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We've had a couple of lads in touch recently claiming that they know us. One was easily fobbed off but the other was quiet persistent, even thou it was clear he didn't know Scarlett/us.
Has this happened to other couples?
Admittedly, there is a small thrill is the thought of someone (non-family) recognising you but statistically, the chances are remote. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"We've had a couple of lads in touch recently claiming that they know us. One was easily fobbed off but the other was quiet persistent, even thou it was clear he didn't know Scarlett/us.
Has this happened to other couples?
Admittedly, there is a small thrill is the thought of someone (non-family) recognising you but statistically, the chances are remote. "
Are the chances that small? Small population and I wouldn’t b surprised! I had someone name my profession recently, “you look like a .......” it wasn’t a trill I felt! |
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"We've had a couple of lads in touch recently claiming that they know us. One was easily fobbed off but the other was quiet persistent, even thou it was clear he didn't know Scarlett/us.
Has this happened to other couples?
Admittedly, there is a small thrill is the thought of someone (non-family) recognising you but statistically, the chances are remote.
Are the chances that small? Small population and I wouldn’t b surprised! I had someone name my profession recently, “you look like a .......” it wasn’t a trill I felt!" Valid point and I think the fantasy aspect is thrill but really you'd break out in a cold sweat! |
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"You are extremely easily identifiable going on your pics. "
Very true and normally we aren't so cheeky but went with something naughty for TOT.
You guys also have pretty identifiable pictures. Have you had an issue? |
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"We live in a very small town so have to be careful as there is always a few people on who's near, hence no face pics"
Fully understand that. Even with a mask certainly features are hard to hide so your right to play it safe! Thanks |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"You are extremely easily identifiable going on your pics.
Very true and normally we aren't so cheeky but went with something naughty for TOT.
You guys also have pretty identifiable pictures. Have you had an issue? "
I would say I could pick you both out of a line up...but I have looked at ur pics a few times;) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have being recognised.... some I bump into regarally and there just a nod and a smile..... fab is great like that don't bring and outside world into it . And don't bring fab world into your outside life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been recognized before.
A fella from our local shop who was a single fella on fab guessed who we were without ever seeing a face picture.
Don't go into the shop anymore.  |
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"Yeah i would chop all of Scarlet face pics and head pics off!though she is very beautiful!"
We actually took the titty picture down. It was only for giggle but we are going to log off soon and don't want it sitting on the profile overnight... when the real lurkers come out lol
Hope your well pal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy messaged me while I was in a park asking was I in that particular park right now because he recognised my tattoos. I left immediately and went somewhere else and a guy came up to me to start chatting along the pier an hour later and asked had I come from that park. must have been him really freaked me out I understand it happens that we may recognise the odd person from fab but theres no need to be creepy about it  |
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"You are extremely easily identifiable going on your pics.
Very true and normally we aren't so cheeky but went with something naughty for TOT.
You guys also have pretty identifiable pictures. Have you had an issue?
I would say I could pick you both out of a line up...but I have looked at ur pics a few times;)"
Haha, but we generally wear clothes when we are out and about. Unless we are up Donabate on a summer's day! |
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"A guy messaged me while I was in a park asking was I in that particular park right now because he recognised my tattoos. I left immediately and went somewhere else and a guy came up to me to start chatting along the pier an hour later and asked had I come from that park. must have been him really freaked me out I understand it happens that we may recognise the odd person from fab but theres no need to be creepy about it "
Jeepers, that sounds very creepy indeed. Glad it didn't go too sideways for you! |
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"We have been recognized before.
A fella from our local shop who was a single fella on fab guessed who we were without ever seeing a face picture.
Don't go into the shop anymore. "
Probably very wise! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy messaged me while I was in a park asking was I in that particular park right now because he recognised my tattoos. I left immediately and went somewhere else and a guy came up to me to start chatting along the pier an hour later and asked had I come from that park. must have been him really freaked me out I understand it happens that we may recognise the odd person from fab but theres no need to be creepy about it
Jeepers, that sounds very creepy indeed. Glad it didn't go too sideways for you! "
I was lucky I had my hubby with me. Was soooo creepy  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"You are extremely easily identifiable going on your pics.
