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By *ommando4 OP Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
Back in the day, it was postulated that men reached their sexual peak in their twenties while women reached their peak in their 40's. However, men can be quite virile and able to perform sexually to an advanced age. Likewise women are not necessarily restricted to a sliding scale either.
Just as people do not walk the same path at the same time in terms of their emotional maturity or their social development, neither do they sexually for reasons that have to do with family and social responsibilities, child-rearing, educational pursuits, etc. We each walk our own path.
Personally I feel I'm still on an upward trajectory and have yet to reach my high-point.
What do you consider as your sexual peak ?
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over a year ago
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"Back in the day, it was postulated that men reached their sexual peak in their twenties while women reached their peak in their 40's. However, men can be quite virile and able to perform sexually to an advanced age. Likewise women are not necessarily restricted to a sliding scale either.
Just as people do not walk the same path at the same time in terms of their emotional maturity or their social development, neither do they sexually for reasons that have to do with family and social responsibilities, child-rearing, educational pursuits, etc. We each walk our own path.
Personally I feel I'm still on an upward trajectory and have yet to reach my high-point.
What do you consider as your sexual peak ?
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Maybe it's like the old man that wanted his sex drive lowered the doc told him at your age it's just all in your head.The old replied I know that's why I want it lowered. |
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"Back in the day, it was postulated that men reached their sexual peak in their twenties while women reached their peak in their 40's. However, men can be quite virile and able to perform sexually to an advanced age. Likewise women are not necessarily restricted to a sliding scale either.
Just as people do not walk the same path at the same time in terms of their emotional maturity or their social development, neither do they sexually for reasons that have to do with family and social responsibilities, child-rearing, educational pursuits, etc. We each walk our own path.
Personally I feel I'm still on an upward trajectory and have yet to reach my high-point.
What do you consider as your sexual peak ?
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I'd say your extraordinary fitness is a factor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 42 and I’m having a lot of fun now... I’m at ease with who I am, hubby and I are totally comfortable with the other, still excite each other and enjoy each other’s company and open to new sexual adventures. Add swinging to it and I’m having a blast  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physically it is probably still true. But that is assuming everyone is at peak fitness all their lives.
Alot more people these days (other than those invoved in highish levels of sport) are fitter in their 30s and 40s than their 20s. Less wild nights out, more disposable to spend on fitness etc....
Then there is the mental side of it, you can learn new tricks and be more confident in what you and your partner want the older you get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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age is a number ... practice makes perfect ... by all reports I am a much better lover & playmate now than 20 yrs ago ... I think I have yet to reach my peak. |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
Cap d’Agde, France |
Think a lot of it depends on whats going on in your life and where you're at.
In our 40's our sex life was rock bottom with all those demands of kids, job, mortgage and money worries.
Now at 60 it's sky high and for the last few years we have been having sex with each other 3 out of 4 days and with others averaging about once a fortnight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it can depend on how much a individual has developed a strong emotional connection to themselves, self love if you like, take masturbation for example, its rarely seen as self love, or sexual attraction to oneself, more about alleviating tension.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm well beyond my best before date but the naughty mind still gets dirtier. 
Is there a returns policy?
Nobody has complaint so far, I can still outrun a Duracell bunny.  "
Ah to be fair those little fuckers have tiny little legs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think a lot of it depends on whats going on in your life and where you're at.
In our 40's our sex life was rock bottom with all those demands of kids, job, mortgage and money worries.
Now at 60 it's sky high and for the last few years we have been having sex with each other 3 out of 4 days and with others averaging about once a fortnight."
What have ye been eating? Ye both look great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think a lot of it depends on whats going on in your life and where you're at.
In our 40's our sex life was rock bottom with all those demands of kids, job, mortgage and money worries.
Now at 60 it's sky high and for the last few years we have been having sex with each other 3 out of 4 days and with others averaging about once a fortnight.
What have ye been eating? Ye both look great "
Each other bybthe sounds of it |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"I'm well beyond my best before date but the naughty mind still gets dirtier.
Is there a returns policy?
Nobody has complaint so far, I can still outrun a Duracell bunny.
Ah to be fair those little fuckers have tiny little legs "
Yep but to be fair despite tiny legs they have the standing power of 5 hours and 56 minutes. What was the average performance time of a man again?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm well beyond my best before date but the naughty mind still gets dirtier.
Is there a returns policy?
Nobody has complaint so far, I can still outrun a Duracell bunny.
Ah to be fair those little fuckers have tiny little legs
Yep but to be fair despite tiny legs they have the standing power of 5 hours and 56 minutes. What was the average performance time of a man again?... "
Ah anything after 2minutes gets boring  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"I'm well beyond my best before date but the naughty mind still gets dirtier.
Is there a returns policy?
