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over a year ago
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hey people I,m straight but have met couples where guy bi ( but str8 around me) and have had great veri from them.However i was due to meet one couple,but the changed their mind because they saw a bi couple verification even though i,m straight, anyone had this problem before ? |
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"hey people I,m straight but have met couples where guy bi ( but str8 around me) and have had great veri from them.However i was due to meet one couple,but the changed their mind because they saw a bi couple verification even though i,m straight, anyone had this problem before ?"
you will be surprised how many couples are fully bi or into trans girls  |
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over a year ago
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Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck  |
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck "
Yeah but nothing should surprise you on this site anymore  |
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck "
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities"
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore "
Ya big whore ye! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore "
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup"
I do seem to have a very dangerous hobby - rub dirty cups on against my genitals. Should wise up by now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup"
God you love that cup don't you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup
God you love that cup don't you "
I'll let you in on a little secret... I have more than one  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup"
U have a furry cup |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup
U have a furry cup "
It was only a matter of time.......... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup
U have a furry cup
It was only a matter of time.........."
I know ill grab my coat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore
Well you dont know where that cups been... was it dishwashed or hand washed....
Personally I only drink out of my own cup
U have a furry cup
It was only a matter of time..........
I know ill grab my coat "
Close the door on your way out.... its cold any I just waxed me cup |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ya can’t win. Say ur str8 and bi couples won’t touch ya. Say ur bi and str8 couples won’t touch ya. Most women won’t contemplate bi guys. They all can comprehend that bi guys can act and perform dependant on who they are with. I could quite easily go with a str8 couple and play it totally str8. Duh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ya can’t win. Say ur str8 and bi couples won’t touch ya. Say ur bi and str8 couples won’t touch ya. Most women won’t contemplate bi guys. They all can comprehend that bi guys can act and perform dependant on who they are with. I could quite easily go with a str8 couple and play it totally str8. Duh "
I asked a straight woman from here why this may be the case and was told that there is a big perception that bi guys fuck bare alot and that this is the big turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ya can’t win. Say ur str8 and bi couples won’t touch ya. Say ur bi and str8 couples won’t touch ya. Most women won’t contemplate bi guys. They all can comprehend that bi guys can act and perform dependant on who they are with. I could quite easily go with a str8 couple and play it totally str8. Duh
I asked a straight woman from here why this may be the case and was told that there is a big perception that bi guys fuck bare alot and that this is the big turn off. "
Which is just that a perception. And probably not true. If anything the opposite. It doesn’t matter anyhow. I switch from bi to str8on my profile for a bitta craic and to see what people say/ think wen I contact them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck "
What's wrong with a hard working girl.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ya can’t win. Say ur str8 and bi couples won’t touch ya. Say ur bi and str8 couples won’t touch ya. Most women won’t contemplate bi guys. They all can comprehend that bi guys can act and perform dependant on who they are with. I could quite easily go with a str8 couple and play it totally str8. Duh
I asked a straight woman from here why this may be the case and was told that there is a big perception that bi guys fuck bare alot and that this is the big turn off.
Which is just that a perception. And probably not true. If anything the opposite. It doesn’t matter anyhow. I switch from bi to str8on my profile for a bitta craic and to see what people say/ think wen I contact them "
True or not it seems to be the view of many. I just stick with bi and if someone doesnt like it I couldnt give a bollox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck "
Does that mean they are up for barebacking everyone who doesn't "look like they've been with half the site" I wonder? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hey people I,m straight but have met couples where guy bi ( but str8 around me) and have had great veri from them.However i was due to meet one couple,but the changed their mind because they saw a bi couple verification even though i,m straight, anyone had this problem before ?"
Their loss. Just forget about it and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Does that mean they are up for barebacking everyone who doesn't "look like they've been with half the site" I wonder? "
Is there a specific number that they bareback to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hey people I,m straight but have met couples where guy bi ( but str8 around me) and have had great veri from them.However i was due to meet one couple,but the changed their mind because they saw a bi couple verification even though i,m straight, anyone had this problem before ?"
Yup. I'm never sure whether it's because the guy fears you may get an uncontrollable urge to take his ass virginity or want to gobble his knob or there's a misconception that bi-guys are a greater sti risk.
Probably a bit of both and you just have to go with the flow.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Does that mean they are up for barebacking everyone who doesn't "look like they've been with half the site" I wonder?
Is there a specific number that they bareback to?"
Presumably as many as you like so long as they haven't lots of veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Does that mean they are up for barebacking everyone who doesn't "look like they've been with half the site" I wonder?
Is there a specific number that they bareback to?
Presumably as many as you like so long as they haven't lots of veris "
That old loophole! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a woman was sat in my lap facing me , straddling me , legs around my back , kissing me as we moved against each other , pretty sure a bi thought would be the last thing entering her ( mind) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
What's wrong with a hard working girl. "
What exactly are you trying to say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Does that mean they are up for barebacking everyone who doesn't "look like they've been with half the site" I wonder? "
Very good point! |
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"Very few people actually read or care about veris themselves. More about the amount of them and who wrote them.
I used to have a lot of veris displayed from people who I met at a meet and greet, next thing I know I'm getting messages from random profiles saying "I'd be interested to fuck you, but we must use condoms as looks like you've been with half a site"
Like what the actual fuck
Can ya bleech your lady parts before I get there....
