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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Looks like it's near my time to hang up my swinging shoes' not having any look on here.seems all there looking for good looking males not people like me ..swinging is not what you look like,its ment to be fun not dating just saying how it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately there is a degree of attraction so it is about how ye look . Sure as a big girl I wouldn't be too everyone's taste but I wouldn't let it bother me as that's how life is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately there is a degree of attraction so it is about how ye look . Sure as a big girl I wouldn't be too everyone's taste but I wouldn't let it bother me as that's how life is "
Actually... very good point.
Wonder if OP thinks that if one is a swinger - legs will automatically be kept open for anything and anyone that's nearby or in need of a dip  |
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"Unfortunately there is a degree of attraction so it is about how ye look . Sure as a big girl I wouldn't be too everyone's taste but I wouldn't let it bother me as that's how life is
Actually... very good point.
Wonder if OP thinks that if one is a swinger - legs will automatically be kept open for anything and anyone that's nearby or in need of a dip "
Was just thinking the same thing!! That sense of entitlement is more likely to put me off someone than how they look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure as we are saying it how it is.....
Just because people arent looking for dates does not mean they are obligated to have sex with people they are not attracted to.
There are loads of people that find that attraction in alot more ways than just good looks.
So if your not having any luck maybe reflect on your approch instead of writibg off as others juat being better looking |
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"Unfortunately there is a degree of attraction so it is about how ye look . Sure as a big girl I wouldn't be too everyone's taste but I wouldn't let it bother me as that's how life is
Actually... very good point.
Wonder if OP thinks that if one is a swinger - legs will automatically be kept open for anything and anyone that's nearby or in need of a dip "
That's one thing that really bothered me when I was part of a couple on here. So many guys thinking that just because my partner was a swinger that she would fuck them, just because...... as if she should have automatically said yes each time, because they wanted a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately there is a degree of attraction so it is about how ye look . Sure as a big girl I wouldn't be too everyone's taste but I wouldn't let it bother me as that's how life is
Actually... very good point.
Wonder if OP thinks that if one is a swinger - legs will automatically be kept open for anything and anyone that's nearby or in need of a dip
That's one thing that really bothered me when I was part of a couple on here. So many guys thinking that just because my partner was a swinger that she would fuck them, just because...... as if she should have automatically said yes each time, because they wanted a bit."
I get a lot of messages stating something similar to:
"Hi, I'm only new here, interested in a meet with you as you look like you have a lot of experience. Will do a quick social before if you want". Like what the hell? Did I forget to take the "desperate for a penis" sign off my forehead?  |
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"What is wrong with dating a person from the swinging community and just swinging together?
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Exactly, as soon as expectations come into the equation it takes away from the fun. Dates, hanging out, enjoying the fruits of life..... why add complications? Always better to just let things flow and enjoy that drift along the river along the way rather than trying to force something. I think too many people try to force their own agenda. Compersion should be key in every encounter. From joy you can receive joy. |
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"Unfortunately there is a degree of attraction so it is about how ye look . Sure as a big girl I wouldn't be too everyone's taste but I wouldn't let it bother me as that's how life is
Actually... very good point.
Wonder if OP thinks that if one is a swinger - legs will automatically be kept open for anything and anyone that's nearby or in need of a dip
That's one thing that really bothered me when I was part of a couple on here. So many guys thinking that just because my partner was a swinger that she would fuck them, just because...... as if she should have automatically said yes each time, because they wanted a bit.
I get a lot of messages stating something similar to:
"Hi, I'm only new here, interested in a meet with you as you look like you have a lot of experience. Will do a quick social before if you want". Like what the hell? Did I forget to take the "desperate for a penis" sign off my forehead? "
Yeah I totally know what you mean. I had this single account for quite a while before I got in a relationship and once we had a couple profile and I seen the messages it really opened my eyes up.
"Hey I'm in the area now passing by *hint* *hint*" or "I'm free at the moment and have some time to kill".
Me: How about fuck off? This isn't a free hooker service or dial a ride.
"I can pick you up in the car if you want".
Yeah like she's going to jump in a car with a total stranger.
Or another one would have been "Aawwww sorry I didn't mean to seem pushy but I'm just really horny and have a huge load I need to unleash". Ummmm ok, so you want to get off? Does C's satisfaction not count or is it just about you? 
Now when a guy turned round and would say "It's as much about your satisfaction as it is mine" or when they would say "As long as your Mr is ok with it"..... that's a sign of respect and those were the ones we tended to click with.
So many caveman neanderthal types on here but shovelling through all the shit, as frustrating as it can be at times is worth it to find those few gems or diamonds. |
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