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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don,t you just hate it when you plan your evening around a meet and then 5 mins before meet they cancel, totally stuffing up your night, need a bloody miracle to meet someone now! |
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"Don,t you just hate it when you plan your evening around a meet and then 5 mins before meet they cancel, totally stuffing up your night, need a bloody miracle to meet someone now!"
Your only hope is palm I’m afraid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem 
Ouch. I'd be lucky to have 4 meets in a year though"
I dont meet new people that often either. Prefer good reliable friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem
Ouch. I'd be lucky to have 4 meets in a year though
I dont meet new people that often either. Prefer good reliable friends "
The ideal scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem
Ouch. I'd be lucky to have 4 meets in a year though
I dont meet new people that often either. Prefer good reliable friends
The ideal scenario. "
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"That's the reality of online meets. We all take tasks. There is no guarantees. If you want a certain guarantee of meeting people go to the pub. "
if someone says they be there in 20mins and dont show. Very poor form.
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"That's the reality of online meets. We all take tasks. There is no guarantees. If you want a certain guarantee of meeting people go to the pub. if someone says they be there in 20mins and dont show. Very poor form."
that's the net for you. As I said there is no guarantees. It's all a risk
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit "
Ur here 3 weeks have some patience |
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit "
The old way. A pint and a ride... win win.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit
Ur here 3 weeks have some patience"
Am very patient, not letting it phase me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit
The old way. A pint and a ride... win win. "
Sounds good to me |
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit "
the pub/club is the best way. Your guaranteed to meet people, you have instant face to face interaction, you are guaranteed to get talking to someone. The opposite applies here. As I said to men before, head out and use here for a bit of pass time on the forums. If you get lucky, you get lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit
The old way. A pint and a ride... win win. "
Think more often it turns into 10 pints/5 shots and a messey attempt attempt chatting someone up.....you'd wonder why nobody does it anymore lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit
The old way. A pint and a ride... win win.
Think more often it turns into 10 pints/5 shots and a messey attempt attempt chatting someone up.....you'd wonder why nobody does it anymore lol"
Rarely go out anymore but have to say I have had some amazing hook ups in Galway |
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit
The old way. A pint and a ride... win win.
Think more often it turns into 10 pints/5 shots and a messey attempt attempt chatting someone up.....you'd wonder why nobody does it anymore lol"
The secret is.... be The one that doesn't drink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit
The old way. A pint and a ride... win win.
Think more often it turns into 10 pints/5 shots and a messey attempt attempt chatting someone up.....you'd wonder why nobody does it anymore lol
Rarely go out anymore but have to say I have had some amazing hook ups in Galway "
Ah Galway is an exceptional spot, have been there loads and never had a bad night out there |
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"Being let down last minute would be a big step further than I am getting at the moment, most my messages just get deleted straight off....I 2nd the hit the pub idea, maybe the old conventional way of meeting someone will bear fruit
The old way. A pint and a ride... win win.
Think more often it turns into 10 pints/5 shots and a messey attempt attempt chatting someone up.....you'd wonder why nobody does it anymore lol
Rarely go out anymore but have to say I have had some amazing hook ups in Galway
Ah Galway is an exceptional spot, have been there loads and never had a bad night out there "
it's a class night spot. Lively as fuck. Can find a different array of stuff to suit all tastes. Beats sitting in any day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I wear an engagement ring to stop people from chatting me up in bars. Nothing worse than d*unken sex  "
I don't get chatted up when out so I'm sound lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I wear an engagement ring to stop people from chatting me up in bars. Nothing worse than d*unken sex
I think that would make you a challenge. "
On rare occasions. Usually they just leave me alone. Something to do with men's psychology as "spoken for" means that this possession belongs to someone.
On other hand if I dare to say I'm single just not interested "I love a challenge" game begins and there's no getting rid of persistent d*unken weirdos :/ |
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"Personally I wear an engagement ring to stop people from chatting me up in bars. Nothing worse than d*unken sex
I think that would make you a challenge.
On rare occasions. Usually they just leave me alone. Something to do with men's psychology as "spoken for" means that this possession belongs to someone.
