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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality..."
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive"
Now your showing your nievity... |
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive
Now your showing your nievity..."
How is she |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive
Now your showing your nievity...
How is she"
Would you take anyones word on this site, without establishing it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive
Now your showing your nievity...
How is she
Would you take anyones word on this site, without establishing it..."
Do tell
How do you establish it then |
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive
Now your showing your nievity...
How is she
Would you take anyones word on this site, without establishing it..."
If a profile states single and the other half finds it why on earth go and attack the ppl they meet what's the point in that.. nobody what's that shit..
Established it how in all fairness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive
Now your showing your nievity...
How is she
Would you take anyones word on this site, without establishing it...
If a profile states single and the other half finds it why on earth go and attack the ppl they meet what's the point in that.. nobody what's that shit..
Established it how in all fairness"
Theres no point, i agree with you..but come on this is a sex site, some peoples sole intention is to get you into bed, i can recite fucking shakespeare if i think you have an interest, you guys have your list to choose whats credible or not, maybe, spontinaity took over, and the op went for it who knows. Did you geordie  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive
Now your showing your nievity...
How is she
Would you take anyones word on this site, without establishing it...
If a profile states single and the other half finds it why on earth go and attack the ppl they meet what's the point in that.. nobody what's that shit..
Established it how in all fairness
Theres no point, i agree with you..but come on this is a sex site, some peoples sole intention is to get you into bed, i can recite fucking shakespeare if i think you have an interest, you guys have your list to choose whats credible or not, maybe, spontinaity took over, and the op went for it who knows. Did you geordie "
All I know is my Friday buzz was ruined by this becoming personal. I got an inbox of shit I didn't deserve |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
it happens all too often in here lately, shitty thing to happen thou, unfortunately after been here for a while u come to the conclusion that all guys are attached in some way" harsh and not true some will say" one way we've found out if there attached or not is tell them u only meet guys at clubs or parties, I'll here all the excuses in the world why the can't go to them lol.
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By *eirdre40Couple
over a year ago
Dublin South |
Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down. |
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"Such is human nature, im single...i couldnt put anyone else through my sexual antics...that is, unless their prepared to be completely uninhibited with their own sexuality...
You're missing the point
I am talking about singles who are actually attached and the fallout is massive
Now your showing your nievity...
How is she
Would you take anyones word on this site, without establishing it...
If a profile states single and the other half finds it why on earth go and attack the ppl they meet what's the point in that.. nobody what's that shit..
Established it how in all fairness
Theres no point, i agree with you..but come on this is a sex site, some peoples sole intention is to get you into bed, i can recite fucking shakespeare if i think you have an interest, you guys have your list to choose whats credible or not, maybe, spontinaity took over, and the op went for it who knows. Did you geordie "
Ah ya we all know that we aren't stupid. As you pointed out it's a sex site we take ppl at face value here don't we all.. no one wants or deserves to be attacked by the single lads gf. Finding out your partner is here should be enough it's decit not the op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey all..there should be no need for personal shit here..we are all supposed to be adults here..should be a friend zone for starters..if single say it..if couple say it..if married and want more say it..at least that gives everyone the opportunity to make their own decision..if you do not like their decision take it as an adult and move on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
it happens all too often in here lately, shitty thing to happen thou, unfortunately after been here for a while u come to the conclusion that all guys are attached in some way" harsh and not true some will say" one way we've found out if there attached or not is tell them u only meet guys at clubs or parties, I'll here all the excuses in the world why the can't go to them lol.
Mr crazy "
Hey Mr crazy x would you believe this one was a club meet. I thought by not doing 1on1 I would them out but no!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you take all the judgements, ohh, i mean preferences you guys have attached to your profiles, why would you be surprised that guys are creative with making a connection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down. "
Very true words. Doesn't bother me until I get personal attacks like I did today  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down. "
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure "
What class structure? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?"
Was wondering the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?"
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
and surrounding areas |
"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
it happens all too often in here lately, shitty thing to happen thou, unfortunately after been here for a while u come to the conclusion that all guys are attached in some way" harsh and not true some will say" one way we've found out if there attached or not is tell them u only meet guys at clubs or parties, I'll here all the excuses in the world why the can't go to them lol.
