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Spoke to a man lately who is divorced a number of years. Want a to get back into dating but says to me he would love to get into a relationship with a woman again but under no circumstances does he want a woman living with him full time. Can you see his point of view? Anyone here like a situation like that? |
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He is probably afraid they might take to cleaning the place or something like that. His issue with women is probably a timing thing
Most men live for the future, " i will bring out the bins" , " I will fill/empty the dishwasher, "I will do the laundry, or change my toothbrush"
In General most women live for the now...
ahem ..god help me
I do have a similar friend, she would like a man, but doesn't want him hanging round the house, unless he can fix things and walk the dog, even then, i think she would just like someone handy, not sure what you call them  |
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Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living together |
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"Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living together"
This is 100% |
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"Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living together"
I think he loves his own company and can leave things fucked around the house and clean it when he wants without some body nagging at him.
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"Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living togetherI think he loves his own company and can leave things fucked around the house and clean it when he wants without some body nagging at him. "
Nothing wrong with that  |
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"Totally get this. I have spent a lot of years living on my own and don't think I could share a house again, but would like the companionship and regular sex that a 'relationship' could bring. Without all the other shite that goes with living together"
This 150%. Have spent over the last year sharing with people because of work and never again. Have lived on my own for last 22 yes with my son (I know technically not alone) but hated every minute of sharing a house. I like my own space, like to listen and watch what I want, just be handy to have someone around every now And than. |
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The times we live in have changed relationships too. I work with several guys who live in a different country to their wives and children. They moved for the job and only see their family a few times a year, or some every weekend if not so far away.
They all seem very happy with the arrangement
Horses for courses |
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Man walks into toy shop wants to buy a barbie for his daughter
Sees a few in boxes then this massive Barbie box
Asks assistant what the massive Barbie box contains
Assistant says "thats divorced Barbie, with it comes Kens house Kens car Kens boat, furniture etc!" |
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"Man walks into toy shop wants to buy a barbie for his daughter
Sees a few in boxes then this massive Barbie box
Asks assistant what the massive Barbie box contains
Assistant says "thats divorced Barbie, with it comes Kens house Kens car Kens boat, furniture etc!" "
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I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving  |
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"The times we live in have changed relationships too. I work with several guys who live in a different country to their wives and children. They moved for the job and only see their family a few times a year, or some every weekend if not so far away.
They all seem very happy with the arrangement
Horses for courses"
For the times they are a changing songs in my head now! |
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"I think a casual relationship with a cleaner would be ideal for most men on this post.. "
Or on the site in general judging by the background mess in some pics
Not that I mean any disrespect to cleaners, far from it |
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Living on my own at the moment but hopefully in the new year that will change i love to share and the company of a lady with the same outlook as myself on life so going to give it my all new house new neighbourhood |
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"Spoke to a man lately who is divorced a number of years. Want a to get back into dating but says to me he would love to get into a relationship with a woman again but under no circumstances does he want a woman living with him full time. Can you see his point of view? Anyone here like a situation like that?"
Was dating a guy for nearly two years after my marriage break up.... And I wouldn't be rushing into living with a man again... It was very easy going relationship... We spent weekends together ... And headed off on a few holidays together... I kept my family life separate to my relationship... And it was good while it lasted... |
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"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving "
All this. |
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I’m very happily married to a perv like myself but we only see each other 4 months during the year due to work, It’s been like this on and off half of the 15 years we are together. We enjoy and make the most of the months we do have together but we could as easily and have done, go back to living together full time. Everyone is different in their feeling on how a relationship should work. |
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"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving "
This is legit me.... spend time together do cute stuff. Then kindly bugger off pleaseeee |
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"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving
All this."
I'm like that with family. Ok you've had ur cuppa u can feck.off now |
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"I honestly don't think I could live full time with anyone, used to having my own personal space on the short term I don't mind but usually after a day I'm like when tf are they leaving
All this.
I'm like that with family. Ok you've had ur cuppa u can feck.off now "
Lol I’m like that too with most ppl. |
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"What way would ye be Xmas day night? Stay on your own or go to some body elses?"
Christmas day is after all, just another day, if you are happy with your own company the rest of the year, why should it be different? |
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"What way would ye be Xmas day night? Stay on your own or go to some body elses?
Christmas day is after all, just another day, if you are happy with your own company the rest of the year, why should it be different? "
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"Happily married a long time...but if i was alone tomorrow no way would i live with anyone again and thats coming from a happy prospective...."
i would be the same way as you on that..live seperate and have a fun relationship.. |
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"I see some people making a song and dance about people staying on their own at Xmas. I'm like, why? Maybe they like it/ want it that way. Some think you have to get into a group meal or whatever. "
Totally agree. So far I only got to spend that day alone once and oh my it was a true blessing. Loved every minute of it. |
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"I see some people making a song and dance about people staying on their own at Xmas. I'm like, why? Maybe they like it/ want it that way. Some think you have to get into a group meal or whatever. "
I think it's because some make it a big deal. Pressurised into old traditions. Do what makes you happy. |
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"Everyone off much over Xmas?"
Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December.  |
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"Everyone off much over Xmas?
Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December. "
I'll come in the case. I can bundle up small |
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"Everyone off much over Xmas?
Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December. I'll come in the case. I can bundle up small"
Sorry girls only |
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"Everyone off much over Xmas?
Normally I am just off for the 3 bank holidays, buy this year I'm taking my girls to London for 4 days on the 27th, can't imagine wasting my precious holiday leave to sit around at home in December. I'll come in the case. I can bundle up small
Sorry girls only "
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