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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey Irish Fabbers
So after a clever advertising campaign I managed to get a meet whilst in Dublin.
The build up was electrifying as our chats engaged our minds. Plans were changed so she could meet me. Butterflies lived in my stomach all on the day of the meet.
Hours turned into minutes before the meet. She arrived we went to my room. We had a glass of wine. And when I suggested for her to get changed to play she reluctantly said I wasn’t the type she normally goes for and left.
She told me before the meet that she had a couple of meets and when she arrived she didn’t feel it with the guy and left. But said that wouldn’t happen to me.
So it seems you can make someone’s brain into mush with online chat but if the eyes dont like what they see it’s not going to happen.
In the words of Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman she has made a BIG mistake. A BIG BIG mistake. I hope she wakes up this morning with the biggest regret.
Anyway thanks Dublin for what could has been.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you intimating that she should have gone through with playing despite her not wanting to having met you face to face?
Is that what's really going on here or am I missing something?
I sincerely hope that is not the case.... Regardless of whether she left you with the biggest case of blue balls you ever may have had.
Surely it was HER choice and she exercised that by leaving. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yep completely missing the point of the post.
You can engage the persons brain but if the eyes aren’t interested or the vibes not there nothing’s gonna happen.
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"Yep completely missing the point of the post.
You can engage the persons brain but if the eyes aren’t interested or the vibes not there nothing’s gonna happen.
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It happens ... its shite but it happens. This is why a coffee meet is so important. There just has to be a bit of bada bing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is the whole point of a social meet surely. Going alone with a stranger to a hotel room and then rejecting them isn't a good idea in my book. "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"This is the whole point of a social meet surely. Going alone with a stranger to a hotel room and then rejecting them isn't a good idea in my book. "
ya, it's better done at the hotel bar, shorter escape route.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of interest how nonchalantly did you suggest she change for play?
I find this the most interesting part of your post, that you literally told some one to get changed 
Thingsjust take their course you don't push lad  |
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By *on11Man
over a year ago
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"Yep completely missing the point of the post.
You can engage the persons brain but if the eyes aren’t interested or the vibes not there nothing’s gonna happen.
It happens ... its shite but it happens. This is why a coffee meet is so important. There just has to be a bit of bada bing "
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Second that, plan for a social meet and if the sparks fly then perhaps it turns into a play meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of interest how nonchalantly did you suggest she change for play?
I find this the most interesting part of your post, that you literally told some one to get changed
Thingsjust take their course you don't push lad "
This is what I picked up on too. What did you hope she was away to get changed into??
Open that up to the Fab ladies, if a guy suggested you get changed on your meet what would your thoughts be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the case for sure that you learn more in a handshake than in 6 months of online texting. And the op is right online text can get so hot and heavy we forget we don't know the person from Adam.
Fair dues to you for taking the rejection on the chin and not getting stroppy. Its everyone's decision whether or not to proceed.
Think you probably have realised for next time a coffee meet first is an excellent first meet. It will tell you if there's a spark and between then and that bedroom meet the texting will be even more fun. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Out of interest how nonchalantly did you suggest she change for play?
I find this the most interesting part of your post, that you literally told some one to get changed
Thingsjust take their course you don't push lad
This is what I picked up on too. What did you hope she was away to get changed into??
Open that up to the Fab ladies, if a guy suggested you get changed on your meet what would your thoughts be?"
Why change if the clothes come down anyway? |
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"Out of interest how nonchalantly did you suggest she change for play?
I find this the most interesting part of your post, that you literally told some one to get changed
Thingsjust take their course you don't push lad
This is what I picked up on too. What did you hope she was away to get changed into??
Open that up to the Fab ladies, if a guy suggested you get changed on your meet what would your thoughts be?
Why change if the clothes come down anyway? "
Yeah, the whole changing to play thing seemed surplus to requirements for me as well. The whole idea of her getting naked and then putting something else on would be messing with my head altogether.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think that suggesting that it was time to "get into something more comfortable" was the problem. That was a symptom. Clearly the click didn't happen for her.
Much better to have these glasses of wine in the bar first.
I'd also be wary of meeting someone who clearly isn't that good at working out what she wants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a social first.
Then you won't be out of pocket or be in an awkward situation .
I sense a bit of bitterness there though   "
I thought I was the only one that read his comments as having that slant too. |
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I'd actually feel like a hooker if someone told me to change for play. Maybe op you shot yourself in the foot women like to be wowed not told told to change for play.
I don't blame her for bolting for the door |
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"I'd actually feel like a hooker if someone told me to change for play. Maybe op you shot yourself in the foot women like to be wowed not told told to change for play.
I don't blame her for bolting for the door "
I'd never tell you to change, just to get them off ya!  |
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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago
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Am I the only 1 a little cynical reading this? She went to the hotel & went straight to the room instead of the bar for a drink. Surely meeting face to face she would have known OP wasn't her type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey Irish Fabbers
So after a clever advertising campaign I managed to get a meet whilst in Dublin.
The build up was electrifying as our chats engaged our minds. Plans were changed so she could meet me. Butterflies lived in my stomach all on the day of the meet.
Hours turned into minutes before the meet. She arrived we went to my room. We had a glass of wine. And when I suggested for her to get changed to play she reluctantly said I wasn’t the type she normally goes for and left.
She told me before the meet that she had a couple of meets and when she arrived she didn’t feel it with the guy and left. But said that wouldn’t happen to me.
So it seems you can make someone’s brain into mush with online chat but if the eyes dont like what they see it’s not going to happen.
In the words of Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman she has made a BIG mistake. A BIG BIG mistake. I hope she wakes up this morning with the biggest regret.