Mr crazy
Hey Mr crazy x would you believe this one was a club meet. I thought by not doing 1on1 I would them out but no!!"
To me that says he has no respect for his partner as he couldn't care less about been caught, tis him she should be having a go at not u .
Mr crazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab "
Not all of us feel that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way "
The elites never think there is a class system  |
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"When you take all the judgements, ohh, i mean preferences you guys have attached to your profiles, why would you be surprised that guys are creative with making a connection. "
Ah here your not interested I the thread atal your only interested in trolling it... yawn I'm bored of your thread trolling. Nothing else you say Will want my to reply anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
it happens all too often in here lately, shitty thing to happen thou, unfortunately after been here for a while u come to the conclusion that all guys are attached in some way" harsh and not true some will say" one way we've found out if there attached or not is tell them u only meet guys at clubs or parties, I'll here all the excuses in the world why the can't go to them lol.
Mr crazy
Hey Mr crazy x would you believe this one was a club meet. I thought by not doing 1on1 I would them out but no!!
To me that says he has no respect for his partner as he couldn't care less about been caught, tis him she should be having a go at not u .
Mr crazy"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?"
Now your just being fecitious class structure fucking oozes through this site, some posts/threads are more telling than others,if i was to call it out geordie, id be on a life time ban no doubt, i watch people pander to it each day.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system "
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you take all the judgements, ohh, i mean preferences you guys have attached to your profiles, why would you be surprised that guys are creative with making a connection.
Ah here your not interested I the thread atal your only interested in trolling it... yawn I'm bored of your thread trolling. Nothing else you say Will want my to reply anymore "
And so speaks the voice of expdrience, climb down off your horse, its married |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you take all the judgements, ohh, i mean preferences you guys have attached to your profiles, why would you be surprised that guys are creative with making a connection.
Ah here your not interested I the thread atal your only interested in trolling it... yawn I'm bored of your thread trolling. Nothing else you say Will want my to reply anymore
And so speaks the voice of expdrience, climb down off your horse, its married "
No need for that. Why can't you have a civil debate without being personal. Stop derailing my thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that"
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse"
It isn't. Read above ^^ |
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse"
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
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By *eirdre40Couple
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure "
It's not a class structure, it's a numbers problem. The odds are firmly against the "single guys" but the rewards are high if they are successful. |
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By *eirdre40Couple
over a year ago
Dublin South |
"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Very true words. Doesn't bother me until I get personal attacks like I did today "
Sorry to hear that but there are some on here who seem to think you are obliged to meet them just because they asked and if you try let them down nicely you still get abuse.
Just laugh , block and move on knowing you can get what you want when you want it and the loser will be rejected over and over again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic "
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you take all the judgements, ohh, i mean preferences you guys have attached to your profiles, why would you be surprised that guys are creative with making a connection.
Ah here your not interested I the thread atal your only interested in trolling it... yawn I'm bored of your thread trolling. Nothing else you say Will want my to reply anymore
And so speaks the voice of expdrience, climb down off your horse, its married
No need for that. Why can't you have a civil debate without being personal. Stop derailing my thread"
You obviously missed the post i was replying to, but hey dont let that stop you from turning it into a gender issue |
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Geordie I'm so sorry this has happened to you
I hope you're OK xxxx
It's the same in all ways of life, the fella cheats, and the gf finds out so who does she attack? The unsuspecting, unknowing 'other' woman  
When the one she should be attacking is the shit head that fucked her over and did the dirt on her.
Keep your head high Geordie, you're better and stronger than any shit thats being thrown at you right now
We love you xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you take all the judgements, ohh, i mean preferences you guys have attached to your profiles, why would you be surprised that guys are creative with making a connection.
