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PLEASE, this is not a dating site
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site.
Just blowing off steam,
It's hard enough for guys on here without other drama |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site.
Just blowing off steam,
It's hard enough for guys on here without other drama"
Someone not wanna jump you without a social or what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By the looks of it you have issues with generally getting along with women.
Did someone refuse to get you "serviced" without getting to know you?
If someone wants to date - let them bloody date. Some women like to be treated nicely and make a little more of a night rather than some fourty something sweat on top of them for two minutes. |
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"Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site.
Just blowing off steam,
It's hard enough for guys on here without other drama"
Only drama is coming from yourself... its also not a drop your knickers for anyone site.
Just blowing off steam  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your right its not a dating site, its a swingers site which predominantly married couples who would like to ensure their partner is safe in any encounters hence the social meetup. I suggest you go try tinder if you just want meaningless singles hookups |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By the looks of it you have issues with generally getting along with women.
Did someone refuse to get you "serviced" without getting to know you?
If someone wants to date - let them bloody date. Some women like to be treated nicely and make a little more of a night rather than some fourty something sweat on top of them for two minutes. "
Are you still on ghost mode |
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But it can be a dating site. People can, and do date people off here and may go on to find relationships......and there is nothing you can do about it. Let people use fab as they wish (within the site rules). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I prefer a coffee meet first
Its not a date
Its a way to make sure the person I'm looking to meet holds any appeal to me, because yes I do actually have to feel attracted to the person before I drop my knickers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that. "
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I prefer a coffee meet first
Its not a date
Its a way to make sure the person I'm looking to meet holds any appeal to me, because yes I do actually have to feel attracted to the person before I drop my knickers "
Is it ok of I tell my mum its a date? She worries about me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum... "
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong"
is he wrong ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?"
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum... "
Looks to me as it's lets put the boot in because the op might have hit s nerve with a few people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?"
The subject of what the site is for seems pretty subjective to me. But ranting on the forum about people's failure to put out on demand rarely paints one in a positive light |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes."
And you would never do anything like that. Get a life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. And you would never do anything like that. Get a life."
I dont follow your argument?
Whats your opinion of the correct way to use the site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is what the relevant people want to take out of it.... Really boring that people want to define what they think others want.
Relax and enjoy your good self  "
Your right im sick of abuse from guys who think cos ur here they are entitled to fuck you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong"
Well if you where a women u wouldnt say that the abuse we get is unreal when we turn down a guy these type of men really annoy me |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. And you would never do anything like that. Get a life."
GET A LIFE.... emmm now there's an idea.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that guys who join assume that the women on here have a similar "two holes and a heartbeat I'll fuck it" mind set.
They are still from Venus and we are still from Mars.
The female membership may have a more liberal attitude to sex but there is still a basic genetic need for a connection MOST of the time.
Meet an escort or use tinder if the social preliminaries aren't your thing. You've a broader choice and it might be cheaper than being a site supporter/travelling/paying for a hotel.
It's not easy but it ain't rocket science either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. And you would never do anything like that. Get a life.
GET A LIFE.... emmm now there's an idea. "
Oi..... I like it in my basement of power.. its dark and noone bothers me |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. And you would never do anything like that. Get a life.
GET A LIFE.... emmm now there's an idea.
Oi..... I like it in my basement of power.. its dark and noone bothers me"
I like to poke you every now and again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site.
Just blowing off steam,
It's hard enough for guys on here without other drama"
It's frustrating if people you want to meet are on different speeds to you, but everyone is different..It would be a crap meet if the person involved wasn't 100% into it..It's not dating, it's due diligence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious "
Totally agree, at least you can tell if you want to get them naked, the amount of guys when I say first meet is always a quick chat over coffee, oh I don't do coffee, I fancy you, I want to fuck you. Etc etc
Recently met a guy for coffee who had said all of above, met him he came into coffee shop looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and left.
As for dating, I'm not here to date but sex gets better when there's a physical and mental connection. If I wanted sweaty sex that is over and done in less than 5 mins just go out on a Saturday night and pick up a stranger. |
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"Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious "
exactly this |
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"Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious
Totally agree, at least you can tell if you want to get them naked, the amount of guys when I say first meet is always a quick chat over coffee, oh I don't do coffee, I fancy you, I want to fuck you. Etc etc
Recently met a guy for coffee who had said all of above, met him he came into coffee shop looked me up and down, says "no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and left.
