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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey fabbers,
I know we all have to start somewhere but do people on here avoid them until they’ve settled down and are active on the site?
I only ask is that I see quite a few join and find it’s not for them. Normally it’s soon after I’ve messages them welcoming them to the site and did they want to chat even before they’ve got photo verified, put up some saucy pics and got at least 30 verifications. Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone being new doesn't really bother me... I've even met people who had a profile for over a year and still had no veris. Not a single time I had any issues with the fact that the person is new. |
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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago
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I avoid newbies cause I've had bad experiences. For example get talking next thing the profile disappears. As I'm bi got talking to 'girls' before but when I asked for confirmation I was either blocked or the profile deleted. I understand we all have to start somewhere so best get cam verified first or find someone who is willing to take a chance & meet face to face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Though fairly new myself,wouldn't message a newbie now for a least a week or two for fear of becoming victim of the mass delete of the 500 messages they received on the first day!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Found on my initial forays into swing life that the chat or here on the forum was the place to get over the newbie hump. I progressed from chatting, to chatting and sharing photos, to chatting and camming all the way to meeting and beyond. It always took me a while to get there but as the saying goes Rome wasn't built in a day. The whole process was fun and had its own impact on the intensity of the initial and subsequent meetings. In short, everyone is a newbie once but at the very least put the effort in and give each other and chance. Best of luck everyone and enjoy what swinging brings to you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've read the second paragraph of the opening post about 5 times and still can't work out what op wants to say.
Any translations? He wants to get his Willy wet. Simple."
Bit more nuanced than that.
He wants to be advised if he should pursure new people to get his willy wet... and do others we willies in newbies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've read the second paragraph of the opening post about 5 times and still can't work out what op wants to say.
Any translations? He wants to get his Willy wet. Simple."
That was very funny translations.
How to blame man for being straight to the point.
When is to much it is a bit confusing.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I've read the second paragraph of the opening post about 5 times and still can't work out what op wants to say.
Any translations? "
It was an attempt at humour. I was referring to what some people would expect on a profile before they consider them to be genuine.
I hope that helps. |
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