Very true and normally we aren't so cheeky but went with something naughty for TOT.
You guys also have pretty identifiable pictures. Have you had an issue? " nothing so far but i think the one of you standing is a give away  |
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We've chatted with a couple before on here and then copped that we knew them, we talked a bit about fab related topics but nothing came about it so we didn't say anymore.
I think if someone knew us on here then we'd like to know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been recognized by a lady on here..we still chat I’m still not 100% who she is and i think that turns her on lol we’ve talked about meeting but only when I’m blindfolded!
And I have confirmed she is actually female lol we have talked on the phone several times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What ye think isn’t it a lil trill to be recognized r to spot sum one ya know I have to say if ever I did meet sum1 I know family’ friend ‘neighbors no1 on this planet will ever here about it from me. What happens on fab stays on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was recognised at a gig in the town solely by my eyes.." ...I did that to a certain lady here who I had chatted to on pof..eyes can be a giveaway.. it freaked her out for a bit  |
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
Dublin/westmeath/kildare |
Had a few.
One from another site freaked me out a bit, told me where i worked as he could see me from top of bus. There was very tall barrier in front of my desk. That office i was often by myself, was worried he would see that one day & come in. Others were just a nod, except one who we have met at party few times who talks to us in shop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a couple from my sleepy little village usually within a mile of me, I messaged them for the craic and we have a bit of banter about bumping into each other, I doubt we would recognize each other tho, and plus I wouldn’t like to put them in an awkward position, or me. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"You are extremely easily identifiable going on your pics.
Very true and normally we aren't so cheeky but went with something naughty for TOT.
You guys also have pretty identifiable pictures. Have you had an issue?
I would say I could pick you both out of a line up...but I have looked at ur pics a few times;)
Haha, but we generally wear clothes when we are out and about. Unless we are up Donabate on a summer's day!"
Good to know now you’ll have an audience roaming Donabate  |
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"You are extremely easily identifiable going on your pics.
Very true and normally we aren't so cheeky but went with something naughty for TOT.
You guys also have pretty identifiable pictures. Have you had an issue?
I would say I could pick you both out of a line up...but I have looked at ur pics a few times;)
Haha, but we generally wear clothes when we are out and about. Unless we are up Donabate on a summer's day!
Good to know now you’ll have an audience roaming Donabate "
They would be a brave single male as there is lots of bi/gay cruising up there so be warned.
Doesn't matter to us at all but it might be your bum being checked out, not Scarlett's!
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We very very rarely talk to anyone from town or surrounding areas, normally dublin would be the closest we would normally consider for that exact reason..
We like to fuck, but we also like our privacy
Have seen several men in the nearby that i know, (who uploads a public facepic? ) but we always leave them to their own devices.. dont even know if they stuck it out now that i think about it |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
Have recognized a few. The eyes and body language give it away that they know us too. As long as it stays private we've no problem with this. Bit close to home for playing though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im very careful who I send my face pics to on here. It would be my worst nightmare if I sent them to someone either in my family or a friend/work colleague. I like to keep my fab life and real life as separate as possible. Theres been a few times when I try tell people this if were messaging and it always seems to be the conversation killer. Im just a private person!  |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"You are extremely easily identifiable going on your pics.
Very true and normally we aren't so cheeky but went with something naughty for TOT.
You guys also have pretty identifiable pictures. Have you had an issue?
I would say I could pick you both out of a line up...but I have looked at ur pics a few times;)
Haha, but we generally wear clothes when we are out and about. Unless we are up Donabate on a summer's day!
Good to know now you’ll have an audience roaming Donabate
They would be a brave single male as there is lots of bi/gay cruising up there so be warned.