Ah here your not interested I the thread atal your only interested in trolling it... yawn I'm bored of your thread trolling. Nothing else you say Will want my to reply anymore
And so speaks the voice of expdrience, climb down off your horse, its married
No need for that. Why can't you have a civil debate without being personal. Stop derailing my thread
You obviously missed the post i was replying to, but hey dont let that stop you from turning it into a gender issue "
You turned it into a gender issue. I started this thread gender free |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Geordie I'm so sorry this has happened to you
I hope you're OK xxxx
It's the same in all ways of life, the fella cheats, and the gf finds out so who does she attack? The unsuspecting, unknowing 'other' woman
When the one she should be attacking is the shit head that fucked her over and did the dirt on her.
Keep your head high Geordie, you're better and stronger than any shit thats being thrown at you right now
We love you xx
Tina "
Where can i buy one of those bubbles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Geordie I'm so sorry this has happened to you
I hope you're OK xxxx
It's the same in all ways of life, the fella cheats, and the gf finds out so who does she attack? The unsuspecting, unknowing 'other' woman
When the one she should be attacking is the shit head that fucked her over and did the dirt on her.
Keep your head high Geordie, you're better and stronger than any shit thats being thrown at you right now
We love you xx
Tina "
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By (user no longer on site)
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What people seem to miss about fabswingers is that swinging is a cultural thing based on being social openly sexual and honest it’s not just a “sex” site what sets it apart from anywhere else such as dating apps is that people are supposed to feel they can be open and honest and not lie. So frustrating sorry to hear you were fucked over Geordie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
He was called Mike ? |
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By *cilWoman
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
You can't take responsibility for anybody else's relationships. If someone chooses to lie to you and their partner that's their choice. Getting caught up in the middle of a domestic is unpleasant but direct that person to the one who is cheating on them. Hope you are ok and no doubt you will pick yourself up and dust yourself off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
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I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
He was called Mike ?"
In fairness it could be sarah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here "
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"What people seem to miss about fabswingers is that swinging is a cultural thing based on being social openly sexual and honest it’s not just a “sex” site what sets it apart from anywhere else such as dating apps is that people are supposed to feel they can be open and honest and not lie. So frustrating sorry to hear you were fucked over Geordie "
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
You can't take responsibility for anybody else's relationships. If someone chooses to lie to you and their partner that's their choice. Getting caught up in the middle of a domestic is unpleasant but direct that person to the one who is cheating on them. Hope you are ok and no doubt you will pick yourself up and dust yourself off. "
did that thank you |
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"What people seem to miss about fabswingers is that swinging is a cultural thing based on being social openly sexual and honest it’s not just a “sex” site what sets it apart from anywhere else such as dating apps is that people are supposed to feel they can be open and honest and not lie. So frustrating sorry to hear you were fucked over Geordie
Do you really think that people who are lying to their significant other are going to have any qualms about lying to strangers? "
I’ve had more people be upfront and honest on here than I have on dating apps so only gong by personal experience |
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line "
And some just fall over it... |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it..."
Says yer man |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up"
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line "
I was kind of hoping that made it more obvious.... |
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over a year ago
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again "
Love you |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it...
Says yer man"
I hardly need to repeat myself because im a man.. |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
I was kind of hoping that made it more obvious...."
Unfortunately it’s gotten lost in the mix here lovely however as I’ve spoken one on one with you I know what you’re like |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it...
Says yer man
I hardly need to repeat myself because im a man.."
If only there were a middle finger emoji |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it...
Says yer man
I hardly need to repeat myself because im a man..
If only there were a middle finger emoji "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it...
Says yer man
I hardly need to repeat myself because im a man..
If only there were a middle finger emoji "
Believe me, i wouldnt use it |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it...
Says yer man
I hardly need to repeat myself because im a man..
If only there were a middle finger emoji
Believe me, i wouldnt use it "
It's ok. You probably wouldn't know how to |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it...
Says yer man
I hardly need to repeat myself because im a man..
If only there were a middle finger emoji
Believe me, i wouldnt use it
It's ok. You probably wouldn't know how to"
Its like they say three heads are better than one |
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over a year ago
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
And some just fall over it...
Says yer man
I hardly need to repeat myself because im a man..
