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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I feel I'm making great progress on fab. I've gone from women not even reading my messages to reading my messages and not responding in just a few short months. I must come across a a freak or something. Happy fabbing f**kers  |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
Lads...these threads are getting pretty boring for us all. Either get a life or personality or move on. Enough of this poor me or woe is me posts due to the male/female ratio. No one gives a txxs. It's just boating and immature. |
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha"
because you have no veris and only one pic that’s why... I’d also ignore you ... go to a social to get verified then they will be looking at your profile trust me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha"
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ? |
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"Lads...these threads are getting pretty boring for us all. Either get a life or personality or move on. Enough of this poor me or woe is me posts due to the male/female ratio. No one gives a txxs. It's just boating and immature."
awww commando we have all been there it’s hard At the start . Play nice
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ?"
Doesn't that make you want to drop your knickers?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not disrespectful to anyone, where do you see the disrespect there. It was a general statement not pointed at anyone in particular. I'm actually pretty nice once you get chatting to me. |
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"I'm not disrespectful to anyone, where do you see the disrespect there. It was a general statement not pointed at anyone in particular. I'm actually pretty nice once you get chatting to me."
you need to put more on your bio too ... so basically more pics, veris and more info on yourself .. good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ?
Doesn't that make you want to drop your knickers? "
There's been a time or two when someone caught my eye like that... without even saying a word. Only happens in real life tho.
Would never happen online |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ?
Doesn't that make you want to drop your knickers? "
ya I get that but just trying to start some type of dialogue, I don't expect anyone to drop their knickers after one message really. |
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ?
Doesn't that make you want to drop your knickers? ya I get that but just trying to start some type of dialogue, I don't expect anyone to drop their knickers after one message really."
Read the profile and comment on something they’ve said or mention an interest you have similar. I tend to reply if I think they’ve taken the time to read my profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha because you have no veris and only one pic that’s why... I’d also ignore you ... go to a social to get verified then they will be looking at your profile trust me"
thanks, some good advice.
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"Boring not boating maybe you're right, I've been doing it wrong all this time, thanks for taking the time to read my post and giving advice."
I don't mean to sound harsh or cruel and Ive nothing against you....we've all been there...it's how you react from here...fab is what it is....the ratios are what they are....it just means that a little effort is required to stand out from the crowd.....view this as a personal challenge and something to be accomplished rather than the world conspiring against you. Deal with the reality of the situation....I guarantee you'll have more success and if not you'll feel a lot better about yourself.
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"Lads...these threads are getting pretty boring for us all. Either get a life or personality or move on. Enough of this poor me or woe is me posts due to the male/female ratio. No one gives a txxs. It's just boating and immature."
well said,I totally agree!
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"Lads...these threads are getting pretty boring for us all. Either get a life or personality or move on. Enough of this poor me or woe is me posts due to the male/female ratio. No one gives a txxs. It's just boating and immature. awww commando we have all been there it’s hard At the start . Play nice "
Hes right though ...they are getting boring. Be proactive not moany  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey OP you will do fine if you heed the advise givem above.
My rule for messaging someone is that unless something interesting or natural pops into my head to start a converstation I dont mail.
Nothong worse than tryong to force a conversation thats been had 100 times before.
Alot of the time it can be something completely random or taking the piss. Or leading from an interaction on the forums.
It improved my read reply rate a huge amount from the old "hey hows the weekend going" stuff O would have send when I first joined.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ?
Doesn't that make you want to drop your knickers? ya I get that but just trying to start some type of dialogue, I don't expect anyone to drop their knickers after one message really.
Read the profile and comment on something they’ve said or mention an interest you have similar. I tend to reply if I think they’ve taken the time to read my profile "
I do read them, the key is to get verified it seems. Thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are on first level where they will read your message and ignore.. solution is get veri.. once you successfully complete first level then you will be promoted to second level..
Second level: they will chat for hours and days when you will ask them for social or fun, they will reply lets make a plan for next week... and when you ping them next week before plan they will completely ignore you.. I'm in second level BTW.. "
Your lucky so...
We can't even get though the first stage... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey OP you will do fine if you heed the advise givem above.
My rule for messaging someone is that unless something interesting or natural pops into my head to start a converstation I dont mail.
Nothong worse than tryong to force a conversation thats been had 100 times before.