On other hand if I dare to say I'm single just not interested "I love a challenge" game begins and there's no getting rid of persistent d*unken weirdos :/ "
are you sober constantly in pubs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pubs and clubs are great fun. I’d love to meet people that way, I’d live to be chatted up but when you’re married it’s not so simple, even when your other half is on board... the potential for disaster is pretty high in terms of bumping into someone you know, wagging tongues etc. etc. so for us here is the only viable way of finding potential fun! |
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"Don,t you just hate it when you plan your evening around a meet and then 5 mins before meet they cancel, totally stuffing up your night, need a bloody miracle to meet someone now!"
Seems to be the norm here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem
find that incredible to believe,who in their right mind would let you down
Guys with small nudgers "
Is there still some bad feelings about it?  |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem
find that incredible to believe,who in their right mind would let you down
Guys with small nudgers
Is there still some bad feelings about it? "
Nah just having z banter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to us last night, guy was well verified and we turned down a lit of other great offers because he ticked a lot of boxes.. by the time we realised he was a no show (meet was planned for 1:30) it was too late for anything else! Now we know things happen and plans change, but not even a message to give us a heads up is shocking behaviour. We rarely get the chance to play so its particular gutting. Manners cost nothing. |
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem "
Deservedly so! Ya selfish cow!!
Organising 4 meets in one day??
I've seen guys being lambasted here for prearranging one backup and then, deciding to go with first/secondary meet, they get bad mouthed to fuck here.
Unless of course it was a gangbang you were arranging, in which case my point is moot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem
Ouch. I'd be lucky to have 4 meets in a year though"
Be patient as I am
I think better few in a year but really enjoy it instead regret it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol "
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem
Deservedly so! Ya selfish cow!!
Organising 4 meets in one day??
I've seen guys being lambasted here for prearranging one backup and then, deciding to go with first/secondary meet, they get bad mouthed to fuck here.
Unless of course it was a gangbang you were arranging, in which case my point is moot."
FFS lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol "
Im a single mother and work fulltime, travel time to time. It happened twice I just got a call from work and cancelled the social meet.
Real life vs expectations.
Never give up and be patient is my motto   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem
Ouch. I'd be lucky to have 4 meets in a year though
I dont meet new people that often either. Prefer good reliable friends "
Not nice silly buggers |
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol "
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol "
very unlucky and am separated but I still wear my ring ?? it's the small town mentality of local people, it's my business, mind you no one chatting me up with ring so it works lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that "
It was a Sunday. The initial meet was arranged just before noon.
I've been chatting to all 4 on and off for a while so it wasn't random people. Bonus: all of them were definitely off as they don't work on weekends.
Death in a family - heard that excuse way too many times now. Unfortunately. Somehow people's family members happen to die on a day I'm supposed to meet them. Could you believe it... I must be cursed
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that
It was a Sunday. The initial meet was arranged just before noon.
I've been chatting to all 4 on and off for a while so it wasn't random people. Bonus: all of them were definitely off as they don't work on weekends.
Death in a family - heard that excuse way too many times now. Unfortunately. Somehow people's family members happen to die on a day I'm supposed to meet them. Could you believe it... I must be cursed
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That's what I'm thinking.
Scare alert! DON'T meet Missus if any family members are close to the edge, as you'll feel guilty for going over the edge with her forever  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that
It was a Sunday. The initial meet was arranged just before noon.
I've been chatting to all 4 on and off for a while so it wasn't random people. Bonus: all of them were definitely off as they don't work on weekends.
Death in a family - heard that excuse way too many times now. Unfortunately. Somehow people's family members happen to die on a day I'm supposed to meet them. Could you believe it... I must be cursed
That's what I'm thinking.
Scare alert! DON'T meet Missus if any family members are close to the edge, as you'll feel guilty for going over the edge with her forever "
Must be a new form of sti |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When i joined first a long time ago the no shows and cancelations happened a lot.got tired of the planning and excuses and wasted trips not to mention the wasted
valuable time. now days i dont plan to meet a lot so i rarely have that trouble. |
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that
It was a Sunday. The initial meet was arranged just before noon.
