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Looking for a relationship on fab. Yay or nay?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there is chemistry and you both want to then why not?
As loads of people have said on threads recently more people are getting hook ups on other pof and tinder so not sure why being on here would be a out off |
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If two people click then why not. I’ve tried the regular dating sites and met some nice women but there always seemed to be something missing, maybe I just met the wrong ones, who knows. I find the women on here more open and honest. Communication is key. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That is exactly my point. Only difference is - pof or tinder don't have verifications. Out of sight - out of mind for most guys who tend to get a little jealous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is exactly my point. Only difference is - pof or tinder don't have verifications. Out of sight - out of mind for most guys who tend to get a little jealous "
Ya but someone who is going to get jealous is going to get jealous regardless.. and if they arw on here too then thats the type of hypocricy you would want to be avoiding anyway, at least you would find out sooner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see absolutely no reason why not.
A person’s ‘Soul-mate’ * can be found on here as much as anywhere else.
* insert whatever description you think appropriate. "
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For me it would be the perfect scenario.
Best of both worlds so to speak.
The intimacy and closeness of a relationship with the potential to explore all your fantasies whenever the mood strikes!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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All i know is i near dropped my and my jaw looking at your ass... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A great understanding, regular meets, mutual attraction, feelings all together may lead towards a relationship. If you’re satisfied and have a great lifestyle then sure I see no harm in a relationship. It’s the initial phase of the meets that reflect on what you’d want and how things go on from there!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see no reason why a "sex" relationship could turn into a conventional relationship.
Once individuals are honest about their sexual preferences it's a good a start as any other thing that people have in common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d be completely open to a relationship forming from someone I’ve met on here. Removes the awkwardness of having to explain your kinks to a “muggle/vanilla” person. You’re both on the same page and people are more up front here than they are on pof or tinder I’ve been less fucked over here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't agree with you more man it is just about connections and I can express myself better sexually to men most of the time but be because I am shy and don't have a lot of friends here to to spite being local it is very depressing for me also love to pleasure women sexually but never interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see no reason why a "sex" relationship could turn into a conventional relationship.
Once individuals are honest about their sexual preferences it's a good a start as any other thing that people have in common.[/quoteCouldn't agree with you more man it is just about connections and I can express myself better sexually to men most of the time but be because I am shy and don't have a lot of friends here to to spite being local it is very depressing for me also love to pleasure women sexually but never interested "
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I would be happy to find a man I here for A relationship.. It would be much easier to open up about what ur Sex interests are than a normal Vanilla guy.. And than again... I have come across suppose to be straight guys that are on pof that are also on here as bi curious... So they have a bit of both worlds going on.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t see why not. I’ve met some ladies on here that I’d love to have had a relationship with but I’ve never thought any further about it than a couple of months. Never thought about settling down, being life long partners or getting married again but I suppose why not. I do think you’d both have to leave Fab eventually as I don’t think I want to be on here in 15 years time when I’m sixty.  |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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I am open about looking for a relationship with a like minded person but I have gotten much the same reaction as yourself when discussed. We are all on here for our own reasons. I'll just continue to enjoy the search though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If two people click then why not. I’ve tried the regular dating sites and met some nice women but there always seemed to be something missing, maybe I just met the wrong ones, who knows. I find the women on here more open and honest. Communication is key. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is exactly my point. Only difference is - pof or tinder don't have verifications. Out of sight - out of mind for most guys who tend to get a little jealous "
Totally agree..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ya meet here, youll be aware of each others kinks and it might actually be a stronger bond, i know from previous relationships if i had said to them i wanted to swing, that would be thw end of it... ya need to take each other at their worst, best and naughtiest.. what better place than fab |
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"That is exactly my point. Only difference is - pof or tinder don't have verifications. Out of sight - out of mind for most guys who tend to get a little jealous "
That only means you haven’t found that one guy that fits you OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it always seems a harder sell to guys...maybe because it's a very male saturated scene they feel they will get less out of it? Or they all want 'unsullied' wives lol |
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"Yeah it always seems a harder sell to guys...maybe because it's a very male saturated scene they feel they will get less out of it? Or they all want 'unsullied' wives lol"
Im looking for an unsullied husband  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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No fear what so ever here, on either side.
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I think some Fab guys not wanting to settle down is as a result of being able to have their cake and eat it here i.e. great sex & new kinks without the drama of a relationship
For other men, they may simply just not have found that special one who they can spark with on enough levels for a relationship.
Simple as  ...
Regarding myself, I've absolutely no fear of ending up with a "Fab woman" If we both shared similar interests, kinks, were mutually attracted to each other and got on I'd be delighted to walk away & close the Fab door forever...
