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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fair play to you for doing it. Fair play for creating a post about it.

With time that craziness really dies down. Most weirdos travel straight into block list not to be seen again. We also keep extending our profiles to the point where people who actually read profiles get put off after reading about so many Not to dos, ones who don't read it - end up in a block list too.

Inbox generally only picks up with new uploaded pictures or statuses which is perfectly manageable.

And yes, some messages are abusive, some cocky, most of them- pure boring but in all that pile of crap there's about 3% of pure diamonds that make it all worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yep.. if the shoe fits!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm curious to know how you by-passed the photo verification when setting up a female profile?

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple  over a year ago

Nearby

He didn't post any pics. He put the least amount of info onto the profile and still got inundated

That's crazy.

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener "

Well it proves that most of the men would get up on a cracked plate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Recently turned of a certain filter again it is mental absolutely.No abuse as of yet thank god but definitely it's a pain. I am glad you can see from the other side of the fence now OP. Great idea though and I admire your honesty about it. Full of fakes here anyway and desparate baby boys lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Morning all the problem is obvious too many blokes and not enough girls

There is other sites that are better balanced and I find them much better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As you said I dont think it will be news to many on here...

I think one major problem with Fab is that its only when you start using the forums that most guys start to realise how much mail women get, and in general it wouldnt tend to be guys using the forum sendinh wanna fuck now messages.

Yea there are FAQ's but fab does a very bad job explaining/enforcing its ethicate to newbies...

Prehaps to have a fab account ypi should need to sign up for a week with a generic female profile like yours

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By *-4pleasureCouple  over a year ago

Belfast


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener "

Many thanks - it obviously takes a man to communicate the trials women face. Those little ladies obviously aren’t capable of doing so without a man stepping in ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As you said I dont think it will be news to many on here...

I think one major problem with Fab is that its only when you start using the forums that most guys start to realise how much mail women get, and in general it wouldnt tend to be guys using the forum sendinh wanna fuck now messages.

Yea there are FAQ's but fab does a very bad job explaining/enforcing its ethicate to newbies...

Prehaps to have a fab account ypi should need to sign up for a week with a generic female profile like yours "

I totally agree with the enforcing ethecate to newbies. They should be stricter maybe recommend forums to people. I did not find forums myself for a good while.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener

Many thanks - it obviously takes a man to communicate the trials women face. Those little ladies obviously aren’t capable of doing so without a man stepping in .... "

The white knights would run out of work if they couldn't come to the aid of a damsel in distress.

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By *iktikiCouple  over a year ago

cork


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener "

Your use of the words "extremely bored" ????

Yup you defiantly were

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm curious to know how you by-passed the photo verification when setting up a female profile? "

There isn't one unless you're setting up a profile from an IP address where a number of profiles have already been created

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By *iktikiCouple  over a year ago

cork


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener

Your use of the words "extremely bored" ????

Yup you defiantly were"

Sadly the behaviour of many and the way they speak to females on here with not change

They think it's dail a ride plus its how they behave in the "real" world to

The good guys shouldn't worry to much because cream always rises to the top

Sermon over

ANYBODY FANCY A SHAG

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm curious to know how you by-passed the photo verification when setting up a female profile?

There isn't one unless you're setting up a profile from an IP address where a number of profiles have already been created"

Ah okay I had to on my return, he must be using a different ip address so, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener

Your use of the words "extremely bored" ????

Yup you defiantly were

Sadly the behaviour of many and the way they speak to females on here with not change

They think it's dail a ride plus its how they behave in the "real" world to

The good guys shouldn't worry to much because cream always rises to the top

Sermon over

ANYBODY FANCY A SHAG "

ending sermons with shags has never ended well

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for the replies everyone, didnt expect for this topic to be received very well at all

It was just a bit of an eye opener to be honest. I always knew through speaking to people that females usually get bombarded with messages and attention. Certainly makes me think twice now when messaging any female on here. Reading through all the messages I got, I can see how easy it is for genuinely thoughful messages to get lost amongst the 'hey, wanna fuck now' messages.