If only there were a middle finger emoji
Believe me, i wouldnt use it "
I’d put a bow on it for you especially |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you "
That is a seriously hot profile pic |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you
That is a seriously hot profile pic "
Loving the Iron Maiden T-shirt |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you
That is a seriously hot profile pic
Loving the Iron Maiden T-shirt "
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you "
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure
What class structure?
Dont you know us poor single guys are second class citizens on Fab
Not all of us feel that way
The elites never think there is a class system
I started this thread saying it applied to all genders. This was never a dig at single guys so don't turn it into that
Ah now... dont you know every post is a dig at us really. I mean we need protection from this relentless abuse
No they aren't but ye have a habit of making it about digging ye
.
I am worried I actually have to explain I was being sarcastic here
When your tone is up against another idiot on herenyou thread a very thin line
I was kind of hoping that made it more obvious....
Unfortunately it’s gotten lost in the mix here lovely however as I’ve spoken one on one with you I know what you’re like "
Don't tell them how bad I really am... its already hard enough for us guys.... too soon? |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you
Love you too "
Love how this had turned into a girly love in |
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"What people seem to miss about fabswingers is that swinging is a cultural thing based on being social openly sexual and honest it’s not just a “sex” site what sets it apart from anywhere else such as dating apps is that people are supposed to feel they can be open and honest and not lie. So frustrating sorry to hear you were fucked over Geordie
Do you really think that people who are lying to their significant other are going to have any qualms about lying to strangers? "
But they should, after all there not running for president, apologies for highlighting your post, it seems to be the done thing here to engratiate yourself, or to make a point |
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"What people seem to miss about fabswingers is that swinging is a cultural thing based on being social openly sexual and honest it’s not just a “sex” site what sets it apart from anywhere else such as dating apps is that people are supposed to feel they can be open and honest and not lie. So frustrating sorry to hear you were fucked over Geordie
Do you really think that people who are lying to their significant other are going to have any qualms about lying to strangers?
But they should, after all there not running for president, apologies for highlighting your post, it seems to be the done thing here to engratiate yourself, or to make a point "
Seems to me you just like derailing posts |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you
Love you too
Love how this had turned into a girly love in "
It was bound to happen with us too.. |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you
Love you too
Love how this had turned into a girly love in
It was bound to happen with us too.."
It was |
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"What people seem to miss about fabswingers is that swinging is a cultural thing based on being social openly sexual and honest it’s not just a “sex” site what sets it apart from anywhere else such as dating apps is that people are supposed to feel they can be open and honest and not lie. So frustrating sorry to hear you were fucked over Geordie
Do you really think that people who are lying to their significant other are going to have any qualms about lying to strangers?
But they should, after all there not running for president, apologies for highlighting your post, it seems to be the done thing here to engratiate yourself, or to make a point
Seems to me you just like derailing posts "
Not at all, i appreciate a discussion as much as the next person, im just the type of character that looks into things in a bit more detail, i like to make an informed decison, which some might argue is at the basis of this, i just find it amusing that the actual side tracking of the thread, was from people who are not interested in the detail, but infact the gender.. |
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
Some people can't help themselves and have little respect for others its all about cock to cunt for them and nothing else. |
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
Some people can't help themselves and have little respect for others its all about cock to cunt for them and nothing else. "
I take your point about not choosing to help themselves, but the other point, i take issue with, its not all about cock to cunt, there is a myriad of choices in between...but hey ho, straigh on the profile... |
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"If ever there was a thread that painted all men as dicks, here it is..well done guys "
Yeah, way to go.. i seen your contribution further up the thread, im sure it will stand you in good stead with some... |
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
Is that difficult place Sunderland? |
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"If ever there was a thread that painted all men as dicks, here it is..well done guys
Yeah, way to go.. i seen your contribution further up the thread, im sure it will stand you in good stead with some..."
It's been working pretty fine so far |
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"If ever there was a thread that painted all men as dicks, here it is..well done guys
Yeah, way to go.. i seen your contribution further up the thread, im sure it will stand you in good stead with some...
