"Tips for attending your first party, all advice will be greatly appreciated, thank you in advance."
don’t do what I did and drink for the nerves it’s not a good outcome ... I never drink now at meets
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As above, take it easy on the booze. Dont be pushy as most likely you wont get to play. Just be yourself and do a bit of networking. Goes without saying look and dress well and smell well. Enjoy your first visit. |
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1. Wear a clean newish pair of jocks as you'll likely be spending at least part of the evening with them on display.
2. Hydrate, hydrate and hydrate.
3. Be punctual
4. Try and make as many new friends as you can - open up, be chatty, get involved in the conversation. Mingle.
5. Be respectful of everyone
6. Its just like a normal party really minus the clothes and plus all the playing. Relax and chill out and you'll have a great time. |
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"Tips for attending your first party, all advice will be greatly appreciated, thank you in advance. don’t do what I did and drink for the nerves it’s not a good outcome ... I never drink now at meets"
Yep, been there done that , don't drink to kill the nerves.
My wife did exactly that and wasn't very good for her ... she can't remember much from that night either! |
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"Tips for attending your first party, all advice will be greatly appreciated, thank you in advance. don’t do what I did and drink for the nerves it’s not a good outcome ... I never drink now at meets
Yep, been there done that, don't drink to kill the nerves.
My wife did exactly that and wasn't very good for her ... she can't remember much from that night either!"
I was exactly the same ... first time to swing and first time to a party so thought having a few drinks would help. Never again I like to Be in control |
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Be as relaxed as possibly and be friendly (But not the creepy type of friendly) Non Pushy and Just enjoy it. Parties are the best part of this scene. Get the first one out of the way. |
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"1. Wear a clean newish pair of jocks as you'll likely be spending at least part of the evening with them on display.
2. Hydrate, hydrate and hydrate.
3. Be punctual
4. Try and make as many new friends as you can - open up, be chatty, get involved in the conversation. Mingle.
5. Be respectful of everyone
6. Its just like a normal party really minus the clothes and plus all the playing. Relax and chill out and you'll have a great time."
Yep, very good advice.
And don't be discouraged or disappointed if you don't score.
There is plenty of opportunities around.
I was under pressure, to prove to myself that I can do it with another woman .. as she would smell, look and act differently to my wife.
I was lucky to have my swinging cherry popped by a nice more experienced lady .. so I hope to be relaxed and enjoy the experience more next time.
But we all learn something every time ...
I am very curious to see who will be the first man to pop Bee's swinging cherry, as she is fussy and picky as fuck!
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I am very curious to see who will be the first man to pop Bee's swinging cherry, as she is fussy and picky as fuck!
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He will be a lucky lad 
Where do we all line up!?  |
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I am very curious to see who will be the first man to pop Bee's swinging cherry, as she is fussy and picky as fuck!
He will be a lucky lad
Where do we all line up!? "
She usually let's the ones she likes know, but she is busy with her exams now, so not a chance. |
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Remember nerves are a normal thing. If you get an invite turn up (the hardest part is actually turning up).
Don't drink too much as you want to remember the night.
Have no expectations of playing
Be sociable, have a laugh and have a good night |
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"Why oh why do people need drink to meet people . If I went to meet someone and they had a lot of drink on . I would turn around and walk away . I like to be sober to enjoy myself . "
Not everyone is relaxed and confident in their own skin.
Some drink in order to be able to relax and unfortunately lose control of it and go beyond that.
Others just drink because the drink is free and can't give a shit.
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"Remember nerves are a normal thing. If you get an invite turn up (the hardest part is actually turning up).
Don't drink too much as you want to remember the night.
Have no expectations of playing
Be sociable, have a laugh and have a good night"
Very good advice ! |
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If I got an invite I always turn up . I'm a respectfull gent . I suppose I'm comfortable with myself and I'm a very confident person . I don't need drink but nothing worse than a d*unken lady big turn off . |
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Plan to arrive early. Don't drink alcohol. Dress to impress. If you're alone, chat to the guys(they all have wives, girlfriends). Be a good listener. Don't hog the pretty/good looking/younger ones. Share the love. Team up with a mate to compare notes afterwards. If you get a coffee date out of it.. You're a winner, and it will boost your confidence no end. |
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"Plan to arrive early. Don't drink alcohol. Dress to impress. If you're alone, chat to the guys(they all have wives, girlfriends). Be a good listener. Don't hog the pretty/good looking/younger ones. Share the love. Team up with a mate to compare notes afterwards. If you get a coffee date out of it.. You're a winner, and it will boost your confidence no end. "
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