But sure, it passed a very boring, rainy and lazy day in the house for me

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By *he rover returnedWoman  over a year ago

xxx

This just shows how low standards can be. Hint of a female is enough. Everyman on this site should read this post and ask themselves why they're here. Theres great men here. Men thst know how to communicate, behave, treat a woman and then theres the fools. If you message a blank profile buy a blow up doll. This kind of post just makes the good guys look better. Those ones always stand out

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By *ub_1Man  over a year ago

Northside

Interesting post, imo an improved profile triage before going live is required.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan  over a year ago

newcastle

Its always been like this on here, a friend of mine did the same years ago, the only good thing about the messages she showed me were they made me feel a whole lot better about myself

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By *lay2018Couple  over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Our profile says single males don't contact us. Low and behold everytime we log in we have single male friends requests and msgs. What goes through their heads sending a request or msg after reading our profile I don't know. Poor souls

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our profile says single males don't contact us. Low and behold everytime we log in we have single male friends requests and msgs. What goes through their heads sending a request or msg after reading our profile I don't know. Poor souls "

Why don’t you filter them out?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman  over a year ago

Newtownabbey

You've way too much time on your hands OP

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Thanks for the replies everyone, didnt expect for this topic to be received very well at all

It was just a bit of an eye opener to be honest. I always knew through speaking to people that females usually get bombarded with messages and attention. Certainly makes me think twice now when messaging any female on here. Reading through all the messages I got, I can see how easy it is for genuinely thoughful messages to get lost amongst the 'hey, wanna fuck now' messages.

But sure, it passed a very boring, rainy and lazy day in the house for me "

You haven't finished your experiment: put up filters and see how many messages you then get. Yes it's mad when you first join but after the first avalanche and with some barriers in place there's only the odd snow ball coming in. And if you want a bit of fresh snow you just have to put up a new pic or status update.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for the replies everyone, didnt expect for this topic to be received very well at all

It was just a bit of an eye opener to be honest. I always knew through speaking to people that females usually get bombarded with messages and attention. Certainly makes me think twice now when messaging any female on here. Reading through all the messages I got, I can see how easy it is for genuinely thoughful messages to get lost amongst the 'hey, wanna fuck now' messages.

But sure, it passed a very boring, rainy and lazy day in the house for me

You haven't finished your experiment: put up filters and see how many messages you then get. Yes it's mad when you first join but after the first avalanche and with some barriers in place there's only the odd snow ball coming in. And if you want a bit of fresh snow you just have to put up a new pic or status update. "

Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In my first 24 hours here, I received 200+ mails, was bombarded. I also had filters set so only my people in my selected age bracket could contact me. I received such vulgar messages of lads, couples who the male only ever massaged and loads if non veri profiles. (We are all new once do I don't mind) but what they send you would never say yo a person in a bar.

Even now inhave 60 unopened messages because I like to talk to maybe one or two people at a time as it's to hard to stay focused if you are chatting to more than that.

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By *aidRXTV/TS  over a year ago

ashbourne

Brilliant to get the view of a male feom a female perspective.

It should make most think twice before messaging but sadly 99% of the men wont.

Fair play to you hun!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fair play to you for doing it. Fair play for creating a post about it.

With time that craziness really dies down. Most weirdos travel straight into block list not to be seen again. We also keep extending our profiles to the point where people who actually read profiles get put off after reading about so many Not to dos, ones who don't read it - end up in a block list too.

Inbox generally only picks up with new uploaded pictures or statuses which is perfectly manageable.

And yes, some messages are abusive, some cocky, most of them- pure boring but in all that pile of crap there's about 3% of pure diamonds that make it all worthwhile "

Exactly this ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Jaysus. Fair play to the women who manage to wade through all that without losing all faith in humanity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jaysus. Fair play to the women who manage to wade through all that without losing all faith in humanity. "

We keep praying for sanity to keep on going....