But in line with the thread, I think Oscar Wilde put it best when he said... "Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future"
...and that's good enough for me |
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Love the Oscar Wilde quote, going to use that...brilliant.
As for having your cake and eating it..as the male half of our couple, I've been stuffing my face metaphorically speaking for 6 years now. You get way more action as a male half then as a single guy.
With regard to the subject matter , people are people, wherever you meet them.
We all need someone special. Especially on these cold nights.
At least you know whomever you meet on here has a relatively high sexy drive probably the biggest gripe in a poor relationship. That and money...if they offer to pay for the coffee, room, meal...well,then they're a keeper!
Olliepops ( yeah she's still making me sign my posts)
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Its all about the fab woman,u can open up and tell them ur kinky fantasy knowing that the have them aswell.i open up with my last partner and it went down hill from there so in my eyes the kinker the better |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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If you look for a partner you can share your kinky sex life with or like the idea of an open relationship you might as well look where you find like minded people ie fab, swingers scene etc.
Yes there are some lads on here that regard fab ladies just as fuck but not relationship material. Sad archaic creatures really, all I can say, not worth thinking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake. |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake. "
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A relatoonship off fab is just as likely to work as anywhere.Lets face it, Fab people are more open and honest sexual wise.Therefore less likely to cheat.If its meant to be,it will be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
No it isnt.. fair enough, take Fab with a pinch of salt but to say its ALL fake is a bit much. "
95% is fake. Let's be real.... Nobody is joining fab because they want to purely just be a friend to someone. It's viewed by most as a site you join to find partners for sex. To get sex, you have to be nice, win the person over etc That involves telling that person what they wanna hear and in turn that more often then not creates fakery. Read some verifications here for christ sake and you will see how fake it is. Everyone is telling everyone the exact same thing. The bullshit and fakeness is cringe worthy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does "
I expected that. Typical response on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A relatoonship off fab is just as likely to work as anywhere.Lets face it, Fab people are more open and honest sexual wise.Therefore less likely to cheat.If its meant to be,it will be."
Delusion level 100 So fab people are just as likely to have a relationship but less likely to cheat? By that logic, fab is the best place to come to find a relationship |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does
I expected that. Typical response on fab. "
So hows that negitivity working for you. Im off now sex on tap and all that |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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Im not looking for a relationship but if i was id be totally up for one on here ..it's the type of relationship id want both know the score id go as far as to be open for a couple's profile.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does
I expected that. Typical response on fab.
So hows that negitivity working for you. Im off now sex on tap and all that"
Not my problem if people can't handle the truth here. Men are messaging you because they want what's inside your knickers. They aren't WANTING to be your friend. They are pretending to be your friend however. You think people here that u get with genuinely care for you and have ur best interests at heart. The same shyte they tell you is being told to everyone else here and your gonna tell me iam wrong to say its 95% fake here. |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does
I expected that. Typical response on fab.
So hows that negitivity working for you. Im off now sex on tap and all that
Not my problem if people can't handle the truth here. Men are messaging you because they want what's inside your knickers. They aren't WANTING to be your friend. They are pretending to be your friend however. You think people here that u get with genuinely care for you and have ur best interests at heart. The same shyte they tell you is being told to everyone else here and your gonna tell me iam wrong to say its 95% fake here. "
Thank the Gods for that 5% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because you like the swinging lifestyle does not mean manners respect and friendship has to go out the window its the only way i know how to swing a meet should be a positive experience for both in mind and body |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake. "
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It's a bit of a blind assumption there to say that men who are "nice and perfect and charming" are simply "looking for a hole" as those type of "men" who could care less about women generally pay for the sex they have...
Perhaps you know of such men but they're not the type of men I, myself hang out with. Also, I've been to socials, clubs and house parties and there's a lot dead sound guys here on Fab. Maybe you should get out more and find out for yourself...
As for everything here being "fake"
"I am a real boy. I am a real boy" Pinnochio |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does
I expected that. Typical response on fab.
So hows that negitivity working for you. Im off now sex on tap and all that
Not my problem if people can't handle the truth here. Men are messaging you because they want what's inside your knickers. They aren't WANTING to be your friend. They are pretending to be your friend however. You think people here that u get with genuinely care for you and have ur best interests at heart. The same shyte they tell you is being told to everyone else here and your gonna tell me iam wrong to say its 95% fake here. "
I think you have missed the point here. No one comes onto fab in the first place to find a life partner. IF you find someone on fab that fits what you are looking for then why not go for it.
