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Why is it that people can't be honest
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as people say they want to hear the truth, when they hear it - they become defensive and best defence is to attack one.
So everyone just sticks to manners and being polite which is nice, but a big load of shit at the same time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The breakfast club threads? Yea I always think that too while I'm chompin down on a big greasy fry up trying to comprehend eating birdseed, thinly spread I can't believe it's not butter on rivita toast and low fat organic grapefruit juice for breaky posts, is anyone 100% honest on or off fab in general really? Myself excluded of course  anyway chin up girl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab"
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why can't people be honest?
A variety of reasons, including - to get what they want, to avoid the potential negative consequences of honesty, force of habit, self-delusion, or to spare the feelings of others.
Take your pick, but I'm guessing the last one doesn't apply on fab. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Why can't people be honest?
A variety of reasons, including - to get what they want, to avoid the potential negative consequences of honesty, force of habit, self-delusion, or to spare the feelings of others.
Take your pick, but I'm guessing the last one doesn't apply on fab. "
And here was i tbinking u didnt care  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lying. Why do we do it.
Low self esteem
Been hurt in life experiences so put up walls.
To protect the one we "love"??.
We have grown up in a society that lies.
We were lied to as a child by our parents about Santa,tooth fairy etc.
It's not nice.
But we are all guilty of it.
Rather its little white lies to big black thunder clouds of deceit.
We are all adults on here ye?,
So would you sit down at your dinner table and tell your friends and family that aren't into this lifestyle that you are on here.??.
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If only eh, find it ridiculous myself. Why lie if the aim is to be laid bare (we hope) before the person. This should be the one place you can be completely truthful.... theres nothing to hide behind if the seduction works  |
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"Lying. Why do we do it.
Low self esteem
Been hurt in life experiences so put up walls.
To protect the one we "love"??.
We have grown up in a society that lies.
We were lied to as a child by our parents about Santa,tooth fairy etc.
It's not nice.
But we are all guilty of it.
Rather its little white lies to big black thunder clouds of deceit.
We are all adults on here ye?,
So would you sit down at your dinner table and tell your friends and family that aren't into this lifestyle that you are on here.??.
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yes I've told them I'm on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here
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Why did you get the abuse? You weren’t cheating, he was? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here
Why did you get the abuse? You weren’t cheating, he was?"
Easier to blame the person you dont still want though isnt it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here
Why did you get the abuse? You weren’t cheating, he was?"
The women willallways get the blame .its never his fault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here
Why did you get the abuse? You weren’t cheating, he was?
Easier to blame the person you dont still want though isnt it"
But the only person who betrayed you was your partner... I don’t understand it... I’d kill him but don’t think I’d have any particularly feeling about the 3rd party. There’s only one cheater in that mix. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's simple . They don't feel they owe you a stranger the truth and they are here for nsa sex and no plans to see u after so it's easy to lie or omit the truth for some unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here
Why did you get the abuse? You weren’t cheating, he was?
Easier to blame the person you dont still want though isnt it
But the only person who betrayed you was your partner... I don’t understand it... I’d kill him but don’t think I’d have any particularly feeling about the 3rd party. There’s only one cheater in that mix."
Im not disagreeing but the only rational I can think of is not wanting to lose the person, therefore irs easier to place the blame onto someone you dont know or that isnt in the relashoinship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here
Why did you get the abuse? You weren’t cheating, he was?
Easier to blame the person you dont still want though isnt it
But the only person who betrayed you was your partner... I don’t understand it... I’d kill him but don’t think I’d have any particularly feeling about the 3rd party. There’s only one cheater in that mix.
Im not disagreeing but the only rational I can think of is not wanting to lose the person, therefore irs easier to place the blame onto someone you dont know or that isnt in the relashoinship"
Chances are the cheater will continue to cheat so nothing achieved by blaming a 3rd party but I see what you’re saying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab
Ah that old chestnut
I got delightful abuse from a gf recently when she discovered he was on here
Why did you get the abuse? You weren’t cheating, he was?
Easier to blame the person you dont still want though isnt it
But the only person who betrayed you was your partner... I don’t understand it... I’d kill him but don’t think I’d have any particularly feeling about the 3rd party. There’s only one cheater in that mix.
Im not disagreeing but the only rational I can think of is not wanting to lose the person, therefore irs easier to place the blame onto someone you dont know or that isnt in the relashoinship
Chances are the cheater will continue to cheat so nothing achieved by blaming a 3rd party but I see what you’re saying "
Of course they will espcially if they escape the majority of the blame |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What particular honesty was it you were looking for? the one that says yes I'm in a relationship and no she is not on fab"
Or the one that states he's not on fab |
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