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By *easingTimMan  over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I thought you were kinda hot as a woman tbh

...hope you didn't rob my chat up lines though!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought you were kinda hot as a woman tbh

...hope you didn't rob my chat up lines though! "

Of course I did

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener "

I the innocent I was signed up late one night back in August. I had two photos and a short profile. I woke up next morning to 402 unread messages. I was totally overwhelmed by the amount of messages that I was getting. It's calmed down now thankfully

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By *ildmovementMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener

I the innocent I was signed up late one night back in August. I had two photos and a short profile. I woke up next morning to 402 unread messages. I was totally overwhelmed by the amount of messages that I was getting. It's calmed down now thankfully "

Is it just an initial bombardment and when you say calmed down what would the normal amount of messages be on a daily basis?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ill probably get in trouble for this, but who cares! A few weeks ago I decided to make a fake female profile. (I know some people on here will give me abuse, but no harm was given). I was extremely bored one day and wanted to see just how many messages I would get and really see the extent of attention females get on here. So here was the setup;

Female profile, age 20, slim, zero pictures on profile, zero information on bio, just basic stats and that was it.

I made the profile around morning/afternoon time. By late evening, I had received over 90 messages from males and a load of winks and friend requests. Never replied to a single message. The messages mostly consisted of 'wanna fuck now', 'wanna cam', 'would you suck this?', shit loads of dick pics, messages asking why I wasnt repling, cheeky/abusive messages telling me to fuck off because I was reading messages and not replying etc.

So what did I learn? A 'female' with no pictures, basic stats, no bio etc got over 90 messages in under 24 hours. The competition for males on here to get noticed is crazy. Comparing the fake profile to a real female profile whos very attractive and has a great bio etc, im sure the messages would be double in quantity, making it even more difficult for guys to get a foot in. A good lot of men on here are absolutely nuts in terms of how they speak to a female and what they expect from a female who theyve never met before. I also learnt the reason why nearly 9 out of 10 messages I send to females are never opened because theres just too many to go through and read. I also finally learnt that Im glad I made the decision to mainly use fab for the forums now and not waste as much time chasing the ladies, because bloody hell, I have so much respect for what they put up with.

What are your opinions on this? I know its probably no news to most on here, but for me it was a real eye opener

I the innocent I was signed up late one night back in August. I had two photos and a short profile. I woke up next morning to 402 unread messages. I was totally overwhelmed by the amount of messages that I was getting. It's calmed down now thankfully

Is it just an initial bombardment and when you say calmed down what would the normal amount of messages be on a daily basis? "

There is a initial bombardment but it calms down .. So my top Fab tip for single men. Don't bother messaging a brand new profile. You are lost among hundreds of wanna fuck messages. Put her on your hot list and patiently wait minimum six weeks before you message her. It's how my partner in crime bagged me here. He patiently waited until one Saturday night late he saw me online when I was here six weeks. His patience paid off in the end.

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By *easingTimMan  over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"I thought you were kinda hot as a woman tbh

...hope you didn't rob my chat up lines though!

Of course I did "

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Don't know why I keep humming the theme tune to The Crying Game everytime I see your profile pic

Any ideas there Dill???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought you were kinda hot as a woman tbh

...hope you didn't rob my chat up lines though!

Of course I did

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Don't know why I keep humming the theme tune to The Crying Game everytime I see your profile pic

Any ideas there Dill???"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Even though I respectfully reply to say I'm not interested in meeting new people (which I'm not ) I like the forums etc/social side.... I then get another reply to say "thats ok I like social side too" ..... at that stage its a delete job. I do try answer every message though. On another point, is there a way of hiding when you're logged into fab WITHOUT hiding your actual profile??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You've way too much time on your hands OP "

It took about 5 minutes to create a blank profile. Checked the account later in the evening time for an hour or so then deleted it

I challenge all females to create a fake male profile and message as many females as possible and try to get a meet. First person to get one wins a prize

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By *easingTimMan  over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"You've way too much time on your hands OP

It took about 5 minutes to create a blank profile. Checked the account later in the evening time for an hour or so then deleted it

I challenge all females to create a fake male profile and message as many females as possible and try to get a meet. First person to get one wins a prize "

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If that favourite Fab band of ours THE KINKS

has thought us anything is that...

