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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
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I'm throwing it out there. I'd hazard a guess that a lot of singles have different goals on each site. I would further speculate that the standards between the date and the fab meet would be different. I'd hazard a guess that most single peeps would not date their normal fab meet. I think the majority on here is fun friendly but no strings. Dating is all strings. Two different things, so probably not an either or for most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I have been on both. Fab because I enjoy the group/kink experience (was previously in a swinging type couple). Dating site because I am looking for the companionship/friendship/intimacy/sex/female company.
I have come off fab if I'm dating someone. I would assume that mist couples on fab found their partner in the vanilla world. So the two arnt that incompatible really. |
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OP, I think it depends on the people involved really. Some people have met on a swinging site and got into relationships that have worked and remained swinging,
Others use it as a Kane exploration and would mention it to a vanilla partner. I think is anyone joins either sites with expectations then then they can be disappointed.
For me join either site have fun with no expectations and no one can be disappointed but if you “the one” then don’t change anything and the relationship ship will work out.
Now I’m not expert but that’s my opinion for what it’s worth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the dating site really.
What a site calls itself and what its used for a two different things.
Fab for example is called a swinging site but is used by people who are not swingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the dating site really.
What a site calls itself and what its used for a two different things.
Fab for example is called a swinging site but is used by people who are not swingers"
Depends on what your definition of a swinger is? |
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
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Never seen you on POF? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the dating site really.
What a site calls itself and what its used for a two different things.
Fab for example is called a swinging site but is used by people who are not swingers
Depends on what your definition of a swinger is?"
I would guess that whatever it is, it's not dial a ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
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Reead my profile. My personal answer to your question is there.
When one has certain kins - dating sites become useless  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
Reead my profile. My personal answer to your question is there.
When one has certain kins - dating sites become useless "
Only if you are embarrassed or ashamed to put them on youd dating site profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
Reead my profile. My personal answer to your question is there.
When one has certain kins - dating sites become useless
Only if you are embarrassed or ashamed to put them on youd dating site profile. "
Not really no. I prefer finding a person who matches them myself as anyone and everyone will promise you the stars and the moon and when it comes to actually following through- it all goes to shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
Reead my profile. My personal answer to your question is there.
When one has certain kins - dating sites become useless
Only if you are embarrassed or ashamed to put them on youd dating site profile.
Not really no. I prefer finding a person who matches them myself as anyone and everyone will promise you the stars and the moon and when it comes to actually following through- it all goes to shit "
*who matches my kinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the dating site really.
What a site calls itself and what its used for a two different things.
Fab for example is called a swinging site but is used by people who are not swingers
Depends on what your definition of a swinger is?"
Well you could say that about anything really.
But if you take the general definition if swinging then alot of us do not fit into that.
I also wouldnt consider myself a swinger in anyway but I use a "swinging" site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
Reead my profile. My personal answer to your question is there.
When one has certain kins - dating sites become useless
Only if you are embarrassed or ashamed to put them on youd dating site profile.
Not really no. I prefer finding a person who matches them myself as anyone and everyone will promise you the stars and the moon and when it comes to actually following through- it all goes to shit
*who matches my kinks"
Well if your kink is your priority, then that would make sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the dating site really.
What a site calls itself and what its used for a two different things.
Fab for example is called a swinging site but is used by people who are not swingers
Depends on what your definition of a swinger is?
Well you could say that about anything really.
But if you take the general definition if swinging then alot of us do not fit into that.
I also wouldnt consider myself a swinger in anyway but I use a "swinging" site"
The traditional view of swinging is couples exchanging partners, the keys in the bowl type thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most dating sites have become more nsa sex oriented then before. Even tinder is used for hook-ups more now then before. My other half was on there a few years and found a ton of fabbers. POF even though it famously got rid of it's casual encounters is still used for NSA.
I wouldn't class a lot of people on here as swingers in the oldest phase of the term. Most are just here for NSA sex. Fab is just another way for them to get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
Reead my profile. My personal answer to your question is there.
When one has certain kins - dating sites become useless
Only if you are embarrassed or ashamed to put them on youd dating site profile.
Not really no. I prefer finding a person who matches them myself as anyone and everyone will promise you the stars and the moon and when it comes to actually following through- it all goes to shit
*who matches my kinks
Well if your kink is your priority, then that would make sense. "
I've ignored that side of me for many years and thought I was doing the "right thing", but heck, every single relationship I was in very quickly lost my interest in sex. Purely because it was vanilla. Once the sex goes - you just dont look at the person you're with in a same light any more. And why commit to something that will only lead you into a prolonged unhappiness and wanting to get it elsewhere behind the person's who's supposed to matter the most back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of being on a swinger site ... and dating profiles... but only looking for sex .... bigger net??
Either you are on a swinger site and want to experience swinging or be on a dating site and date people...
Right??
Reead my profile. My personal answer to your question is there.
When one has certain kins - dating sites become useless
Only if you are embarrassed or ashamed to put them on youd dating site profile.
Not really no. I prefer finding a person who matches them myself as anyone and everyone will promise you the stars and the moon and when it comes to actually following through- it all goes to shit
*who matches my kinks
Well if your kink is your priority, then that would make sense.
I've ignored that side of me for many years and thought I was doing the "right thing", but heck, every single relationship I was in very quickly lost my interest in sex. Purely because it was vanilla. Once the sex goes - you just dont look at the person you're with in a same light any more. And why commit to something that will only lead you into a prolonged unhappiness and wanting to get it elsewhere behind the person's who's supposed to matter the most back? "
Totally agree with everything missus has said!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was on tinder for 3 days.
Worse then cattle market.
Back here after being off for a while.
Nothing has changed.
I'll just become a nun.    "
I lasted about a week. Genuinely can't see how and why anyone can last on it any longer |
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"Was on tinder for 3 days.
Worse then cattle market.
Back here after being off for a while.
Nothing has changed.
I'll just become a nun.
I lasted about a week. Genuinely can't see how and why anyone can last on it any longer "
Tell the fecking truth!
The convent threw you out for debaucherous endeavours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was on tinder for 3 days.
Worse then cattle market.
Back here after being off for a while.
Nothing has changed.
I'll just become a nun.
I lasted about a week. Genuinely can't see how and why anyone can last on it any longer
Tell the fecking truth!
The convent threw you out for debaucherous endeavours "
Profile is actually still floating around as I deleted the app and forgot to delete the profile itself... now I just can't bear the thought of having to download it again to attempt to remember the password to make it dissapear for good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to chat with people on this and see how they tick with the possibility of meeting up for some fun!! I'm not looking for a relationship!! And actually have had some good fun off pof! It just depends on how you click with who you meet???? |
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