As for dating, I'm not here to date but sex gets better when there's a physical and mental connection. If I wanted sweaty sex that is over and done in less than 5 mins just go out on a Saturday night and pick up a stranger."
well in fairness at least he didn’t have sex just for the sake of it .. some on here would shag anyone to get their leg over and that’s a complete turn off for me ... we all have preferences of what we like the next guy will drool at you so don’t let him get you down x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious exactly this "
So come have that coffee with me so  |
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
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"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want. |
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want. "
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"Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious exactly this
So come have that coffee with me so "
mr bold is off again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I believe it's not the op that has a problem.He said very little wrong if anything but yet the keyboard warriors are on the attack. Trolls the lot of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious exactly this
So come have that coffee with me so mr bold is off again lol "
You missed me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe it's not the op that has a problem.He said very little wrong if anything but yet the keyboard warriors are on the attack. Trolls the lot of them."
I don't see anyone attacking anyone just people giving an opinion on his views . |
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"I believe it's not the op that has a problem.He said very little wrong if anything but yet the keyboard warriors are on the attack. Trolls the lot of them."
Fancy a bigger spoon .... feirce amount of pointless stirring going on |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want. "
Meeting up a couple of times sounds more than one coffee meet to me. The opening post isn't conclusive what he's exactly referring to. One of the first posters assumes it's the coffee meet and down comes the rain in full force.
Yes we all are entitled to use the site as we wish and to play how we want. Same applies to the op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want.
Meeting up a couple of times sounds more than one coffee meet to me. The opening post isn't conclusive what he's exactly referring to. One of the first posters assumes it's the coffee meet and down comes the rain in full force.
Yes we all are entitled to use the site as we wish and to play how we want. Same applies to the op. "
. Then he should perhaps desist from dictating how others should use the site. |
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want.
Meeting up a couple of times sounds more than one coffee meet to me. The opening post isn't conclusive what he's exactly referring to. One of the first posters assumes it's the coffee meet and down comes the rain in full force.
Yes we all are entitled to use the site as we wish and to play how we want. Same applies to the op. "
The difference been if i require to meet with someone two, three times, more even thats my porogitive. Does the OP have the right to tell me im wrong ?? Nope im entitled to drink as much coffee, tea, cordial i choose before i get intimate with someone. If you dont like it you move on ... like a big boy with no tantrums. This site gives women alot of freedoms... if i choose tea so be it. |
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want.
Meeting up a couple of times sounds more than one coffee meet to me. The opening post isn't conclusive what he's exactly referring to. One of the first posters assumes it's the coffee meet and down comes the rain in full force.
Yes we all are entitled to use the site as we wish and to play how we want. Same applies to the op.
The difference been if i require to meet with someone two, three times, more even thats my porogitive. Does the OP have the right to tell me im wrong ?? Nope im entitled to drink as much coffee, tea, cordial i choose before i get intimate with someone. If you dont like it you move on ... like a big boy with no tantrums. This site gives women alot of freedoms... if i choose tea so be it. "
Oh and its 17 comments in before coffee was even mentioned  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont get why everyone gets so hung up about what the site is! It is whatever you came on looking for. This bitching and bemoaning how others use the site is some drivel. Dont wanna use as a dating site then dont. If you want to then do. If you wanna just get hook ups well good luck too. Be fucking boring if everyone wanted the same thing from here. |
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"I dont get why everyone gets so hung up about what the site is! It is whatever you came on looking for. This bitching and bemoaning how others use the site is some drivel. Dont wanna use as a dating site then dont. If you want to then do. If you wanna just get hook ups well good luck too. Be fucking boring if everyone wanted the same thing from here. "
Hear hear |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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For us coffee meet is essential attraction has to be present.....but any more then one for us is pointless...but we don't have to agree....everyone should do what suits them...mrs |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want.
Meeting up a couple of times sounds more than one coffee meet to me. The opening post isn't conclusive what he's exactly referring to. One of the first posters assumes it's the coffee meet and down comes the rain in full force.
Yes we all are entitled to use the site as we wish and to play how we want. Same applies to the op.
