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By *eebaw OP Man
over a year ago
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One for the guys and girls and couples here .
I know everyone is different but generaly what do you like to see in a message I’v sent a few messages since returning. Wasnt a copy and paste job and i put effort in as well as compliments . So what would you like to see and also what do you think is enough from your own sending ?
I woulnt mind not getting a reply but few instant blocks which i found very strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful 
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt take the block personally some people just use it as a streamlining tool.
I tend to only message if I already have something to say, so my messages take very little effort as I am just writing whats in my head, not trying to match a message to a woman if that makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ. "
Great advice. Glad the op posted this and you gabe this quality reply. I have learned a lot from your reply alone. Thank you |
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I wouldn't take offense over being blocked in those instances OP, just means you didn't match their preferences. If someone has very open filters, they probably get mailed by a lot of folk who don't actually match their preferences, so its easier to block than reply to everyone.
Personally I prefer to use my filters wisely and only reserve blocking for folk who act like complete and utter twats, or locals I suspect I may know and wish to avoid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ.
Great advice. Glad the op posted this and you gabe this quality reply. I have learned a lot from your reply alone. Thank you "
Is there a hint of sarcasm?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally find 75% of people reply to a first message.
Normally if a person catches my eye I normally give it a few days see there posts, or if the profile text changes.
I have a good gauge if I may be what they like or vice versa.
However any time I don't get a reply it's from a text I've cold sent.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ.
Great advice. Glad the op posted this and you gabe this quality reply. I have learned a lot from your reply alone. Thank you
Is there a hint of sarcasm? "
I think just a crush |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't take offense over being blocked in those instances OP, just means you didn't match their preferences. If someone has very open filters, they probably get mailed by a lot of folk who don't actually match their preferences, so its easier to block than reply to everyone.
Personally I prefer to use my filters wisely and only reserve blocking for folk who act like complete and utter twats, or locals I suspect I may know and wish to avoid "
Whoop still not a complete twat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ.
Great advice. Glad the op posted this and you gabe this quality reply. I have learned a lot from your reply alone. Thank you
Is there a hint of sarcasm? "
No sarcasm. It was great advice. Also maybe a bit of a crush lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ. "
Yes this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ. "
Fab should have this advice up as a sticky on top of page! Can we add "free to meet now" to the list |
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ.
Fab should have this advice up as a sticky on top of page! Can we add "free to meet now" to the list "
A lot of people would like Free to Meet Now to be a sticky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than two lines in a message - introduce yourself, make sure you fit what they're after, tell them what you have to offer, be sensible and respectful
Definite no gos:
Anything related to weekends/holidays.
Anything related to the weather.
"Let's chat and see where it takes us"
"Wanna fuck"
Any kind of complaints about time wasters, fakes or not being able to get a meet.
Those are my personal pet hates, I'm sure others opinions would differ.
Fab should have this advice up as a sticky on top of page! Can we add "free to meet now" to the list
A lot of people would like Free to Meet Now to be a sticky "
It would actually be a great idea to have some kind of an option for people to put a little sticky note on their profile when they're free to meet now.
As a person who's free time is always unplanned and unexpected I would greatly appreciate some kind of a search option of who's free now in surrounding area...
That would also eliminate so many "wanna fuck" and "are you free now" messages...  |
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