I've been chatting to all 4 on and off for a while so it wasn't random people. Bonus: all of them were definitely off as they don't work on weekends.
Death in a family - heard that excuse way too many times now. Unfortunately. Somehow people's family members happen to die on a day I'm supposed to meet them. Could you believe it... I must be cursed
That's what I'm thinking.
Scare alert! DON'T meet Missus if any family members are close to the edge, as you'll feel guilty for going over the edge with her forever
Must be a new form of sti "
Ah I'm only trying to scare the rest of them off
Won't work |
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"When i joined first a long time ago the no shows and cancelations happened a lot.got tired of the planning and excuses and wasted trips not to mention the wasted
valuable time. now days i dont plan to meet a lot so i rarely have that trouble."
Experience leads to excellence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it happens too often I'd seriously question my selection process. "
And how do you do that. I say will only chat to veriifed profiles, than get given out to as I'm tarring all guys with same brush etc and yet a guy been chatted to for over a week, yesterday profile hidden and Kik gone. Was all on for meeting etc etc |
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"If it happens too often I'd seriously question my selection process.
Some of them profiles are rather good as is the tease and texts leading up...
Yeah well if it's too good to be true..."
Generally a reply to a “hello” message qualifies as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that
It was a Sunday. The initial meet was arranged just before noon.
I've been chatting to all 4 on and off for a while so it wasn't random people. Bonus: all of them were definitely off as they don't work on weekends.
Death in a family - heard that excuse way too many times now. Unfortunately. Somehow people's family members happen to die on a day I'm supposed to meet them. Could you believe it... I must be cursed
That's what I'm thinking.
Scare alert! DON'T meet Missus if any family members are close to the edge, as you'll feel guilty for going over the edge with her forever
Must be a new form of sti "
Try more spontaneous meets with people you don't fancy now that is swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that
It was a Sunday. The initial meet was arranged just before noon.
I've been chatting to all 4 on and off for a while so it wasn't random people. Bonus: all of them were definitely off as they don't work on weekends.
Death in a family - heard that excuse way too many times now. Unfortunately. Somehow people's family members happen to die on a day I'm supposed to meet them. Could you believe it... I must be cursed
That's what I'm thinking.
Scare alert! DON'T meet Missus if any family members are close to the edge, as you'll feel guilty for going over the edge with her forever
Must be a new form of sti Try more spontaneous meets with people you don't fancy now that is swinging "
Pretty sure we had a thread here a while ago by someone claiming that unless you fuck anything that moves - you're not a true swinger. Charming |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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We had someone meeting us Fri night we both had to change things around to meet..He texted to say he was on the way and kept us informed all the way how long more he'd be about 5mins before he was due to arrive he texed to say oh sorry got a call and have to go home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had 4 let downs in one day once.
Awesome boost to self esteem what would have happened if all 4 had turned up lol
Very funny. Wasn't like that at all. First cancelled due to hangover, arranged something else - disappeared 30mins before, arranged 3rd - 1h before "death in a family", 4th - again dissapeared shortly before meet.
All of them were meant to be socials too lol no charming is being naughty and nice and having a choice to who you do want to meet
Ok, understand it now.
If any guy has ever been able to arrange alternative meets as a result of similar catastrophic events, I'd doff my top hat to him.
Whilst none turned up, the fact you had 4 possible in one day shows who is in charge on Fab.
Sorry none turned up. I'd never miss a coffee I was looking forward to so much, excluding a "death in the family " of course
I'm sensitive like that
It was a Sunday. The initial meet was arranged just before noon.
I've been chatting to all 4 on and off for a while so it wasn't random people. Bonus: all of them were definitely off as they don't work on weekends.
Death in a family - heard that excuse way too many times now. Unfortunately. Somehow people's family members happen to die on a day I'm supposed to meet them. Could you believe it... I must be cursed
That's what I'm thinking.
Scare alert! DON'T meet Missus if any family members are close to the edge, as you'll feel guilty for going over the edge with her forever
Must be a new form of sti Try more spontaneous meets with people you don't fancy now that is swinging
Pretty sure we had a thread here a while ago by someone claiming that unless you fuck anything that moves - you're not a true swinger. Charming "
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