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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom? |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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No i don't think it gets boring infact it only gets better i was lucky to meet someone on here 7mts ago and have meet up very regular ever since even tho he left fab over Christmas  |
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Not really into repeat meets unless it's been an exceptional one and they are few and far between .As a couple we don't feel the need to meet same people repeatedly, perhaps it's different for singles tho. |
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If you meet the same person regularly there is a big chance it could develop to more then just sex. If I meet somebody in dublin, it's not near enough to be a regular thing which suits alot better in a sexual context? Could we meet more then once? Of course but we won't be meeting very regularly. The flipside is you meet somebody on your doorstep, you can see one another to much. Its different for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No i don't think it gets boring infact it only gets better i was lucky to meet someone on here 7mts ago and have meet up very regular ever since even tho he left fab over Christmas "
I concur.
Played with a lovely couple repeatly for years. Sex got better and better. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.
To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.
To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then. "
Sage words as always DH  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.
To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then.
Sage words as always DH "
Love the fresh meat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.
To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then. "
Or younger lol |
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"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.
To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then.
Sage words as always DH
Love the fresh meat "
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on the peeps involved. I think boredom is less of a problem than emotional attachment that could sneak in.
To keep it fresh and light avoid too frequent meeting and throw in some fresh meat now and then. "
Here here.. the spice of life is key  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet
Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr
When they stop is really between the two people meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet
Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr
When they stop is really between the two people meeting"
Im still waiting for our meet lol  haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet
Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr
When they stop is really between the two people meeting
Im still waiting for our meet lol haha"
Still waiting for that mail lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has a different opinnion of how regular they meet
Some are weekly monthly .some are only a handful times a yr
When they stop is really between the two people meeting
Im still waiting for our meet lol haha
Still waiting for that mail lol "
I would be more than willing to mail you but it says i cant contact you lol this makes me sad x |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom? "
Run forest run |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
Run forest run "
CJ what steps would you take ?
“ great big ones out that door “ |
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom? "
Not interested in repeat meets other than socially - which in our view is an equally valid reason for remaining on Fab.
It's not a question of getting boring - more a case of us swinging for the thrill of fucking strangers and exploring more the lifestyle. We never understood the interest in meeting the same folk for sex. Takes away the spontaneity. Hence the vast majority of our meets occur in France or Spain. There have been exceptions however ......
Fortunately Fab is a broad church and everyone's desires and preferences are equally valid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom? "
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom "
All of the above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom
All of the above "
A similar mindset is a must too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom
All of the above
A similar mindset is a must too "
And having no inhibitions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom
All of the above
A similar mindset is a must too
And having no inhibitions "
Also true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom "
Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom
Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks "
LEGO is great cos you can always add to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom
Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks "
I don't have kids |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
They can be great. So long as not too frequent. And you mix things up a bit.
Toys and/or another person brought into the mix help stem the boredom
Note to self buy some toys ! Any recommendations Lego or Tonka trucks
LEGO is great cos you can always add to it "
Good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom? "
If you meet the right person or couple... repeat meets can be sizzling |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom?
If you meet the right person or couple... repeat meets can be sizzling "
So true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Naw you'll get bored. Send her my way ??
I highly highly doubt that! And no way
Sharing is caring
Plenty is sharing goes on in Geordie's playroom "
You have a playroom? Mmmmmm |
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"So let’s say you have had a great meet and all is good, then you repeat and repeat again....
How many is to many or should you move on ?
Does regularity breed boredom? "
finding a regular playmate is fun,you tend to find the more you meet someone the more comfortable you become with them and I always find they are more likely indulge you in all your fantasies .
You just need to be careful that feelings dont come into it if its just casual sex you want |
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Thread revival time....
Definitely like repeat meets,
The FB I’ve found on here started as quite a vanilla meet, slowly it’s got kinkier once trust was gained, boundaries and limits are being pushed and tested.
She’s now turning into a very naughty lady indeed
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Some, due to distance or circumstance, I've been quite content to have met just once or twice and leave it at that, others I've met regularly and enjoyed multiple times. One is now a fixture in my life and still gives me giddy goosebumps, even after 3 years I don't think anyone's ever become boring... Even the two I regret having met weren't boring (sociopaths maybe, but hardly boring). Boredom is bred by repetition, but jeez... Who does the same thing over and over? Life and sex is an adventure, and just because the people you share it with stay the same doesn't mean you do exactly the same things with them every time. That's just lack of imagination! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's repeating...it's heating ... personally l think people get way more relaxed and comfortable and trusting with each other and limits evaporate...
Definitely you become more adventurous too "
.....l think so ...plus a huge thing about it .. to me anyway...is that both know that each want to be there....that they both can't wait for it to happen.... |
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