Whats the premise here that anyone who likes swinging or nsa/kinky sex which fab is used for cannot ever commit to someone?
Goes to show what you think of everyone on here.
Thats not speaking the truth that just your scewed view of the world in general
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like any relationship nothing can be forced. Have a open mind with what might happen and if it clicks in the right way, then lucky you. Personally I’d like it. Going on holiday would be much more fun then as a single |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does
I expected that. Typical response on fab.
So hows that negitivity working for you. Im off now sex on tap and all that
Not my problem if people can't handle the truth here. Men are messaging you because they want what's inside your knickers. They aren't WANTING to be your friend. They are pretending to be your friend however. You think people here that u get with genuinely care for you and have ur best interests at heart. The same shyte they tell you is being told to everyone else here and your gonna tell me iam wrong to say its 95% fake here. "
Isn't that what being a swinger is all about? Occasionally fucking your friends when you feel like it without making a huge fuss about it? One can be friends with someone and be sexually attracted to them without wanting a commited relationship, doesn't mean that they're all liars and fakes...
I know, you're talking about some random hook up searchers and agree about those, but swingers who are genuinely into this lifestyle do tend to avoid that kind of public and it's easy enough to spot a one time dipper |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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I wouldn't be actively seeking relationships on here, or anywhere for that matter. But I wouldn't rule it out if the magic was there.
And at least on here we're more understanding of alternative sexual practices so if two people are on the same page then why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met on Fab, both of us having had long standing single profiles. Inseparable since, living together and getting married next year....love, is love, is love, however the people come to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the days of dating sites is over.
At least on here you are more open with what you are looking for.
The dark side is way better
That's the swinging lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
Think maybe that comment says more about how you view women as opposed to how everyone else does
I expected that. Typical response on fab.
So hows that negitivity working for you. Im off now sex on tap and all that
Not my problem if people can't handle the truth here. Men are messaging you because they want what's inside your knickers. They aren't WANTING to be your friend. They are pretending to be your friend however. You think people here that u get with genuinely care for you and have ur best interests at heart. The same shyte they tell you is being told to everyone else here and your gonna tell me iam wrong to say its 95% fake here. "
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I know many couples that met through fab and it works for them. They have a mutual understanding and respect to each others boundaries.
Friends I've made through the scene (and yes I say friends because that's what they've become over the years) are a lot easier to talk to and open up to than in vanilla life because everything is open for discussion without judgement.
I would never rule out meeting someone from this, if it happens it happens, just go with it.
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over a year ago
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I an keeping my options open am under no illusions though lol. Pof and tinder had half of fab members on there to so no difference to me really. Except loads of endless chatting on pof, tinder that's ends no where. Am done with that. |
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"I an keeping my options open am under no illusions though lol. Pof and tinder had half of fab members on there to so no difference to me really. Except loads of endless chatting on pof, tinder that's ends no where. Am done with that. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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on another site I did have a relationship with a fellow member, but to develop the relationship we both left thr site, we had though we might return ad a swinging couple, however she quickly realised that ad a couple she was not prepared to share, so wr never joined as a couple...after a number of years we parted, but not due to issues relating to swinging.
so yes it is possible to meet & develop a relationship via Fab or a dating site, how the relatipnship develops is up to the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well guys who haven't experience fab are quick to judge the woman on fab as the wired rumours that go around about it that don't even happen at all and kinda but some man off.
But i know where ur coming frm am looking for the same really of im being honest |
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The ideal scenario is meeting someone off fab and forging a healthy relationship.
Of course chemistry / attraction is a must, weekends then travelling the UK indulging together in the fab life |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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It’s pot luck that you bump into someone you who is of the same mind set where there is mutual sexual attraction for both no mater what the circumstances of meeting. It can be here on fab, in a pub or anywhere. And that goes for both sexes. If two people meet here then there is definitely no issue with it growing into a long term relationship. I think the question would be if they met on here formed a relationship would they form a couples profile and continue on Fab |
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" If both are in the same place relationship wise then why not.. it shouldn't matter where you met each other....
