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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers  "
To me it's something like - having someone you can be open with and rely on for having a good time without having to report what you're doing, where you're going, when you'll be back, who you're with... someone who will not ask to spend all your waking time with them and mind their own business in between  |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers
To me it's something like - having someone you can be open with and rely on for having a good time without having to report what you're doing, where you're going, when you'll be back, who you're with... someone who will not ask to spend all your waking time with them and mind their own business in between "
I have this, sometimes we meet every week, sometimes 6months go by but either way when we meet it’s worth it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular... its hard to organise meets alot of the time with work and travel so finding someone that I click with amd is availabl the same times as me is handy.
Saying that there are a few ladies that distance wise might mean once offs but I'm willing to sacrificrle myself for the cause  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers
To me it's something like - having someone you can be open with and rely on for having a good time without having to report what you're doing, where you're going, when you'll be back, who you're with... someone who will not ask to spend all your waking time with them and mind their own business in between
I have this, sometimes we meet every week, sometimes 6months go by but either way when we meet it’s worth it "
Exactly that.
That's another one of my reasons for only meeting local people - if I ever want to see them again it's less hassle for both parties |
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I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers "
Exactly but most guys that are married would prefer regular easier for them i guess  |
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They are two different experiences so it depends what you are after. Never enough time with one meet to fully explore and the more you get to know someone then the better it can be on my opinion, so regular |
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"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers "
exactly. A regular is to intimate in a sexual context. Well, obviously depends how much you're seen of one another |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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I like one offs (but haven chatted and gotten to know them a bit first). I do also like to re-meet people but nothing too regular as that way the excitement and spontaneity can remain. |
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Both!!! Why choose?? I adore my fwb and all the fun times we've had over the years, but that doesn't mean that if I had the time and opportunity to meet someone else I fancied at some point, I did't... We both had other meets and enjoyed ourselves without it taking away from our own connection |
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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago
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It's probably different for singles and couples. I'd imagine single females would feel safer meeting with the people they have grown to know and trust. As a couple for us anyway it's great meeting new people and making new friends. Love a second or even third meet but after that we would always be conscious that we don't get too emotionally connected. We have each other for that. Does that make sense? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?"
I know cant trust them lady folk not to catch feels
I get the orgasim point alright though, but I dont think you can just generalise about it being easier for men than women. I know plenty women that are happy to have one offs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many lads looking for regular on here . To me it's like been someone's girlfriend without the hearts and flowers Exactly but most guys that are married would prefer regular easier for them i guess "
And most of the "single " men on here, well the ones that have contacted us are married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?
I know cant trust them lady folk not to catch feels
I get the orgasim point alright though, but I dont think you can just generalise about it being easier for men than women. I know plenty women that are happy to have one offs"
Somehow I always find the person I'm kinda seeing catch feelings first then all the hassle of getting rid of them... I must be a man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?
I know cant trust them lady folk not to catch feels
I get the orgasim point alright though, but I dont think you can just generalise about it being easier for men than women. I know plenty women that are happy to have one offs
Somehow I always find the person I'm kinda seeing catch feelings first then all the hassle of getting rid of them... I must be a man "
I mean we were all thinking it....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why I prefer the married man for regular fun. Less likelihood of feelings catching! You know from get-go that anything more than sex isn't on the cards. It's a win-win when you're not seeking a relationship...but got needs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny ..... "
Does your Granny swing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny .....
Does your Granny swing? "
I believe she takes her teeth out for triple penetration..... Oh jesus I'm going to hell |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny .....
Does your Granny swing?
I believe she takes her teeth out for triple penetration..... Oh jesus I'm going to hell"
Perhaps time to stop now Sir.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular would be nice, but I'm sure like everyone, it's getting that quality time, and any time that is found is nice being spent exploring the same body and mind further, rather than starting from scratch with someone else.... Jesus I think I've turned into my granny .....
Does your Granny swing?
I believe she takes her teeth out for triple penetration..... Oh jesus I'm going to hell
Perhaps time to stop now Sir.."
I have my texting thumb muzzled |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more..... 
Maybe I’m wrong?!
Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more.....
Maybe I’m wrong?!
Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;)"
Why complicate things with anything more?
There can be 3 or 4 regulars you know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more.....
Maybe I’m wrong?!
Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;)"
As has been said before, it all depends on emotions being kept under wraps. I had an unfortunate experience on another site which started as regular meets |
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By *ommando4 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have learned the hard way. Regular sex with somebody you see alot of, feelings on one side could become a problem. I think it's easier for men to shag diff amounts of women then it is for women to shag diff amounts of men. I'll ask men this. Have you ever had sex and Not cum?"
Yes....quite a common occurrence for me recently....should I see a doctor ? Fun had been great by the way regardless of the climax.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular as the sex tends to get better "
Exactly, the more you learn about a body and mind, the better the next experience with that same person, once both people are on the same page |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"Some people are saying regular... and I’m thinking - they are really looking for regular to turn into something more.....
Maybe I’m wrong?!
Regular still means casually meeting no strings to everyone here?...right??;)
Why complicate things with anything more?
There can be 3 or 4 regulars you know... "
That’s what I’d be thinking, yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular meets can lead to amazing sex and all round great fun
They definately can though emotions can become involved if not careful"
Yeah agree with that but suppose both parties know the score from the outset |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's kinda funny how we all had relationship threads going a few weeks ago and everyone was like "yes, matching your kinks with someone and ended up being together is a brilliant thing" now on this thread everyone is avoiding feelings like a hellfire |
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By *ommando4 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries!"
Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?"
Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border! |
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Regular but not really regular
More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night
I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time
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"Regular but not really regular
More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night
I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time
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Perfect scenario |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?
Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border!"
It will be grand the only difference is we'll be eating more tayto than walkers
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?
Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border!
It will be grand the only difference is we'll be eating more tayto than walkers
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What about King and Hunky Dory though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both would be good I think provided everyone knows the boundaries! Do mean a hard border on the island from end of March ? Possibly getting attached and dare I say besotted ? Perhaps a Sargent John Stalker ?
Well there’s some chance that people will understand the boundaries of swinging but F all chance of understanding what is going to happen with the hard border!
It will be grand the only difference is we'll be eating more tayto than walkers
What about King and Hunky Dory though?"
King no hunky dory no.1 in my house.. But back to the thread, regular is better for obvious reasons but I do wonder what percentage leave the inevitable feelings out? Couples have more control when their together in a given situation, singles however it's more intimate I mean if you really click its only natural  |
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"Regular but not really regular
More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night
I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time
Perfect scenario "
Rover I think we need a trial period
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer regular meets because you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes and you can push boundaries with someone you’re comfortable with. But there is a danger of feelings getting involved. I’ve been on both sides of that problem in the past. It’s all about finding the right balance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer regular meets because you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes and you can push boundaries with someone you’re comfortable with. But there is a danger of feelings getting involved. I’ve been on both sides of that problem in the past. It’s all about finding the right balance. "
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"Regular but not really regular
More like someone or a few people that you can always go back to for a fun day/night
I’m not looking for someone I can meet with every week more like once every few months so that we can tease each other and look forward to the next time
Perfect scenario
Rover I think we need a trial period
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See if were compatible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've no real preference. I like one off meets for variety and new adventures and I like regular meets for the conversation, trust and exploration."
Totally agree with you!!! |
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