It's been working pretty fine so far "
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I think everyone has been burned on here at some stage, everyone on here lies about something or other at one time or another! Best thing to do Block and delete and move on and maybe not get too personally invested in the first place! Trust no one and never automatically assume everyone wants to be your Friend!! |
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"I think everyone has been burned on here at some stage, everyone on here lies about something or other at one time or another! Best thing to do Block and delete and move on and maybe not get too personally invested in the first place! Trust no one and never automatically assume everyone wants to be your Friend!! "
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In my opinion why put on that ur single cause you have better chance of getting attention if you say ur a couple, I'm single by the way but looking at verification s in other profile it seems women r meeting couples more and don't respond to single guys |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up"
So what happened the gf found out abt u and attacked u . If so she deserves him because not u she should be attacking. |
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
it happens all too often in here lately, shitty thing to happen thou, unfortunately after been here for a while u come to the conclusion that all guys are attached in some way" harsh and not true some will say" one way we've found out if there attached or not is tell them u only meet guys at clubs or parties, I'll here all the excuses in the world why the can't go to them lol.
Mr crazy "
Thanks for that wee tip Mrs crazy i think we'll start using that too |
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
O, what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive!
This happens so much on here. I've had a belly full of deception and duplicitous behaviour. Integrity is not only about what you show to someone's face but your behaviour towards them behind their back.
There is a total lack of it here but more so it's the lies that do my head in. Just be honest from the off so everyone can make an informed decision. Most do say they are attached and fair play.
It's interesting to watch how people betray themselves and their moral compass to fuck people over for a bit of cock or pussy on here.
It's never good to be caught in the cross fire in another person's drama. Cut every avenue of contact Geordie and move forward, it's the best direction to go. xx
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"Although this is a swing site it would seem a lot of the "single guys" just see it as a sex site to cheat on their partners.
I would reckon they have very little respect for swinging or the ladies that partake in it.
Don't let it get you down.
Is there actually a difference when you remove the class structure "
What class structure ????... |
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"As usual the lads have taken this off track for their own ends
Snap ha ha
It's gone totally off topic
I just wanted a rant about cheating lads who then get innocent souls dragged into their shit
Off with you now boys and talk amongst yourselves. I give up
We can always chat about your sexy profile pic and detrail your thread again
Love you "
Gerodie have to ask did ye get that pic taken in vanilla club... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
O, what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive!
This happens so much on here. I've had a belly full of deception and duplicitous behaviour. Integrity is not only about what you show to someone's face but your behaviour towards them behind their back.
There is a total lack of it here but more so it's the lies that do my head in. Just be honest from the off so everyone can make an informed decision. Most do say they are attached and fair play.
It's interesting to watch how people betray themselves and their moral compass to fuck people over for a bit of cock or pussy on here.
It's never good to be caught in the cross fire in another person's drama. Cut every avenue of contact Geordie and move forward, it's the best direction to go. xx
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For that reason most "singles" believe they have no chance in meeting so selfishly they choose to lie, the lie gets bigger and bigger lying to you themselves and the partner..I had something similar happen to me not on a swinging site but my ex was chatting away to some girl when I found 'unusual texts" I texted back on his phone. He told this girl he was single and no children blah blah all the time living under my roof with our daughter. I actually replied telling the truth to her was not annoyed at her as in her eyes she was not to be blamed he choose to lie to her..
They did not meet it was just texting...I felt terrible for her him I nearly cut his balls off and made him wear them as ear rings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For the reasons above i do not meet married ladys on here i do not need the shite attached i had invoted a single lady who i had being chatting with and had meet at a social meet to my house after about 15 minutes a car horn started blowing outside my gate and a man got out and started jumping up and down trying to look over gate it is only then the lady admitted she was married and her husband was suspicious enough off her to follow her in all walks of life there are people who lie not just swingers and not just guys |
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
Every one has their own fetish and fantasy? You have yours.
He probably loves his other half. But secretly gets off on sleeping around? People have their stuff I wouldn't agree with or be in to.
At the end of the day, we still have animal instincts. And it's to mate.
What I don't agree with is you being attacked. That's bull in my opinion. You did nothing wrong. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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You certainly don't deserve being caught in other people's drama.