Doesn't matter to us at all but it might be your bum being checked out, not Scarlett's!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im very careful who I send my face pics to on here. It would be my worst nightmare if I sent them to someone either in my family or a friend/work colleague. I like to keep my fab life and real life as separate as possible. Theres been a few times when I try tell people this if were messaging and it always seems to be the conversation killer. Im just a private person! "
As are we. There are also some individuals here who see nothing wrong with sharing pics with third parties. We no longer share face pics, are quite happy to meet for a drink without, and if that doesn't suit others they needn't meet us, simple as. |
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Yes i was at a wedding and before the reception took place wedding guests was waiting in the hotel bar. I was with family and friend's didn't think too much till the following day I got s message telling me what I was wearing where I was and also didn't want to approach cause I was with my husband...the husband who he thought was, was actually my father. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"Yes i was at a wedding and before the reception took place wedding guests was waiting in the hotel bar. I was with family and friend's didn't think too much till the following day I got s message telling me what I was wearing where I was and also didn't want to approach cause I was with my husband...the husband who he thought was, was actually my father."
How did they pick u out? ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had a couple write to us giving me my full name and my mams full address in a different county and told me I should be ashamed of myself for being on this site and they were gonna show family members of mine.. I still to this day don't know who they are and don't really want to know we all have our own reasons why were here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr has. We recieved a message just saying Mr's full name, we just replied "whos that?"
And? I hope they didn’t just leave u wondering and stressing?"
Blocked them and we hadnt really thought about it again until we saw this thread. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"Mr has. We recieved a message just saying Mr's full name, we just replied "whos that?"
And? I hope they didn’t just leave u wondering and stressing?
Blocked them and we hadnt really thought about it again until we saw this thread. "
Good for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr has. We recieved a message just saying Mr's full name, we just replied "whos that?""
Well there are a few pics where Mr. can be noticeable! Would recommend to take them off or apply filters |
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I’ve been recognised 3 times. Once was my own fault as I sent a face pic. Once was at a party and once was an old flame who totally called me from my profile.
Two out of three resulted in a great night! |
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I was doing an assessment on someone 2 weeks ago and kept on thinking I recognised them frkm somewhere. Half way through the assessment I realised I had bumped into them a few times over the years in clubs. They didnt seem to recognise me, which was good but I will no doubt bump into them again in a club and my worry isn't about me being recognised but them feeling uncomfortable, realising who I am when out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recognised two people but I didn't send any messages or other concerning that cause in my opinion is kinda of privacy breach and pushy, might get people suspicious and lead to not so nice behaviours |
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"Don't THINK I've been recognised. "
Lucky you as being recognised and having your pictures copied and then circulated as someone else's girlfriend seem to be two of the biggest fears here. Wouldn't you agree, mate? |
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By *ivelifeMan
over a year ago
Border region |
Do you care ? way i look at if someone is discreet and notice you the wont make it obivious or ever mention it to you. On the other hand if someone makes it there business to let you know the know who you are the have sad sad lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't THINK I've been recognised.
Lucky you as being recognised and having your pictures copied and then circulated as someone else's girlfriend seem to be two of the biggest fears here. Wouldn't you agree, mate?"
is there a story? |
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"Don't THINK I've been recognised.
Lucky you as being recognised and having your pictures copied and then circulated as someone else's girlfriend seem to be two of the biggest fears here. Wouldn't you agree, mate?
is there a story?"
If there was, we wouldn't be allowed to say it in the forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't THINK I've been recognised.
Lucky you as being recognised and having your pictures copied and then circulated as someone else's girlfriend seem to be two of the biggest fears here. Wouldn't you agree, mate?
is there a story?
If there was, we wouldn't be allowed to say it in the forum."
Mores the pity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got recognised by a guy on here he got very abusive and threatening he lives in town and owns a business in here thank god he is no longer on fab he did this to a mother woman she got the garda on him he threatened to cut her throat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a funny one in the lift leaving work recently. Lift starts to empty out as we get to the top floor. Last guy left in the lift turns around a little and asks me if I'm having a fab day, followed by eye contact a few seconds too long
Was funny at the time, but looking back now, a little creepy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't know about recognise but I have met a good few that I knew outside fab! no big deal we are all here for the same and no one is doing anything bad so I dont see why it should be a big deal and of course i do understand some people outside fab will probably judge but them feckers do it anyways !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I couldn't understand it either. I thought although we all have different preferences on this I thought that we were still all here for the one reason. Safe fun n lots of banter..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After uploading my last photo I right away got "recognized" by at least 5 people.