The difference been if i require to meet with someone two, three times, more even thats my porogitive. Does the OP have the right to tell me im wrong ?? Nope im entitled to drink as much coffee, tea, cordial i choose before i get intimate with someone. If you dont like it you move on ... like a big boy with no tantrums. This site gives women alot of freedoms... if i choose tea so be it. "
He's having a little rant to let off steam. I'm sure almost everyone had that fab feeling on here of just wanting to scream because fab can easily drive you nuts. To interpret the opening post as telling peeps how to use the site or 'that they're wrong' is pushing it a bit imo.
In theory he's right it's not a dating site, doesn't mean it cannot be used as such. And you're right too if you need x coffee meets, so be it.
Btw social (=coffee meet) metioned in second post. |
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"I'd love to know how most posters above deduct that the op has an issue with an initial coffee meet?
"Its not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes" what the majority got and reacted to was a spoilt boy that can't be arsed with formalites and just wants to shag and go. Now if thats his preference, fair play,just dont force it on others. We're all intitled to play how we want.
Meeting up a couple of times sounds more than one coffee meet to me. The opening post isn't conclusive what he's exactly referring to. One of the first posters assumes it's the coffee meet and down comes the rain in full force.
Yes we all are entitled to use the site as we wish and to play how we want. Same applies to the op.
The difference been if i require to meet with someone two, three times, more even thats my porogitive. Does the OP have the right to tell me im wrong ?? Nope im entitled to drink as much coffee, tea, cordial i choose before i get intimate with someone. If you dont like it you move on ... like a big boy with no tantrums. This site gives women alot of freedoms... if i choose tea so be it.
He's having a little rant to let off steam. I'm sure almost everyone had that fab feeling on here of just wanting to scream because fab can easily drive you nuts. To interpret the opening post as telling peeps how to use the site or 'that they're wrong' is pushing it a bit imo.
In theory he's right it's not a dating site, doesn't mean it cannot be used as such. And you're right too if you need x coffee meets, so be it.
Btw social (=coffee meet) metioned in second post. "
17 before coffee is mentioned but as you say to each their own ... you,i or the OP do not have the right to dictate to anyone about their pre sex caffine intake |
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"Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site.
Just blowing off steam,
It's hard enough for guys on here without other drama"
I wonder if we met you in PDI ? it was some guy with your attitude, he got told what to do then and you are blocked  |
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Each to there own,think it’s very important that 1 the woman feels comfortable,2 must be attraction, both physically and mentally I think coffee social are great way for both parties to have a chin wag/banter this site is what you make of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m missing something or I’m reading the initial post by OP wrong. He doesn’t mention anything about not wanting a social meet first ? Way I’m reading it is that if he’s met someone for fun a few times that they’re not expecting it to turn to more. Maybe I’m deciphering it wrong but if that’s the case I agree with his sentiment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes."
Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town "
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m missing something or I’m reading the initial post by OP wrong. He doesn’t mention anything about not wanting a social meet first ? Way I’m reading it is that if he’s met someone for fun a few times that they’re not expecting it to turn to more. Maybe I’m deciphering it wrong but if that’s the case I agree with his sentiment. "
Maybe not how I read it... but it could be.
OP might pop back to clarfiy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters"
I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to. |
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"Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site.
Just blowing off steam,
It's hard enough for guys on here without other drama"
well ive had,100s of dates off here so I must be doing something drastically wrong |
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I'm with the OP If after a maximum of two meets nothing adult and kinky has happened time to move on.
Many on here need their ego stroked a bit too much. For the most part this site is about meeting people for care free sex like it or not. Others could do with moving on to e harmony or one of them sites.
I'm with ya OP...straight in there , no lube! |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes."
Looks like your post. unfortunately I had work to attend to this morning but I'm all yours now |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to."
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright "
like going on a date but different. |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright like going on a date but different."
Date/coffee/social I dont really care what people call it.
If I wouldnt meet someone for a coffee I wouldnt have sex them.
Each to their own, only problem with the OP's post is he was telling others how the site should work. |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright "
let's say you got chatting to someone from the other end of the country would you travel a couple of times to see if you were compatible to shag each other. |
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth 
Aahemmm .... "
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright like going on a date but different.
