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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So this happened with me on Sunday.
Met a woman who had come down to visit me from cork(we meet once a month). Went to a pub to drink. Met another friend of mine who is a regular FWB and she just couldn’t stand me being with her and got d*unk and tried to do stupid things and finally said that she knew we were just fwbs but she felt bad and admitted to like me more than just a friend. I’m confused and mad for the way she behaved and now don’t really know what to do! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Obviously the 2nd girl likes you more than fwb, she's developed feeling for you and doesn't want to see you with someone else
That's what it sounds like to me
Tina  "
I mean the regular fwb likes me and could not digest the fact that I was with someone having fun and sex |
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"Obviously the 2nd girl likes you more than fwb, she's developed feeling for you and doesn't want to see you with someone else
That's what it sounds like to me
Tina
I mean the regular fwb likes me and could not digest the fact that I was with someone having fun and sex "
Going off your pics I'd be jealous myself  
Tina |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Obviously the 2nd girl likes you more than fwb, she's developed feeling for you and doesn't want to see you with someone else
That's what it sounds like to me
Tina
I mean the regular fwb likes me and could not digest the fact that I was with someone having fun and sex
Going off your pics I'd be jealous myself
Tina "
Haha! Thank you! Your pics are great too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So this happened with me on Sunday.
Met a woman who had come down to visit me from cork(we meet once a month). Went to a pub to drink. Met another friend of mine who is a regular FWB and she just couldn’t stand me being with her and got d*unk and tried to do stupid things and finally said that she knew we were just fwbs but she felt bad and admitted to like me more than just a friend. I’m confused and mad for the way she behaved and now don’t really know what to do! "
best thing is ask her straight when she's sober.. Uve got great pics so ud be very easy to get jealous over  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She showed her true colours d*unk, so the cat is out of the bag now. They are her feelings and there is nothing that you can do to change them. So you have 3 options:
1) End it
2) Continue as FWB
3) Have a monogamous traditional relationship
2 or 3 would be the way to go in my opinion. But if you are both single why not give 3 a go?
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"She showed her true colours d*unk, so the cat is out of the bag now. They are her feelings and there is nothing that you can do to change them. So you have 3 options:
1) End it
2) Continue as FWB
3) Have a monogamous traditional relationship
2 or 3 would be the way to go in my opinion. But if you are both single why not give 3 a go?
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Maybe it's just me but shouldn't there be Option 4 - see if they fancy sharing you in a FMF? Silly to miss an opportunity  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" best thing is ask her straight when she's sober.. Uve got great pics so ud be very easy to get jealous over "
Awh! Thank you! You got some nice curves too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"She showed her true colours d*unk, so the cat is out of the bag now. They are her feelings and there is nothing that you can do to change them. So you have 3 options:
1) End it
2) Continue as FWB
3) Have a monogamous traditional relationship
2 or 3 would be the way to go in my opinion. But if you are both single why not give 3 a go?
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Yeah did think about a threesome or couple swap earlier but don’t know how that would end up knowing how she feels now haha |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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Its sad when someone develops feelings and there not returned she may have not realised it herself untill she seen you with someone else....but what ever you do be kind...if your not interested in more then nsa tell her and leave no doubt.. |
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"Its sad when someone develops feelings and there not returned she may have not realised it herself untill she seen you with someone else....but what ever you do be kind...if your not interested in more then nsa tell her and leave no doubt.. "
Very true! I did tell her that I was going to meet someone for the weekend and she said great and had plans of meeting someone else but then she didn’t like the meet and drove back. Maybe that’s why she reacted that way. |
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By *avie tCouple
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"Its sad when someone develops feelings and there not returned she may have not realised it herself untill she seen you with someone else....but what ever you do be kind...if your not interested in more then nsa tell her and leave no doubt..
Very true! I did tell her that I was going to meet someone for the weekend and she said great and had plans of meeting someone else but then she didn’t like the meet and drove back. Maybe that’s why she reacted that way."
Maybe...female here...so i can see it from the female perspective...fwb or nsa are hard to navigate at times for both sexes but more difficult for females i think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its sad when someone develops feelings and there not returned she may have not realised it herself untill she seen you with someone else....but what ever you do be kind...if your not interested in more then nsa tell her and leave no doubt..
Very true! I did tell her that I was going to meet someone for the weekend and she said great and had plans of meeting someone else but then she didn’t like the meet and drove back. Maybe that’s why she reacted that way.
Maybe...female here...so i can see it from the female perspective...fwb or nsa are hard to navigate at times for both sexes but more difficult for females i think"
Couldn’t agree more! |
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