I totally agree xx"
Probably the truest statment made... its like minded people in a similar place |
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"Met through the lifestyle 8 years ago and are now married as well"
Sweet xx thanks so many have actually I have seen lots of people sharing the love they found here. |
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"Yeah it always seems a harder sell to guys...maybe because it's a very male saturated scene they feel they will get less out of it? Or they all want 'unsullied' wives lol"
This is the one i find guys dont want "unsullied" wives. In the year and this day and age i find that repulsive. Plus I think most guys on here are attached or married |
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This is the one i find guys dont want "unsullied" wives. In the year and this day and age i find that repulsive. Plus I think most guys on here are attached or married"
Just at the point when their "unsullied" girlfriend or wife isn't exciting enough lol |
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This is the one i find guys dont want "unsullied" wives. In the year and this day and age i find that repulsive. Plus I think most guys on here are attached or married
Just at the point when their "unsullied" girlfriend or wife isn't exciting enough lol"
Exactly lol |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake. "
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I say if it works it works, you could go the normal route and be happy for a while but what happens when your kinks aren’t being meet, and you have to try bring up swinging with someone who might react as if it’s something terrible, atleast meeting someone on here you understand that they are open to the lifestyle and if the need arises to come back here they will understand and maybe even appreciate keeping things spiced up. |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
You really don't no? It's because the very men that are being all nice and perfect and charming and so forth. Deep down those men see you as nothing more then a hole to stick there cocks in.
It baffles me that so many people here think they are friends with someone just because they met for a fuck. I mean obviously he's gonna be nice to you if your gonna give him sex on tap.
Everything you see here is all an act. It's fake.
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It's a bit of a blind assumption there to say that men who are "nice and perfect and charming" are simply "looking for a hole" as those type of "men" who could care less about women generally pay for the sex they have...
Perhaps you know of such men but they're not the type of men I, myself hang out with. Also, I've been to socials, clubs and house parties and there's a lot dead sound guys here on Fab. Maybe you should get out more and find out for yourself...
As for everything here being "fake"
"I am a real boy. I am a reaol boy" Pinnochio "
well done young sir you always surprise this little one xxx |
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" If both are in the same place relationship wise then why not.. it shouldn't matter where you met each other.... "
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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Ah I always laugh when I see the "unsullied" reference to women! You haven't quite found what you want or need in the vanilla world and you are getting exactly what you want here...
Why can't the two worlds mix? Surely two like minded people are much better for a relationship for compatibility purposes?
I've met someone in the past through the scene and we had a relationship for 5 years...many people I know have met through the scene. So many people meet online these days!
Each to their own and whatever works for YOU is the key!!
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In my opinion I think relationships come with so much stress, it is not for me, I noticed that a lot of ladies whether on fabs or vanilla need relationships as they grow older, I am not sure why,maybe the ladies can help me answer.I observed it is not the same for most guys if they are really true to themselves, I think the relationships removes the fun, I don't know how to explain it , definitely not for me, loads of fun yes, monogamy is a big no for me |
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"In my opinion I think relationships come with so much stress, it is not for me, I noticed that a lot of ladies whether on fabs or vanilla need relationships as they grow older, I am not sure why,maybe the ladies can help me answer.I observed it is not the same for most guys if they are really true to themselves, I think the relationships removes the fun, I don't know how to explain it , definitely not for me, loads of fun yes, monogamy is a big no for me"
We're not really talking about monogamy here either. If you look around - There's plenty of swinging couples here who are not only happy to swap or add partners - they are actually looking to find them partners over here
Monogamy is a choice that regular people make then live a long boring life after |
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Monogamy is a big no for me to i think lol. I must try an open relationship first before I will truly know being honest. But I have always wanted open from when i was in my first long term at 19. |
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I get literally hundreds of meet requests from girls on traditonal dating sites.
I join up, I post my pic, and with in a week have 100 matches with girls wanting to meet, and over a month or two hundreds will ask me to meet.
On here the vast majority fab my pic, exchange face pic then don't talk again.
The girls on here do try and talk to me on the dating sites though.
I wouldn't say no to dating a girl on here, but they just don't talk to me enough, and I am not bothered standing in line with naked men to compete for someones attention. |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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I would be of the mindset that if two people just click (regardless of through which channel) then there shouldn't be any reason to not give this a go.
In fact Fab can sometimes be a good place to meet someone like minded into similar kinks and interests.
That's already a bonus as both know the kind of things the other is into without having to go through several dates before even broaching the subject of swinging.
