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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Human nature to compare ourselves I guess, we are all different and all have our own good and bad points, at this stage of my life I know I'm unlikely to make it as a supermodel, no point stressing over things I can't change. |
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"I'm guilty of that too. Then I just don't message saying I'm not in her league  "
Everybody will put their best pic up here, to display themselves in the best possible way. But, our bodies change all the time, from lean teens, to toned early twenties, to pregnant bellies, dad bods, back to toned with stretch marks. And scars. Balding, hairy, blond, grey,.. But we'll only display our best pics. So, if you want to feel great about your body image, OP, arrange a pro photo session. You'll get some great pics,and will look fantastic. And if you don't want to go the pro route,... Many up market beauty shops, will do your (man's) makeup for free (grafton st), and get a friend to take some head shots. Because you're worth it. |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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Haha yeah, I've done that with profiles that catch my eye.
And I will admit that if it's a consistent list of six packs and muscles I kinda just accept that my bit of excess around the middle probably won't cut it and I move on 
However, if a chat is established with a lady and we're clicking, it doesn't really affect me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually make a point of NOT looking at the profiles of previous hook ups. I am me.... "dad bod" and all..... Definitely not a gym bod.....but I bring what I have /am to a potential meet.
I don't see any point in comparing myself with anyone else. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I actually make a point of NOT looking at the profiles of previous hook ups. I am me.... "dad bod" and all..... Definitely not a gym bod.....but I bring what I have /am to a potential meet.
I don't see any point in comparing myself with anyone else. "
And what a dad bod you have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read the veris and check out the profile of who has given them but it wouldn’t stop me from messaging. We’ve met lots of different personalities and body types so I figure other people might like to mix up their choices once in a while too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually make a point of NOT looking at the profiles of previous hook ups. I am me.... "dad bod" and all..... Definitely not a gym bod.....but I bring what I have /am to a potential meet.
I don't see any point in comparing myself with anyone else.
And what a dad bod you have "
 
Too nice of you to say.... That's been achieved by many weekends of gin and food and the occasional horizontal jogging marathon  |
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