Anyway thanks Dublin for what could has been.
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Is there a point to this? |
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"Am I the only 1 a little cynical reading this? She went to the hotel & went straight to the room instead of the bar for a drink. Surely meeting face to face she would have known OP wasn't her type. "
I smell BS too  |
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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago
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"Am I the only 1 a little cynical reading this? She went to the hotel & went straight to the room instead of the bar for a drink. Surely meeting face to face she would have known OP wasn't her type.
I smell BS too "
Looking sympathy shag? |
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Lots of girls go straight to the bedroom. It's why I wont have sex with them, cause they wont do the tea meet first. Also I dont drink so if they want to go to the bar then they can go on their own, or go with their bf or something. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We had talked about a certain outfit for play time. And for obvious reasons she wasn’t going to wear it to thecmeet but get chsnged. Hence me asking if she wanted to get changed |
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"Lots of girls go straight to the bedroom. It's why I wont have sex with them, cause they wont do the tea meet first. Also I dont drink so if they want to go to the bar then they can go on their own, or go with their bf or something."
I think it's madness for a lady or a man to go straight to a hotel room,without having a tea or a mineral before hand...and surprised that you experienced, many lady's that do this.  |
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"We had talked about a certain outfit for play time. And for obvious reasons she wasn’t going to wear it to thecmeet but get chsnged. Hence me asking if she wanted to get changed "
Maybe if you muzzled her neck, kissed her behind the ear,carressed her boobs, stroked the inside of her thigh, kissed her passionately before you clicked your fingers for her to get changed things may have been slightly different. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We had talked about a certain outfit for play time. And for obvious reasons she wasn’t going to wear it to thecmeet but get chsnged. Hence me asking if she wanted to get changed
Maybe if you muzzled her neck, kissed her behind the ear,carressed her boobs, stroked the inside of her thigh, kissed her passionately before you clicked your fingers for her to get changed things may have been slightly different."
Who said I clicked my fingers?
Thinking about it I think I didn’t pick a good enough wine. |
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"I think it's madness for a lady or a man to go straight to a hotel room,without having a tea or a mineral before hand...and surprised that you experienced, many lady's that do this. "
My verifications for a woman would be "Met her for the first time today, we had a lovely time, grabbed a coffee and tea"
and I would be between verifications that read "Got the chance to meet this girl tonight, don't be put off by her being shy at first, once you get her naked it all changes, great at sucking cock, bring your A game", and "this little slut knows what to do and knows what happens if she doesnt do it till next time x"
kind of veris.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it, I am just saying it because from my experience the girls who stick to the meet first and no sex on first meet, are probably a handfull on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had talked about a certain outfit for play time. And for obvious reasons she wasn’t going to wear it to thecmeet but get chsnged. Hence me asking if she wanted to get changed
Maybe if you muzzled her neck, kissed her behind the ear,carressed her boobs, stroked the inside of her thigh, kissed her passionately before you clicked your fingers for her to get changed things may have been slightly different.
Who said I clicked my fingers?
Thinking about it I think I didn’t pick a good enough wine. "
No and the whine hasn't been particularly good either.  |
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"Lots of girls go straight to the bedroom. It's why I wont have sex with them, cause they wont do the tea meet first. Also I dont drink so if they want to go to the bar then they can go on their own, or go with their bf or something."
Yeah if someone I fancied wanted to go straight to the bedroom with me I’d also make it clear that sex was now off the agenda .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well done OP for taking it on the chin. You've been well and truly stripped and layed out bare on here which isn't unusual. Too many pass judgement on minimal information. Not many who posted on here would have admitted anything like that so well done for drawing them out. |
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"We had talked about a certain outfit for play time. And for obvious reasons she wasn’t going to wear it to thecmeet but get chsnged. Hence me asking if she wanted to get changed
Maybe if you muzzled her neck, kissed her behind the ear,carressed her boobs, stroked the inside of her thigh, kissed her passionately before you clicked your fingers for her to get changed things may have been slightly different."
Jaysus, if she needs a muzzle on her then I'd definitely stay away. Feck that craic. My nuts are too precious for that. |
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"Hey Irish Fabbers
So after a clever advertising campaign I managed to get a meet whilst in Dublin.
The build up was electrifying as our chats engaged our minds. Plans were changed so she could meet me. Butterflies lived in my stomach all on the day of the meet.
Hours turned into minutes before the meet. She arrived we went to my room. We had a glass of wine. And when I suggested for her to get changed to play she reluctantly said I wasn’t the type she normally goes for and left.
She told me before the meet that she had a couple of meets and when she arrived she didn’t feel it with the guy and left. But said that wouldn’t happen to me.
So it seems you can make someone’s brain into mush with online chat but if the eyes dont like what they see it’s not going to happen.
In the words of Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman she has made a BIG mistake. A BIG BIG mistake. I hope she wakes up this morning with the biggest regret.
Anyway thanks Dublin for what could has been.
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OP it does not sound like she was reluctant to leave(she left). You didnt give her the chance to connect when you suggested she change,, Bad move on your part. The tone of your post gives the impression of a bitter rant brought on by rejection. Get over it and move on. |
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"If someone told me to get changed to play id be out the door. If there was an attraction i would like to think we would undress each other whilst snogging."
This is perfect answer and was my first thought....
2nd was....
Hasn't sexual attraction always been a mix of phsycial and intellectual.
I mean if a hot lad or lass was insulting and had no charm would you sleep with them, or, if a person you didn't fancy was really good fun would that tip the scales.
3rd, hotel room meets are for people you already know!!!! |
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