Nobody has complaint so far, I can still outrun a Duracell bunny.
Ah to be fair those little fuckers have tiny little legs
Yep but to be fair despite tiny legs they have the standing power of 5 hours and 56 minutes. What was the average performance time of a man again?...
Ah anything after 2minutes gets boring "
No mental stamina either...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm well beyond my best before date but the naughty mind still gets dirtier.
Is there a returns policy?
Nobody has complaint so far, I can still outrun a Duracell bunny.
Ah to be fair those little fuckers have tiny little legs
Yep but to be fair despite tiny legs they have the standing power of 5 hours and 56 minutes. What was the average performance time of a man again?...
Ah anything after 2minutes gets boring
No mental stamina either... "
Sorry I was chasing a butterfly did you say something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm well beyond my best before date but the naughty mind still gets dirtier.
Is there a returns policy?
Nobody has complaint so far, I can still outrun a Duracell bunny.
Ah to be fair those little fuckers have tiny little legs
Yep but to be fair despite tiny legs they have the standing power of 5 hours and 56 minutes. What was the average performance time of a man again?...
Ah anything after 2minutes gets boring
No mental stamina either...
Sorry I was chasing a butterfly did you say something "
What you did here needs to be recognised hahaha |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
Cap d’Agde, France |
"Think a lot of it depends on whats going on in your life and where you're at.
In our 40's our sex life was rock bottom with all those demands of kids, job, mortgage and money worries.
Now at 60 it's sky high and for the last few years we have been having sex with each other 3 out of 4 days and with others averaging about once a fortnight.
What have ye been eating? Ye both look great "
Thanks, but really do believe that regular sex is one of the best medicines combined with swinging it’s excellent for self esteem, increased fitness, weight loss, mental contentment not to mention lowering prostate risks.
The sex drive is probably the strongest human impulse and it doesn’t necessarily diminish with age. |
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"Think a lot of it depends on whats going on in your life and where you're at.
In our 40's our sex life was rock bottom with all those demands of kids, job, mortgage and money worries.
Now at 60 it's sky high and for the last few years we have been having sex with each other 3 out of 4 days and with others averaging about once a fortnight.
What have ye been eating? Ye both look great
Thanks, but really do believe that regular sex is one of the best medicines combined with swinging it’s excellent for self esteem, increased fitness, weight loss, mental contentment not to mention lowering prostate risks.
The sex drive is probably the strongest human impulse and it doesn’t necessarily diminish with age."
We concur guys ,never felt better in our lives ! |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Think a lot of it depends on whats going on in your life and where you're at.
In our 40's our sex life was rock bottom with all those demands of kids, job, mortgage and money worries.
Now at 60 it's sky high and for the last few years we have been having sex with each other 3 out of 4 days and with others averaging about once a fortnight.
What have ye been eating? Ye both look great
Thanks, but really do believe that regular sex is one of the best medicines combined with swinging it’s excellent for self esteem, increased fitness, weight loss, mental contentment not to mention lowering prostate risks.
The sex drive is probably the strongest human impulse and it doesn’t necessarily diminish with age."
Agree 100% absence of everyday stresses work wonders on sex drive...don't think we have ever been so satisfied sexually...wouldn't go back to 30s or 40s |
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I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes "
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes "
Sooo fancy a fook |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Sooo fancy a fook "
Come on CJ .... fook me hard |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
I'm definitely not having anywhere near as much sex as I had in my 20s and early 30s.
But, I'm also after reaching a point mentally where sex isn't as much as a priority as it used to be. I'm not driven by it as I once was.
Yes, I still love sex as much as anyone else, and still have quite a high sex drive but as the old Fab cliche goes, it's quality over quantity these days. |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like. "
Steph i found the secret to a good orgasm was not waiting for a guy to give you one but to find it yourself. Use a mirror find out whats down there. When you can give yourself an orgasm you can then help to guide others. Its worth the effort.
Ive a similar story to you. I depended on others for my own self worth ...now i depend on me xx |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes "
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over a year ago
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Steph i found the secret to a good orgasm was not waiting for a guy to give you one but to find it yourself. Use a mirror find out whats down there. When you can give yourself an orgasm you can then help to guide others. Its worth the effort.
Ive a similar story to you. I depended on others for my own self worth ...now i depend on me xx"
Might need to buy a mirror than lol |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Steph i found the secret to a good orgasm was not waiting for a guy to give you one but to find it yourself. Use a mirror find out whats down there. When you can give yourself an orgasm you can then help to guide others. Its worth the effort.
Ive a similar story to you. I depended on others for my own self worth ...now i depend on me xx"
120% agreeing with this, great advise. may 2019 bring you a year of climax, Steph. |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Steph i found the secret to a good orgasm was not waiting for a guy to give you one but to find it yourself. Use a mirror find out whats down there. When you can give yourself an orgasm you can then help to guide others. Its worth the effort.
