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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
How’s everyone on this rotten day !!
So I’m in touch with a couple
Swap mobile numbers
Lots of txt
The want to meet for a social
I agree
I send face pic as requested!
They wont ! ( I’ve always sent & received face pics,esp if we are 100% meeting)
Still won’t an hour before the meeting
I cancel it there & then
They proceed to slate me & say my name will be blackened
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You are right I would want a phone number plus face photo a good day or so before a meet . I met some one before and unless there is chemistry before you meet no point in meeting a person . They should give you a face photo . |
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I wouldn't go to meet someone without seeing a face pic first as it avoids any awkwardness of you turning up and not finding the person attractive and trying to find a polite way of saying so.
I can understand some people's need for privacy and discretion but there are plenty of discreet ways to send face pics outside of Fab. Kik, Snapchat, Email, disappearing pics, etc. |
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"I wouldn't go to meet someone without seeing a face pic first as it avoids any awkwardness of you turning up and not finding the person attractive and trying to find a polite way of saying so.
I can understand some people's need for privacy and discretion but there are plenty of discreet ways to send face pics outside of Fab. Kik, Snapchat, Email, disappearing pics, etc.
Completely agree, there plenty of ways of discreetly sending a pic.. crazy to expect someone to meet you with no idea what you look like "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never meet someone without a face pic but I am very clear and upfront about it.
I cabt ubd4rstand how you got to an hour before the meet to cancel.
Had they promised to send one? If so you are right
If they were vague about it there is a bit of blame on both sides.
If they has stated they dont send fave pics then the blame is on you for letting it get so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont swap face pics, nor do wr ever request one, there are simply too many nutjobs and indiscreet people here.
If it causes people to not want to meet us for just a social meet, that's fine by us. |
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"We dont swap face pics, nor do wr ever request one, there are simply too many nutjobs and indiscreet people here.
If it causes people to not want to meet us for just a social meet, that's fine by us. "
Same for us ,we won't loose any sleep over anyone who doesn't want to meet socially first . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy on here i had no problem sending face pics, lets face it, no one gives the tiniest hint of a fuck about a lad on a swingers site, its basically expected these days.. but its a VERY different story for girls and couples.. as a couple, we would NEVER send face pics, we'd do a quick vid chat on kik, but never face pics |
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We dont send them. No exceptions!
A quick face to face social works fine for us. For distant meets we might do a quick live video call on K!K to save a wasted journey but thats a push.
We may have missed out on potential fun as a result but we have met some great like minded people too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"single males needing face pics are use for real ? use wonder y single males get it hard for meets ? y did u not just go meet ? u could had the best night u ever had  "
I know right... he should be happy just to be offered a social... nevermind wanting to know what the people looked like.
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"single males needing face pics are use for real ? use wonder y single males get it hard for meets ? y did u not just go meet ? u could had the best night u ever had
I know right... he should be happy just to be offered a social... nevermind wanting to know what the people looked like.
Seriously like"
oh I thought single guys were there to be used and thrown in the bin like a condom ye have feelings too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We dont swap face pics, nor do wr ever request one, there are simply too many nutjobs and indiscreet people here.
If it causes people to not want to meet us for just a social meet, that's fine by us. "
This here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"single males needing face pics are use for real ? use wonder y single males get it hard for meets ? y did u not just go meet ? u could had the best night u ever had
I know right... he should be happy just to be offered a social... nevermind wanting to know what the people looked like.
Seriously like"
quick video call in our mind cancels out the need to exchange face pics... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"single males needing face pics are use for real ? use wonder y single males get it hard for meets ? y did u not just go meet ? u could had the best night u ever had
I know right... he should be happy just to be offered a social... nevermind wanting to know what the people looked like.
Seriously likequick video call in our mind cancels out the need to exchange face pics..."
Perfect way to make sure everyobe is happy.
And some people are happy to meet with gaving never seen each other.
My point was the suggestion that just because he was a single male he should be grateful of a meet and not have his preferences is rubbish |
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I can understand why people don't want to send face pics. I'm easy. I offer a face pic, if they don't want to send one that's OK. I'll meet anyone for a social, chat. If I like them(regardless of what their face looks like), I'll offer them a massage. If not, I'm happy to walk away. The only problem is, trying to pick them out in a crowded cafe/bar can be an adventure in itself. |
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Face pics are very important for us as it helps us decide very quickly, if there is any hope for a match between both of us and the other couple.
Also, a lot of people here like to shave at least 5 years of their real age, but more often than not 10 or 15 years happens too and we've seen plenty of people, in the last week that are a lot older in reality.
Sometimes in reality the guy is much older than the woman and the face pic reveals the real age of him.
The worst is when the pics on the profile are very nice, good quality clear shots ... but then the face pics are from far away or blurry, definitely the faces don't match the bodies from the profile pics.
And last, a lot of couples like to chat a lot, find loads of info about us and then, when asked to swap face pics .. stop the chat immediately.
This is our experience of two weeks on Fab and we would never go for a meet without seeing face pics before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate sending face pics and very rarely send one .. I'm the most unphotogenic person you could meet !! I'm far better in real life  "
I keep telling myself the same thing!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure your just gorgeous I'm one of those people as soon as a camera is pointed at me I start making the weirdest faces "
I don't even need to make faces, stuck with my natural one! |
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