As I always says going into any situation the best thing to do is always keep an open mind to any possibilities. |
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"In my opinion I think relationships come with so much stress, it is not for me, I noticed that a lot of ladies whether on fabs or vanilla need relationships as they grow older, I am not sure why,maybe the ladies can help me answer.I observed it is not the same for most guys if they are really true to themselves, I think the relationships removes the fun, I don't know how to explain it , definitely not for me, loads of fun yes, monogamy is a big no for me
We're not really talking about monogamy here either. If you look around - There's plenty of swinging couples here who are not only happy to swap or add partners - they are actually looking to find them partners over here
Monogamy is a choice that regular people make then live a long boring life after "
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We met on another site 9 years ago and moved onto fab when we became fuckbuddies, married now with kids, it was the last thing either of us were looking and here we are happy. No time for meets now though lol |
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Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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Would love to end up with someone I met on fab. All kinks etc would be on the table for each others ultimate fun?! |
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"We met on another site 9 years ago and moved onto fab when we became fuckbuddies, married now with kids, it was the last thing either of us were looking and here we are happy. No time for meets now though lol"
I wouldn’t rule out a relationship with a fellow fabber. At least you both know each other’s kinks |
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While it might be difficult, I think FAB could be a good place to find a relationship. Generally, people here are sexually open, experimental, non monogamous, adventurous, ..some are kinky, and usually very experienced. To me, a woman with these qualities would tick a lot of my boxes. I dont go hunting for meets here on FAB, but so far, the people Ive met have become my friends.And there are many more here who I find attractive, based on their profile, and of course I wonder.....the mysterious ones, with filters up, are alway the most interesting. |
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I had posted on an other post here, we met on another site joined fab as a fb couple sex only now 10years later we are married kids and very happy. Neither of us were looking though he was more hard set against it than I yet here we are
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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It's a nice idea. To meet someone here and have it all. Reality is it doesn't work and you will be dropped like a hot rock as soon as something hotter comes along |
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We had couple profile here for a year or so and had fun, but the more I think about it yes of course you can find the one here why not, but eventually the fab animal maybe released again... Human nature  |
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It's a nice idea. To meet someone here and have it all. Reality is it doesn't work and you will be dropped like a hot rock as soon as something hotter comes along"
Now thats just insecurities talking. It can easily happen in real life too.
Somehow I think that most people who are genuinely into swinging lifestyle wouldn't have a jealousy issue. End of the day - you end up with a person for who they are, not how hot they are. |
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It's a nice idea. To meet someone here and have it all. Reality is it doesn't work and you will be dropped like a hot rock as soon as something hotter comes along
Now thats just insecurities talking. It can easily happen in real life too.
Somehow I think that most people who are genuinely into swinging lifestyle wouldn't have a jealousy issue. End of the day - you end up with a person for who they are, not how hot they are. "
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
It's a nice idea. To meet someone here and have it all. Reality is it doesn't work and you will be dropped like a hot rock as soon as something hotter comes along"
Have to disagree there Ms |
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"We met on another site 9 years ago and moved onto fab when we became fuckbuddies, married now with kids, it was the last thing either of us were looking and here we are happy. No time for meets now though lol"
Lucky guys not many success stories after that length of time. Personally relationship from here isnt for me havent tried one with no success |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
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I’d love to date someone of fab. I’m tired of going through the same old nonsense with pof-chat for while, swap numbers, date, date some more and then boom, they’re vanilla or they are a bit disgusted by some of my kinks! (I’m not a freak by the way) It got tiresome going over the same routine with pof when trying to find someone suitable. I gave up. |
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"So I've had quite a few discussions with guys and girls about forming fab meets into something more serious. Most of the guys I know were kind of appalled from the idea of ever settling down with a girl from fab while girls were a bit easier on a subject and had an opinion if there is right chemistry - why not.
Personally I think that we are all here because we all have our own different kinks that we couldn't really express to a person on a first date or even on a normal dating site (obviously except for those who are plain vanilla and are only looking for random hook ups) so why is there such a fear to ever end up with a fab woman?
It's a nice idea. To meet someone here and have it all. Reality is it doesn't work and you will be dropped like a hot rock as soon as something hotter comes along
Have to disagree there Ms "
Said earlier we met 10 years ago on an other site, was sex only. Now married 8 years and 3 kids, it can work if both feel the same. It was just sex for over a year then we choose more and still happy |
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"We met on another site 9 years ago and moved onto fab when we became fuckbuddies, married now with kids, it was the last thing either of us were looking and here we are happy. No time for meets now though lol
Lucky guys not many success stories after that length of time. Personally relationship from here isnt for me havent tried one with no success "
Thank you we still have my old single profile on aff, if anyone is on there and wants to look. It was actually 10 years and 2 months ago lol |
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"We met on another site 9 years ago and moved onto fab when we became fuckbuddies, married now with kids, it was the last thing either of us were looking and here we are happy. No time for meets now though lol
Lucky guys not many success stories after that length of time. Personally relationship from here isnt for me havent tried one with no success
Thank you we still have my old single profile on aff, if anyone is on there and wants to look. It was actually 10 years and 2 months ago lol"
Fantastic great to find a soul mate |
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