Alot of the time it can be something completely random or taking the piss. Or leading from an interaction on the forums.
It improved my read reply rate a huge amount from the old "hey hows the weekend going" stuff O would have send when I first joined.
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I get shivers down my spine every time I get anything weekend related. Delete delete delete forget lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey OP you will do fine if you heed the advise givem above.
My rule for messaging someone is that unless something interesting or natural pops into my head to start a converstation I dont mail.
Nothong worse than tryong to force a conversation thats been had 100 times before.
Alot of the time it can be something completely random or taking the piss. Or leading from an interaction on the forums.
It improved my read reply rate a huge amount from the old "hey hows the weekend going" stuff O would have send when I first joined.
I get shivers down my spine every time I get anything weekend related. Delete delete delete forget lol "
I've noticed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have seen a few of these style threads I’m not on here too long but it’s like anything in life effort will reap reward. Women aren’t going to engage if we seen boring and no personality. I send a handful of messages and get 2 replies if I’m lucky. Sometimes my messages are boring and sometimes I’m maybe not the girls type and that’s ok.
Keep tucking away and I’m sure something will happen for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey OP you will do fine if you heed the advise givem above.
My rule for messaging someone is that unless something interesting or natural pops into my head to start a converstation I dont mail.
Nothong worse than tryong to force a conversation thats been had 100 times before.
Some solid advice there, thanks dude
Alot of the time it can be something completely random or taking the piss. Or leading from an interaction on the forums.
It improved my read reply rate a huge amount from the old "hey hows the weekend going" stuff O would have send when I first joined.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have seen a few of these style threads I’m not on here too long but it’s like anything in life effort will reap reward. Women aren’t going to engage if we seen boring and no personality. I send a handful of messages and get 2 replies if I’m lucky. Sometimes my messages are boring and sometimes I’m maybe not the girls type and that’s ok.
Keep tucking away and I’m sure something will happen for you."
Thanks dude |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Listen lad your not disrespectful or insincere or moany.... for asking a question....
Anyhows probably a social will do the trick....  "
Thanks man. Ya a social would be good haha |
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"Listen lad your not disrespectful or insincere or moany.... for asking a question....
Anyhows probably a social will do the trick.... Thanks man. Ya a social would be good haha"
just keep an eye on forums for a social in your area |
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"Listen lad your not disrespectful or insincere or moany.... for asking a question....
Anyhows probably a social will do the trick.... Thanks man. Ya a social would be good haha"
Great... that puts that to bed so to speak |
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"You are on first level where they will read your message and ignore.. solution is get veri.. once you successfully complete first level then you will be promoted to second level..
Second level: they will chat for hours and days when you will ask them for social or fun, they will reply lets make a plan for next week... and when you ping them next week before plan they will completely ignore you.. I'm in second level BTW..
Your lucky so...
We can't even get though the first stage... "
Hahaha keep trying if still not luck then let me know I'm also looking for second veri.. lol |
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Galway guy ...add to your profile, attend socials andxwhen messaging just be yourself. Believe it or not we can see through the bullshit .. im a bad boy, im a white knight. The best meets ive had have happened organically |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Listen lad your not disrespectful or insincere or moany.... for asking a question....
Anyhows probably a social will do the trick.... Thanks man. Ya a social would be good haha just keep an eye on forums for a social in your area "
Is there a secret knock or anything? Haha |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
"Galway guy ...add to your profile, attend socials andxwhen messaging just be yourself. Believe it or not we can see through the bullshit .. im a bad boy, im a white knight. The best meets ive had have happened organically "
Sound advice ...never use fertiliser or insecticide
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Galway guy ...add to your profile, attend socials andxwhen messaging just be yourself. Believe it or not we can see through the bullshit .. im a bad boy, im a white knight. The best meets ive had have happened organically "
Ya I'm better in real life but usually just meet people in the pub who aren't always on the same page, the odd time you might meet one on rare occasions haha. Again thanks for the advice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ?"
lol I've been sending that for years lol I'm like a dripping tap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually just ask how they are, usually polite attach a few pics like no dick pics or anything haha
So basically something like
" hi, how are you, I've attached my face, hope you like" ?
Doesn't that make you want to drop your knickers? "
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Well its one up from"I've attached my dick,hope you like"  |
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