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Grieving. Ceremonial or necessary
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Both, i think... i wouldnt be one that has gone through the typical stages of grief as laid out by kubler-ross, but i do miss my dog, and often recall fond memories of him. And strangely enough, i couldnt attempt to replace him. I find that unusual, how someone can replace the people they purport to love so quickly, i see this on fab, amongst other places and find it so disrespectful to the persons memory..anyways just reminiscing of people ive lost at this time of the year  |
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"Both, i think... i wouldnt be one that has gone through the typical stages of grief as laid out by kubler-ross, but i do miss my dog, and often recall fond memories of him. And strangely enough, i couldnt attempt to replace him. I find that unusual, how someone can replace the people they purport to love so quickly, i see this on fab, amongst other places and find it so disrespectful to the persons memory..anyways just reminiscing of people ive lost at this time of the year "
Everyone is different I guess some need to fill the void with something/someone as they cant cope with the loss and gap it leaves.
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"Both, i think... i wouldnt be one that has gone through the typical stages of grief as laid out by kubler-ross, but i do miss my dog, and often recall fond memories of him. And strangely enough, i couldnt attempt to replace him. I find that unusual, how someone can replace the people they purport to love so quickly, i see this on fab, amongst other places and find it so disrespectful to the persons memory..anyways just reminiscing of people ive lost at this time of the year
Everyone is different I guess some need to fill the void with something/someone as they cant cope with the loss and gap it leaves.
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Yeah, id like to be that understanding at times, but i do genuinely believe that some are too fucking selfish to consider anyone but themselves..anyways, not my bag i suppose, im struggling with the holdall  |
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"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve. "
I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner. |
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"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.
I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner. "
Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat. |
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"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.
I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner.
Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat. "
you do what is right for you, you make it clear on your profile your reasons for being on site and if you feel it's not right to change your name than don't...  |
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"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.
I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner.
Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat. you do what is right for you, you make it clear on your profile your reasons for being on site and if you feel it's not right to change your name than don't... "
I haven't really thought too far ahead. Everything is just sort of day by day at present. |
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"Everybody is different and deals with grief in different ways. There is no set right or wrong way to grieve.
I totally agree with you, if you dont mind me saying your profile name reminds me of your deceased partner, i never met the lady, but i was involved in some of the discussions that took place here involving you both..maybe your not aware of, or even care for that matter, that your profile name is inextricably linked to your former partner.
Yeah I will change my username in due course once I think of a new one and am ready to move beyond chat. you do what is right for you, you make it clear on your profile your reasons for being on site and if you feel it's not right to change your name than don't...
I haven't really thought too far ahead. Everything is just sort of day by day at present. "
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