Date/coffee/social I dont really care what people call it.
If I wouldnt meet someone for a coffee I wouldnt have sex them.
Each to their own, only problem with the OP's post is he was telling others how the site should work."
He is staying what he thinks and for the life of me I cannot see where he us telling others what to do. |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright let's say you got chatting to someone from the other end of the country would you travel a couple of times to see if you were compatible to shag each other. "
Depends on the person...
And logistics we all have lives outside fab but thats adding a needless layer of complexity if they were local I would have no issues
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette "
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright like going on a date but different.
Date/coffee/social I dont really care what people call it.
If I wouldnt meet someone for a coffee I wouldnt have sex them.
Each to their own, only problem with the OP's post is he was telling others how the site should work. He is staying what he thinks and for the life of me I cannot see where he us telling others what to do."
"It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes."
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course "
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright like going on a date but different.
Date/coffee/social I dont really care what people call it.
If I wouldnt meet someone for a coffee I wouldnt have sex them.
Each to their own, only problem with the OP's post is he was telling others how the site should work. He is staying what he thinks and for the life of me I cannot see where he us telling others what to do.
"It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes."
Here ya go "
He is not for metting up a couple of times.But where does he say that others should do the same. |
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course
Do I get a horse?"
Change your name hi ho silver |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright like going on a date but different.
Date/coffee/social I dont really care what people call it.
If I wouldnt meet someone for a coffee I wouldnt have sex them.
Each to their own, only problem with the OP's post is he was telling others how the site should work. He is staying what he thinks and for the life of me I cannot see where he us telling others what to do.
"It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes."
Here ya go He is not for metting up a couple of times.But where does he say that others should do the same. "
Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site..... read it
Again you need a bigger spoon ???
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"I'm with the OP If after a maximum of two meets nothing adult and kinky has happened time to move on.
Many on here need their ego stroked a bit too much. For the most part this site is about meeting people for care free sex like it or not. Others could do with moving on to e harmony or one of them sites.
I'm with ya OP...straight in there , no lube!"
perhaps that's why you don't have many verifications . im sorry but this site is not just for the wham bang thank you brigade .everyone has their own reason for being on here .you need to deal with that first .im on here for me no one else .if things happen that's fine but if they don't its still fine. Thats the trouble guys think its a site for dipping their wick and nowt else but I tell you now its not that at all it has a social element as well.I've been on here 10 years and all sorts are on |
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course
Do I get a horse?"
No but by the looks of it you got yourself an ass and a well fed one.Giddy up old boy. |
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"Can't see what all the fuss is about the o.p just give his opinion what's wrong with that.
And everyone else is giving theirs, that's the whole point of a forum...
Plus he did ask to be cotrected of he was wrong is he wrong ?
In my opinion by trying define the site for others yes.
Also by seemingly disregarding the importance of a social/vetting elememts for other users yes. Where did he say about social vetting. He said what he thinks and as usual the magnificent seven try running him out of town
Whats your issue big fella?
People are allowed have opinions and debates.. even heated ones.
Try joining in instead of just pointed comments at other posters I replied to your post and asked where he said about social vetting now you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
The social vetting is the "meeting up a couple of times to see how it goes".
I paraphrased...
Noone is running him out of town I disagree with him and I was my reasons... maybe I should pop on my caps and tell him get a life. Far better way of communicating alright like going on a date but different.
Date/coffee/social I dont really care what people call it.
If I wouldnt meet someone for a coffee I wouldnt have sex them.
Each to their own, only problem with the OP's post is he was telling others how the site should work. He is staying what he thinks and for the life of me I cannot see where he us telling others what to do.
"It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes."
Here ya go He is not for metting up a couple of times.But where does he say that others should do the same.
Seriously it's not
It's not about meeting up a couple of times and seeing how it goes.
Correct me if I'm wrong, this is not a dating site..... read it
Again you need a bigger spoon ???
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course
Do I get a horse? No but by the looks of it you got yourself an ass and a well fed one.Giddy up old boy."
A good old fashioned corner forwards arse I have.
I like it though, its comfortable to sit on |
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course
Do I get a horse? No but by the looks of it you got yourself an ass and a well fed one.Giddy up old boy.
A good old fashioned corner forwards arse I have.
