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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious? |
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over a year ago
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"That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious? "
Nope I do be cautious too |
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It has crossed my mind a bit too. Theres a lot of it. In the new pics section its daily. I think its crazy in this day and age. The knowledge of stds we have now theres no real excuse to not wearing a condom |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?
Ive thought of putting some on my profile
But fear they may be a deterrent to some women "
I don’t mind one or two. As long as it’s not all over a profile. I have one in my private pics but you can clearly see the condom in it. |
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over a year ago
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"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?
Ive thought of putting some on my profile
But fear they may be a deterrent to some women "
Personally I don’t like |
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"That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious? "
Yeah I rather bare chested women pics myself |
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Big turn off.
And also when chatting to someone and they mention it without even having met.
Or finding out people have never been tested because they're "careful". Well so am i but I still get tested regularly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that do it with every Tom Dick and Harry i can't understand. If your doing it you need to know the person and know that they are safe if not i can't see how someone could enjoy sex having that worry hanging over it.
P.s i aint a saint as you can see with my picture, but its with someone i know and trust is clean |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"People that do it with every Tom Dick and Harry i can't understand. If your doing it you need to know the person and know that they are safe if not i can't see how someone could enjoy sex having that worry hanging over it.
P.s i aint a saint as you can see with my picture, but its with someone i know and trust is clean "
Sorry but nobody can know for certain that anyone is clean as you call it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious? "
No not at all been over cautious.
As that has to be full thrust to do that bare back. It is frustrating like. I always get checked out either way never assume using condoms keep you safe. Every six months for gonorrhea and chlamydia and every year Full blood test for Hiv etc.And I haven't been sleeping with any Tom,dick and harry.
Just had a cheating Ex the had.
It's not that expensive to get done. St James clinic operate early mornings and no one else will know why you are there. Or your own GP. In the end this is all about enjoying the experience without the drama.
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You know and trust them. Stds are invisible. Most can go undetected with no sympthoms. Im sorry but if im meeting up with someone its because ive gotten to know them and theres a lil bit of trust there. Guess what though? Im still gonna wear a condom. Being on fab and hooking up with people is great. I think you are playing a dangerous and very fucking selfish game |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People that do it with every Tom Dick and Harry i can't understand. If your doing it you need to know the person and know that they are safe if not i can't see how someone could enjoy sex having that worry hanging over it.
P.s i aint a saint as you can see with my picture, but its with someone i know and trust is clean
Sorry but nobody can know for certain that anyone is clean as you call it. "
Haven't you ever had a test done? Fairly sure if that's all clear then you clean, no? If not, please enlighten me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know and trust them. Stds are invisible. Most can go undetected with no sympthoms. Im sorry but if im meeting up with someone its because ive gotten to know them and theres a lil bit of trust there. Guess what though? Im still gonna wear a condom. Being on fab and hooking up with people is great. I think you are playing a dangerous and very fucking selfish game"
Are you talking to me or to someone else? How often have you being tested? You wear a condom = good man, does this fully protect you? Like fuck does it. Id much rather have bareback sex with someone that gets tested regularly than to get up on anything and think im safe because its covered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They get tested regularly?
Mate its your life. You wear a seatbelt im sure. For me its the same thing"
Condoms aren't 100%.
They can break and not every guy buys the right one for his penis.
Or is out date.
Don't take anything for face value. So if in doubt check it out.
Better to be safe then sorry. Regardless if you are fully coverd in bubble wrap.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone that does bareback is either stupid or dumb"
To come out with a statement like that makes you sound like the stupid one. Have you never done it?
Dont get me wrong, im not saying that im always bareback, obviously not when i wouldn't know someone etc. But any relationship ive have being in when both of us have done tests then yes its always bareback |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen bareback on single women profiles too, So it's just not men who like it either
Each to their own!!