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"Girls will be boys, and boys will be girls

It's a mixed-up, muddled-up, shook-up world

Except for Lola, lo lo lo lo Lola"

*

So, let's not start an epidemic of this here just yet!

Please & spanks!

Tim

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway

You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is. "

Really?

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really? "

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person.

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By *he rover returnedWoman  over a year ago

xxx


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really?

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person. "

You'll find your argument stands up better if your insults towards women are less course. Your issue is with the OP not women or even how some may smell

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really?

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person.

You'll find your argument stands up better if your insults towards women are less course. Your issue is with the OP not women or even how some may smell "

It's hardly an argument. It's scientific fact. Google it.

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By *he rover returnedWoman  over a year ago

xxx


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really?

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person.

You'll find your argument stands up better if your insults towards women are less course. Your issue is with the OP not women or even how some may smell

It's hardly an argument. It's scientific fact. Google it. "

I'll leave the passive agressive to you

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really?

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person. "

It looked like genuine boredom fuelling curiosity to me but, if you're predisposed to think the worst, I guess you always will see the bad side.

Live and let live.

The OP was simply stating facts.

If he happens to get more fun here than you, or I, then fair play to him. Won't change me, or my life. Hope it doesn't pray on yours too much.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting experiment that I'm sure plenty do on here to get their kicks in other ways. The amount of obvious fake profile females is huge.

Fair play for posting your analysis of what you found. It may make you up your game OP when it comes to the tricky first mail. Not everyone reads the forums but I'm sure you will find it a decent learning experiencr from the vantage point of the female point of view.

It might wake up some of the other guys here too. Unlikely that it will influence too many as I think no matter what the evidence suggests the majority of guys still won't make an effort with first mail. As a "gurl" I have made friends with lots of ladies over the years on here and all would echo similar sentiments with how guys usually approach them.

Be original. Be respectful. Do not send a second mail if first not replied to. Do not send dick unless asked for.

If it is possible send a face pic.

Small tips will increase your chances no end.

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Interesting experiment that I'm sure plenty do on here to get their kicks in other ways. The amount of obvious fake profile females is huge.

Fair play for posting your analysis of what you found. It may make you up your game OP when it comes to the tricky first mail. Not everyone reads the forums but I'm sure you will find it a decent learning experiencr from the vantage point of the female point of view.

It might wake up some of the other guys here too. Unlikely that it will influence too many as I think no matter what the evidence suggests the majority of guys still won't make an effort with first mail. As a "gurl" I have made friends with lots of ladies over the years on here and all would echo similar sentiments with how guys usually approach them.

Be original. Be respectful. Do not send a second mail if first not replied to. Do not send dick unless asked for.

If it is possible send a face pic.

Small tips will increase your chances no end.

"

Not a hope in hell that the gobshites will change!

(From a suspected gobshite )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Interesting experiment that I'm sure plenty do on here to get their kicks in other ways. The amount of obvious fake profile females is huge.

Fair play for posting your analysis of what you found. It may make you up your game OP when it comes to the tricky first mail. Not everyone reads the forums but I'm sure you will find it a decent learning experiencr from the vantage point of the female point of view.

It might wake up some of the other guys here too. Unlikely that it will influence too many as I think no matter what the evidence suggests the majority of guys still won't make an effort with first mail. As a "gurl" I have made friends with lots of ladies over the years on here and all would echo similar sentiments with how guys usually approach them.

Be original. Be respectful. Do not send a second mail if first not replied to. Do not send dick unless asked for.

If it is possible send a face pic.

Small tips will increase your chances no end.

Not a hope in hell that the gobshites will change!

(From a suspected gobshite )"

Not sure of your messaging etiquette but you usually come across well on the forums from my perspective

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Interesting experiment that I'm sure plenty do on here to get their kicks in other ways. The amount of obvious fake profile females is huge.