One of them came back with an apology today. He went ahead and chatted up the woman he thought I was. If you don't laugh... huh |
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Don’t know what’s the fuzz about. Someone recognize you from FAB means he/she is a Fabber/Fabette. So what ...? Though we do not share our lifestyle on facebook , we are not ashamed of living a lifestyle of eroticism or better , we are not ashamed of converting fantasies into reality whilst others may only wank secretly to it and run for confession on Sunday for their durty craves  |
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"Don’t know what’s the fuzz about. Someone recognize you from FAB means he/she is a Fabber/Fabette. So what ...? Though we do not share our lifestyle on facebook , we are not ashamed of living a lifestyle of eroticism or better , we are not ashamed of converting fantasies into reality whilst others may only wank secretly to it and run for confession on Sunday for their durty craves "
I guess not everyone is as open about it.
Also to be fair as is pointed out about a thousand times a day there as numerous lurkers and not so (for lack of a better word) genuine people on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t know what’s the fuzz about. Someone recognize you from FAB means he/she is a Fabber/Fabette. So what ...? Though we do not share our lifestyle on facebook , we are not ashamed of living a lifestyle of eroticism or better , we are not ashamed of converting fantasies into reality whilst others may only wank secretly to it and run for confession on Sunday for their durty craves "
Agree with you, but it seems there's still that taboo or stigma of been known or seen as a swinger . |
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"Don’t know what’s the fuzz about. Someone recognize you from FAB means he/she is a Fabber/Fabette. So what ...? Though we do not share our lifestyle on facebook , we are not ashamed of living a lifestyle of eroticism or better , we are not ashamed of converting fantasies into reality whilst others may only wank secretly to it and run for confession on Sunday for their durty craves
Agree with you, but it seems there's still that taboo or stigma of been known or seen as a swinger . "
yeah , we know
it’s the 21st century and promiscuity is mainstream all long . Some use tinder other use fab . Some have several sex partners at the same time , other do one after another , the latter is the rather traditional way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t know what’s the fuzz about. Someone recognize you from FAB means he/she is a Fabber/Fabette. So what ...? Though we do not share our lifestyle on facebook , we are not ashamed of living a lifestyle of eroticism or better , we are not ashamed of converting fantasies into reality whilst others may only wank secretly to it and run for confession on Sunday for their durty craves "
People quickly make assumptions and spread rumours based on them assumptions. A lot of them tend to be quite malicious too. On other hand - you don't need to be on fab for someone to talk dirty about you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On our couples profile a few weeks ago we knew there was another couple a couple of miles away and still is here... Hi guys! Anyway the lady of the couple caught me out... So we know and they know, won't be telling anyone soon  |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Theres 4 profiles on here who are local to me and i can tell who they are without ever messaging them here "
Noone is gna recognise you with those tits mate...
oh wait there not yours  |
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We'd had an extremely hot 3sum on Friday night and sat morning we were walking hand in hand in blanchardstown only to bump in to herself previous nights fuck with his Gf. My wife just winked at him and we walked on by.....he looked like snow white with the flue....  |
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"We'd had an extremely hot 3sum on Friday night and sat morning we were walking hand in hand in blanchardstown only to bump in to herself previous nights fuck with his Gf. My wife just winked at him and we walked on by.....he looked like snow white with the flue.... "
Hot, complete control |
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"We got recognised by a guy on here he got very abusive and threatening he lives in town and owns a business in here thank god he is no longer on fab he did this to a mother woman she got the garda on him he threatened to cut her throat."
WTF  |
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"We'd had an extremely hot 3sum on Friday night and sat morning we were walking hand in hand in blanchardstown only to bump in to herself previous nights fuck with his Gf. My wife just winked at him and we walked on by.....he looked like snow white with the flue.... "
This is sooo hot!  |
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