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Exactly, just can't understand some people on here the way they think their opinion and rules are right and if you dont go by the same rules then they think others are stupid 
Their bodies and their choices, dont make them stupid etc |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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I get tested regularly and still won’t do bareback. Just like a use contraception and still use condoms. I’d prefer to be over cautious than not cautious enough. I’ve had bareback sex in the past and yes it feels amazing. But I’m just not willing to take the risk. |
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A few years ago,my fuck buddy asked about bareback & asked if we both committed to each other & we got tested clear. We had great fun well worth it. The feeling is so more sensual but has to a commitment & trust from both . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious? "
You're right to be cautious !!
Side note - what feels better for the lady? Condom or no condom ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it myself. But only in a committed monogamous relationship. "
You do realise im sure, that some here will wholeheartedly agree with you on this thread, but yet, behave totally contrary to what they say, and some no doubt are very sincere in what they say. My point is trust your own instincts and judgement if you want to safegaurd your own health  |
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Its up to Everyone to protect themselves. I personally would never take someone's word saying they've been tested. They could pick something up while waiting on their results. Get tested but still protect yourself. |
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"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?
Ive thought of putting some on my profile
But fear they may be a deterrent to some women "
Don't like them. Private only i think . Personally I don't like seeing a potential meets knob in someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?
Ive thought of putting some on my profile
But fear they may be a deterrent to some women
Don't like them. Private only i think . Personally I don't like seeing a potential meets knob in someone else. "
 me neither |
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"What are the thoughts on intercourse pics?
Ive thought of putting some on my profile
But fear they may be a deterrent to some women
Don't like them. Private only i think . Personally I don't like seeing a potential meets knob in someone else.
me neither"
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
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Aren't you judging now??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???"
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver... |
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver... "
Ok .... I'll have a word with myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...
Ok .... I'll have a word with myself"
Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it |
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...
Ok .... I'll have a word with myself
Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it "
I'll do that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...
Ok .... I'll have a word with myself
Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it
I'll do that too. "
Ahahaha let me know the outcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...
Ok .... I'll have a word with myself
Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it
I'll do that too.
Ahahaha let me know the outcome "
You really have her on the rack with those comments, probably best to not push it, or you might have to put on protection |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...
Ok .... I'll have a word with myself
Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it
I'll do that too.
Ahahaha let me know the outcome
You really have her on the rack with those comments, probably best to not push it, or you might have to put on protection "
I don't do sex without a condom...ever if Beyonce ask me to fuck ...I will still put on the condom but I won't judge peoples who their desires is to do without it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't like bareback that's your own business..Stop judging others because if they are doing it that's their own business too...you don't like what others do ..then move on..we are all here not to judge each others ...fuck who u want, do what u want, fuck the way u want ..just stop judging others profiles..period.
Aren't you judging now???
Try to read again...you need to go to speechsaver...
Ok .... I'll have a word with myself
Yeah look at the mirror, if you are not sure about it
I'll do that too.
Ahahaha let me know the outcome
You really have her on the rack with those comments, probably best to not push it, or you might have to put on protection
I don't do sex without a condom...ever if Beyonce ask me to fuck ...I will still put on the condom but I won't judge peoples who their desires is to do without it.. "
Me too that Jay-Z ya wouldnt knlw where he has been |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That gets completely turned off when I see bareback pics on a single guys profile? They seem to be everywhere lately and I just don’t trust when I’m told it’s with an old partner. Am I being over cautious? "
I am the very same, I can't belive the amount of people on here doing bareback. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you will be well aware from recent cervical check scandal. Take nothing for granted"
Noted on that. But if you go private for your Screening there is no scandal as you get your results on the day. Just people don't want to pay the money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am aware that I have a pic of bare back. That is just between us and we get screened together regularly,So we know that one of us ain't bullshit ting the other.
And we know each other a long time.
But we do play safe with others.
No excuses. Or been lack on that.
And yes we both have single profile on here.
But private messaging and giving dogs abuse. Isn't on and is basically bullying and really says a lot more about you as a person.
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