Ive a similar story to you. I depended on others for my own self worth ...now i depend on me xx
Might need to buy a mirror than lol"
Fuck it if only I had know before I did my Christmas shopping |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Steph i found the secret to a good orgasm was not waiting for a guy to give you one but to find it yourself. Use a mirror find out whats down there. When you can give yourself an orgasm you can then help to guide others. Its worth the effort.
Ive a similar story to you. I depended on others for my own self worth ...now i depend on me xx
Might need to buy a mirror than lol"
Do and watch what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think a lot of it depends on whats going on in your life and where you're at.
In our 40's our sex life was rock bottom with all those demands of kids, job, mortgage and money worries.
Now at 60 it's sky high and for the last few years we have been having sex with each other 3 out of 4 days and with others averaging about once a fortnight.
What have ye been eating? Ye both look great
Thanks, but really do believe that regular sex is one of the best medicines combined with swinging it’s excellent for self esteem, increased fitness, weight loss, mental contentment not to mention lowering prostate risks.
The sex drive is probably the strongest human impulse and it doesn’t necessarily diminish with age."
I would have to agree that staying young in your mind, physically & mentally fit makes all the difference...much better sex since I turned 50 & it's really great as I near 60 ... the old dog for the long road |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like. "
Stephen I can only think that over the years you met selfish lovers...guys not prepared to take the time & to wait for you to discover what & how you liked sex ... sex is a shared experience ... wham bam & the guy cums 1st is not my idea of fun.. |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Stephen I can only think that over the years you met selfish lovers...guys not prepared to take the time & to wait for you to discover what & how you liked sex ... sex is a shared experience ... wham bam & the guy cums 1st is not my idea of fun.. "
Unfortunately that's all I thought I deserved so not really their fault. |
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Well to really enjoy sex you can't be tired at least you have to have a good nites sleap the nite before . There has to be lots of chemistry between the couple and you have to enjoy each other . Without any of these items it would be a hit and miss . |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Stephen I can only think that over the years you met selfish lovers...guys not prepared to take the time & to wait for you to discover what & how you liked sex ... sex is a shared experience ... wham bam & the guy cums 1st is not my idea of fun..
Unfortunately that's all I thought I deserved so not really their fault. "
Steph you know better now |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Stephen I can only think that over the years you met selfish lovers...guys not prepared to take the time & to wait for you to discover what & how you liked sex ... sex is a shared experience ... wham bam & the guy cums 1st is not my idea of fun..
Unfortunately that's all I thought I deserved so not really their fault.
Steph you know better now "
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like. "
Hope you dont me saying but id really really recommend you check out www.omgyes.com it's a one off payment of 40 euro but you'll learn how to make yourself orgasm. You wont regret it. Mrs Bugs |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Hope you dont me saying but id really really recommend you check out www.omgyes.com it's a one off payment of 40 euro but you'll learn how to make yourself orgasm. You wont regret it. Mrs Bugs "
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Hope you dont me saying but id really really recommend you check out www.omgyes.com it's a one off payment of 40 euro but you'll learn how to make yourself orgasm. You wont regret it. Mrs Bugs
I just need to get out of my head "
Steph, when you find out give me a shout and teach me what to do to you
Or if Rover and you want to use me to experiment on I’ll happily oblige |
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"I feel very strongly my twenties and early 30s i was shy ..lacked confidence... i never orgasmed or dared to experiment. I barely masterbated and had no idea what my body was capable of. From my late 30s on i began to self discover. I found my orgasm and i loved it. I fell in love with my imperfect body and discovered it was very powerful and men and women desired me.
Ive not reached my peek yet ..im having far to much fun getting there .... i have however refined my tastes. I know what i want, i know what turns me on. I wont fuck just for the sake of it ..ill fuck if someone just ticks all my boxes
Def in my 20 and all of my 30 was shy, after a few rejections in my early 20's, figured I was unattractive and no one would ever come near me, so I built a wall and it's only in the last 2 years I've started to think that im attractive, the bit of sex I did have over the years, I craved the feeling of been touched but it was all about the guys needs and never about mine.
I'm 44 now and have yet to have an orgasm and yet to find a guy that can make me cum. I definitely have not reached my sexual peak ( at least I bloody hope not) 2019 for me will be about finding out what I like and don't like.
Hope you dont me saying but id really really recommend you check out www.omgyes.com it's a one off payment of 40 euro but you'll learn how to make yourself orgasm. You wont regret it. Mrs Bugs
I just need to get out of my head
Steph, when you find out give me a shout and teach me what to do to you
Or if Rover and you want to use me to experiment on I’ll happily oblige "
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