I am interested in your sandwich capabilities
I know right. Having a drink or a coffee with people just makes me into this giant cluster of sti's. What a whore "
Besides, I don't understand why a "whore" is still an insult? Especially on a site like this. I, personally, love women with (a lot of) experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hey people I,m straight but have met couples where guy bi ( but str8 around me) and have had great veri from them.However i was due to meet one couple,but the changed their mind because they saw a bi couple verification even though i,m straight, anyone had this problem before ?"
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Personally I wouldn’t worry about it.
Just carry on and enjoy.
I know I’m an old fella now but I do get the odd reply from females/couples.
I have to smile when they say they wouldn’t meet bi people.
Then u look at their veri,s and the have met a “Straight” man who has messsged me to meet as he Bi...
That “Straight” man could b a single male or part of a “Straight” couple... Some people are very caught up with labels... But each to their own...
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By *inion42Man
over a year ago
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Well i just read the first few posts, how can you meet someone if your not verified, I’m actually quite shy at times, yet everyone requires verification, bit like the film catch 22, or the chicken and egg, I’m quite reluctant to actually message anyone anymore, with lists of this and that, so in effect, has the word respect gone out the window, with everyone wanting verification, or have been hung out to dry or stood up or had their time wasted, just my 2 cents worth, not everyone is a time waster |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i just read the first few posts, how can you meet someone if your not verified, I’m actually quite shy at times, yet everyone requires verification, bit like the film catch 22, or the chicken and egg, I’m quite reluctant to actually message anyone anymore, with lists of this and that, so in effect, has the word respect gone out the window, with everyone wanting verification, or have been hung out to dry or stood up or had their time wasted, just my 2 cents worth, not everyone is a time waster "
Well I agreed to meet a guy before Xmas who had no verifications, because I figured we all had to start somewhere. He walked into coffee shop. I stood up to shake his hand, he looked me up and down, says "no thanks you're not for me" turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of coffee shop.
So would you blame me not meeting anyone that isn't verified? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i just read the first few posts, how can you meet someone if your not verified, I’m actually quite shy at times, yet everyone requires verification, bit like the film catch 22, or the chicken and egg, I’m quite reluctant to actually message anyone anymore, with lists of this and that, so in effect, has the word respect gone out the window, with everyone wanting verification, or have been hung out to dry or stood up or had their time wasted, just my 2 cents worth, not everyone is a time waster
Well I agreed to meet a guy before Xmas who had no verifications, because I figured we all had to start somewhere. He walked into coffee shop. I stood up to shake his hand, he looked me up and down, says "no thanks you're not for me" turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of coffee shop.
So would you blame me not meeting anyone that isn't verified? "
Don't think it's to do with him not being verified, but more so him being a complete asshole.
Verified guys can be assholes too.
It happens quite often - some guy being a complete know in his messages while his verifications state what a lovely gent he is |
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I think many people foolishly put too much faith in what others say rather than sussing people out for themselves. A bit of conversation with someone should give a fair idea of what they're like in reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i just read the first few posts, how can you meet someone if your not verified, I’m actually quite shy at times, yet everyone requires verification, bit like the film catch 22, or the chicken and egg, I’m quite reluctant to actually message anyone anymore, with lists of this and that, so in effect, has the word respect gone out the window, with everyone wanting verification, or have been hung out to dry or stood up or had their time wasted, just my 2 cents worth, not everyone is a time waster
Well I agreed to meet a guy before Xmas who had no verifications, because I figured we all had to start somewhere. He walked into coffee shop. I stood up to shake his hand, he looked me up and down, says "no thanks you're not for me" turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of coffee shop.
So would you blame me not meeting anyone that isn't verified?
Don't think it's to do with him not being verified, but more so him being a complete asshole.
Verified guys can be assholes too.
It happens quite often - some guy being a complete know in his messages while his verifications state what a lovely gent he is "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think many people foolishly put too much faith in what others say rather than sussing people out for themselves. A bit of conversation with someone should give a fair idea of what they're like in reality. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hey people I,m straight but have met couples where guy bi ( but str8 around me) and have had great veri from them.However i was due to meet one couple,but the changed their mind because they saw a bi couple verification even though i,m straight, anyone had this problem before ?"
Yeah does my head in, the amount of couples that mail me back saying sorry there partner isn't bi, I'm like yeah just because I'm bi doesn't mean I'm going to assault your husband. Madness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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one of the first meets I had was with a couple where the guy was bi. never interacted with him in any sexual manner, was completely respectful to me in that manner. However I did get a lot of no thanks from other couples as well as women as the thought I played with him too. Its people making assumptions and in my experience better off staying away from people like that on here. |
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"one of the first meets I had was with a couple where the guy was bi. never interacted with him in any sexual manner, was completely respectful to me in that manner. However I did get a lot of no thanks from other couples as well as women as the thought I played with him too. Its people making assumptions and in my experience better off staying away from people like that on here."
Isn't that a great filter tho? |
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"one of the first meets I had was with a couple where the guy was bi. never interacted with him in any sexual manner, was completely respectful to me in that manner. However I did get a lot of no thanks from other couples as well as women as the thought I played with him too. Its people making assumptions and in my experience better off staying away from people like that on here.
Isn't that a great filter tho? "
one of the best filters on this site. pity it cant be applied as an actual filter however |
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