Fair play for posting your analysis of what you found. It may make you up your game OP when it comes to the tricky first mail. Not everyone reads the forums but I'm sure you will find it a decent learning experiencr from the vantage point of the female point of view.

It might wake up some of the other guys here too. Unlikely that it will influence too many as I think no matter what the evidence suggests the majority of guys still won't make an effort with first mail. As a "gurl" I have made friends with lots of ladies over the years on here and all would echo similar sentiments with how guys usually approach them.

Be original. Be respectful. Do not send a second mail if first not replied to. Do not send dick unless asked for.

If it is possible send a face pic.

Small tips will increase your chances no end.

Not a hope in hell that the gobshites will change!

(From a suspected gobshite )

Not sure of your messaging etiquette but you usually come across well on the forums from my perspective "

Cheers Kate. Yeah, my etiquette tends to wane after midnight

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really?

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person. "

In what way am I coming to females 'rescue' by posting this topic? And why would you think I would be 'drowning in pussy'? Oh yea, posting this and talking about the ratio of men and women, the amount of messages I got, some abusive messages and stating how much respect I have for females on here, you think the women are gonna come running after me? Why would they?

I made the profile weeks ago and it never even crossed my mind to post about it. Only came into my head after reading another forum topic. Even then I wasnt sure about posting it because I was expecting to get abuse for it, but I didnt care. The whole point of the profile was to see first hand just how much attention a female could get, not so I could 'suffocate under mountains of pussy' as you brilliantly put it.

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By *easingTimMan  over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really?

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person.

You'll find your argument stands up better if your insults towards women are less course. Your issue is with the OP not women or even how some may smell

It's hardly an argument. It's scientific fact. Google it. "

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"I'm a man who discovered the wheel and built the Eiffel Tower out of metal and brawn. That's what kind of man I am. You're just a w with a small brain. With a brain a third the size of us. It's SCIENCE."

Ron Burgandy couldn't have put it more succinctly

Scientific fact...Good one!!!!

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway


"You must be suffocating under mountains of pussy right now coming to the rescue of all the damsels in distress and showing just how evil the male of the species really is.

Really?

100% sure it's a tried and tested no fail scenario. Post a topic showing how you now understand how poor vulnerable females feel due to the toxic masculinity that exists today then sit back and get buried under an avalanche of pussy. Sure I do it all the time. Best thing about it is you don't need smelling salts because at least one of them will be malodorous enough to revive a person.

You'll find your argument stands up better if your insults towards women are less course. Your issue is with the OP not women or even how some may smell

It's hardly an argument. It's scientific fact. Google it.

-------------------

"I'm a man who discovered the wheel and built the Eiffel Tower out of metal and brawn. That's what kind of man I am. You're just a w with a small brain. With a brain a third the size of us. It's SCIENCE."

Ron Burgandy couldn't have put it more succinctly

Scientific fact...Good one!!!! "

Can't argue with facts.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan  over a year ago

Tipperary

Drowning in pussy

He will die a happy man

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By *ornyyyyMan  over a year ago

around

I agree dats is unreal how some man treat woman on the site we are all here for the same thing der no need to b disrespectful to the woman hav a look at there profiles READ them if there for send them a message if u don't get a reply move on don't b complete dick heads its the the dick heads on dis site dat fuck it up for the sound lads.sorry lady's we are all not like dat.

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway

Oh look at the time. It's time to dial a ride

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh look at the time. It's time to dial a ride "
How dare you say that on a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh look at the time. It's time to dial a ride "

Youll have to teach me sometime, pussy master

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By *xyzptlk088Man  over a year ago

Galway


"Oh look at the time. It's time to dial a ride

Youll have to teach me sometime, pussy master "

It's easy. Join a sex site ignore the naysayers and those who act like single guys are Satan incarnate. Get on to some dolly's get some numbers and when the feeling takes hold........ Dial a ride.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" those who act like single guys are Satan incarnate "

Dunno man I kinda like it when they put me on an alter, derobe, get on their knees and worship......

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