
Ah Mr Panda it only took ye bout 100 mesages with me |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested.
Eh. What? a no reply can mean a message wasn't seen or bulk deleted. Happened me many times in the past. No reply message one, spoke to the same person some time later
I get that, and will give a second or third chance if that looks to be the case, but not going to bombard someone with messages when they're clearly not interested.
Ah Mr Panda it only took ye bout 100 mesages with me "
Well yes of course, Lolly, but great people are worth fighting for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Patience, being able to say more in a first message than just "wanna fuck?" and being able to take no or no reply as an answer and just move on.a no reply doesn't always mean not interested."
True....   |
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"I stopped view Fab as a place to get meets for sex and started using it as another form of social interaction. A vast majority of my coversations on here are non sexual in nature, but it did start leading to better interactions which in turn lead to meets.
This is great advise but and it's a massive but, alot of men coming on here wanting sex and start their convos in exactly that fashion. They have no interest in talking about the weather etc, instead just getting straight to point, no beating round the Bush.
If someone started talking to me here about the weather I would super glue my underwear to my flange and retire"
You wear underwear ?? |
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I really think you need to be asking the females this question as well.
Heres what works for me
If you wouldn't say it to my face dont say it to me here. Just dont be an ass....wanna fuck,cock pics, pounding your pussy messages just dont work.
Behave normally ..... no magic formula. |
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As long as you're not a prick in an opening mail all should be ok but it's not that easy.
A big thing not been mentioned, it's massive, is location. It doesn't matter that you can drive. Certain personal are not interested. Secondly If a person doesn't accom, are you ok spending money on a hotel for a shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly I have tried to use Fab as another way of social connection as suggest in this forum but to crack that wall built up is almost impossible to breach. All my messages are friendly non sexual message. I have tried to compiliment there photos . Question is what am I doing wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly I have tried to use Fab as another way of social connection as suggest in this forum but to crack that wall built up is almost impossible to breach. All my messages are friendly non sexual message. I have tried to compiliment there photos . Question is what am I doing wrong"
U have 5 veris in 4 months nothing wrong with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly I have tried to use Fab as another way of social connection as suggest in this forum but to crack that wall built up is almost impossible to breach. All my messages are friendly non sexual message. I have tried to compiliment there photos . Question is what am I doing wrong"
Sorry just realized all from this weekend but all positive so you should be having fun soon enough |
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