I like it though, its comfortable to sit on "
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"Before I go to the trouble of organising a hotel and time away from home I like to make sure I’m attracted to the person I’m going to be spending time with, so 9 times out of 10 a coffee or drink is a pre-requisite. And to be honest, if the coffee goes well and there is some chemistry It makes the anticipation all the more delicious exactly this
So come have that coffee with me so mr bold is off again lol
You missed me!"
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course
Do I get a horse? No but by the looks of it you got yourself an ass and a well fed one.Giddy up old boy.
A good old fashioned corner forwards arse I have.
I like it though, its comfortable to sit on "
I'd say you spend a fair bit of time sitting on it. |
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course
Do I get a horse? No but by the looks of it you got yourself an ass and a well fed one.Giddy up old boy.
A good old fashioned corner forwards arse I have.
I like it though, its comfortable to sit on
Bet it’s peachy... giz a peek "
You could probably see it from there since Christmas |
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette
Feck im not on tinder... dont believe in shagging and running... i like a coffee. Am i part of the so called magnificent 7, you are obviously. Whos the other 6 ? Asking for a friend of course
Do I get a horse? No but by the looks of it you got yourself an ass and a well fed one.Giddy up old boy.
A good old fashioned corner forwards arse I have.
I like it though, its comfortable to sit on
Bet it’s peachy... giz a peek
You could probably see it from there since Christmas "
Sigh I wish I could |
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"Genuinely joined the site hoping to meet missus smyth
Aahemmm ....
Ah rover I think he had a paticular Miss(us) in mind
I'll be your back up...
But you will have to match me on tinder I couldnt date a Fabette "
Ah damn. That's my distant future plans out of the window:/ |
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There are two practices here that reek of desperation.
1. The typical sanctimonious holier than thou virtual signalling of the attack the OP try hards.
2. Using what should be (..oh how I miss the good old days) a no strings platform for hooking up with strangers and getting filthy together to fulfill your emotional and spiritual needs when there are much better avenues for that.
This is me using the site how I want |
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To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging. |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging."
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too! |
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Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
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My gut feel is that society has regressed on this...people are far too embarrassed about no strings gratification and dress it up with a dating front. |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too! "
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet. |
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Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
My gut feel is that society has regressed on this...people are far too embarrassed about no strings gratification and dress it up with a dating front. "
Meeing for a coffee with someone on here is great I regularly meet girls I’ve met with over he years for drinks not for play but to have the Craic with a likeminded person. |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet. "
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
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A coffee isn’t committing to anything it’s as I said to see if there is a connection. A webcam can be faked. Everything BUT a face to face can be faked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
My gut feel is that society has regressed on this...people are far too embarrassed about no strings gratification and dress it up with a dating front. "
Perosnally I couldn't give two fiddlers fucks who sees me with someone but in a coffee social I can get a feel for someone . How they act am I safe to be alone with this person . If I walk away from a coffee it's ok but if alone in a room and I dont fancy this stranger . how would they react ? |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
A coffee isn’t committing to anything it’s as I said to see if there is a connection. A webcam can be faked. Everything BUT a face to face can be faked."
Yes but there's the time/effort factor - what's if they are a total minger with a PhD in photoshopping? |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
A coffee isn’t committing to anything it’s as I said to see if there is a connection. A webcam can be faked. Everything BUT a face to face can be faked.
Yes but there's the time/effort factor - what's if they are a total minger with a PhD in photoshopping? "
Time/effort factor hahah have a look at my sent box, I put time and effort in and get ignored daily that’s ok ill survive. If it is a total munger ya only a coffee. |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
"
So seeing someone on a webcam is better than meeting face to face. Huh??? Are you go rd real. |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
So seeing someone on a webcam is better than meeting face to face. Huh??? Are you go rd real."
For real |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
A coffee isn’t committing to anything it’s as I said to see if there is a connection. A webcam can be faked. Everything BUT a face to face can be faked.
Yes but there's the time/effort factor - what's if they are a total minger with a PhD in photoshopping?
Time/effort factor hahah have a look at my sent box, I put time and effort in and get ignored daily that’s ok ill survive. If it is a total munger ya only a coffee."
That's my point!
I can meet sexy and overall amazing girls for coffee whenever I want on a dating site with 1/20 of the effort but they mightn't be as open minded or amenable to the idea of non monogamous life.
Why put in 20 times the effort fishing for a "date" on here with what could turn out to be a catfish minger.
I've a well honed sense of who is a good fit for no strings sex/casual friendship from the vibe over a good chat and that works well for me. |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
So seeing someone on a webcam is better than meeting face to face. Huh??? Are you go rd real.
For real"
Obviously face to face is better...but a webcam will tell you if the person who will turn up is the person in the pic to begin with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
A coffee isn’t committing to anything it’s as I said to see if there is a connection. A webcam can be faked. Everything BUT a face to face can be faked.
Yes but there's the time/effort factor - what's if they are a total minger with a PhD in photoshopping?
Time/effort factor hahah have a look at my sent box, I put time and effort in and get ignored daily that’s ok ill survive. If it is a total munger ya only a coffee.
That's my point!
I can meet sexy and overall amazing girls for coffee whenever I want on a dating site with 1/20 of the effort but they mightn't be as open minded or amenable to the idea of non monogamous life.
Why put in 20 times the effort fishing for a "date" on here with what could turn out to be a catfish minger.
I've a well honed sense of who is a good fit for no strings sex/casual friendship from the vibe over a good chat and that works well for me. "
And that’s ok if it works for you- But with a lifestyle of swinging you will need to meet some face to face. Chatting on cam people tend to be brave and full of courage meeting in person may be different. |
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"To the last poster but swinging isn’t just a no strings attached fuck. Swinging is a lifestyle choice- it’s non adhearance to social norms.
Socials, coffees are all part of swinging- finding a connection. If girls just bounced into bed with A B and C people would class them sluts.
If they meet for a coffee see there is a connection well then great maybe the “ride” will happen. I hate how people try define this as it’s just about the ride. I love the social side of swinging.
Back in the day you could connect fine with a chat on webcam or over the phone or building a connection over many conversations (attention spans are non existent now).
Much better to meeting someone you barely know in a random Starbucks and risking bumping into people from your regular life.
There was spontaneity too!
If you're only having a coffee, what's the risk? Do people off fab have a certain look/ funny handshake ... ahhh it's the ankle bracelet.
Potentially yeah. Could be a catfish or a total fake for one thing.
Webcams don't lie...we've all heard the stories of people turning up to meet people significantly different from their pics or not even the same person.
So seeing someone on a webcam is better than meeting face to face. Huh??? Are you go rd real.
For real
Obviously face to face is better...but a webcam will tell you if the person who will turn up is the person in the pic to begin with "
Not at all. Some girl on webcam,and her boyfriend might turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Anyway....I'm sure that everyone was having a better time on fab a few years back. It was easier and more honest.
I'm sure overall the quality of men has dropped, leaving the more desperate types to duke it out for the hope of someday drinking a coffee with anything with a pulse
I'm 90% here just for forums and to meet only if the stars align of their own accord. |
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And breathe.....
Maybe everyone could wait or PM the OP to clarify what he meant.
Then perhaps debate the specifics, rather than all the second guessing?
Just a thought. Makes for shorter, more pointed, correctly responded threads.
I know! Me and my sensibilities
Legal Note - this poster is fully aware that he has veered from his advice above on previous occasions and would like to quote "Do as I say, not as I do" |
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"And breathe.....
Maybe everyone could wait or PM the OP to clarify what he meant.
Then perhaps debate the specifics, rather than all the second guessing?
Just a thought. Makes for shorter, more pointed, correctly responded threads.
I know! Me and my sensibilities
Legal Note - this poster is fully aware that he has veered from his advice above on previous occasions and would like to quote "Do as I say, not as I do" "
Where's the fun in that when the mob can cut him down to size from the get go? Divide and conquer... All men are bastards but I'm the exception |
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"Anyway....I'm sure that everyone was having a better time on fab a few years back. It was easier and more honest.
I'm sure overall the quality of men has dropped, leaving the more desperate types to duke it out for the hope of someday drinking a coffee with anything with a pulse
I'm 90% here just for forums and to meet only if the stars align of their own accord. "
You've still a fabulous cock and balls, superflash, perving your pics just made me happily smiling, I'm gonna have sweet dreams.... |
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Sorry rant over 