As we know fab comes in all shape and forms and no matter how long you're on here it will never stop surprise you, unfortunately not always in a good way but the fun normally outweighs the shitty stuff.
It's good you had a rant, best way to get rid of it and to put it behind you. I wish you a lovely bold filthy weekend!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
Unfortunately the site is over run with people like that hence the reason we don't meet attached singles hopefully any males reading will realise the consequences of cheating on their partner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You certainly don't deserve being caught in other people's drama.
As we know fab comes in all shape and forms and no matter how long you're on here it will never stop surprise you, unfortunately not always in a good way but the fun normally outweighs the shitty stuff.
It's good you had a rant, best way to get rid of it and to put it behind you. I wish you a lovely bold filthy weekend!
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Thank you! Plans already afoot |
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I assume all people are attached on here even when “proven” their not.
I’ve seen a guy start a relationship with a single lady, holidays, weekends away, met her family etc for it all to crash and burn when it came out he was still “happily” married.
I’d known him well myself and believed he was single too.
So now, I’m my eyes everyone is somewhat attached..
sorry it happened to you G
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"Mother of God, I can barely handle one woman. What sort of masochistic fucker would want two?
All the lads looking for ffm. "
Come to think of it, that doesn't sound so bad at all. It's when you get the two of them in the kitchen that the trouble starts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike
Unfortunately the site is over run with people like that hence the reason we don't meet attached singles hopefully any males reading will realise the consequences of cheating on their partner."
Or females |
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It is true that there are guys on here that are attached and playing behind their girlfriend/wife back, but remember there a good few woman on here that they say that their single too and their not!!! Especially in one case with me about 6 or 7 months ago we were in bed and she got a text that her husband was 10 mins away and asked her if she needed bread before he came home! Well I was out like a bullet!!!! 
All sexes are the same on here! |
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"It is true that there are guys on here that are attached and playing behind their girlfriend/wife back, but remember there a good few woman on here that they say that their single too and their not!!! Especially in one case with me about 6 or 7 months ago we were in bed and she got a text that her husband was 10 mins away and asked her if she needed bread before he came home! Well I was out like a bullet!!!!
All sexes are the same on here!"
Did you go to get the bread? Surely he could've got it when he was already out? |
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"It is true that there are guys on here that are attached and playing behind their girlfriend/wife back, but remember there a good few woman on here that they say that their single too and their not!!! Especially in one case with me about 6 or 7 months ago we were in bed and she got a text that her husband was 10 mins away and asked her if she needed bread before he came home! Well I was out like a bullet!!!!
All sexes are the same on here!
Did you go to get the bread? Surely he could've got it when he was already out? "
Husband was on way home rang wife to ask if he needed to stop at a shop on way home for bread simple happens all the time |
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By *ixpackCouple
over a year ago
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We are often contacted by attached singles. We choose not to meet as we dont need the potential hassle that goes with it, as mentiones by Geordie. There are plenty of NSA singles that come without the hassle.
We do often find a NSA single is not being genuine. Similarly if in doubt we steer clear.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I assume all people are attached on here even when “proven” their not.
I’ve seen a guy start a relationship with a single lady, holidays, weekends away, met her family etc for it all to crash and burn when it came out he was still “happily” married.
I’d known him well myself and believed he was single too.
So now, I’m my eyes everyone is somewhat attached..
sorry it happened to you G
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I dont understand how someone could do this... not from a moral point of view but timemanagement alone...
Jesus I can bearly get a few days off work without the phone hopping.. how the feck do you manage holidays and weekends away with one and keep the other happy too |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"It is true that there are guys on here that are attached and playing behind their girlfriend/wife back, but remember there a good few woman on here that they say that their single too and their not!!! Especially in one case with me about 6 or 7 months ago we were in bed and she got a text that her husband was 10 mins away and asked her if she needed bread before he came home! Well I was out like a bullet!!!!
All sexes are the same on here!"
You were in her place and did not notice the tell tell signs of a man living there too. How convenient.... until he came home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is true that there are guys on here that are attached and playing behind their girlfriend/wife back, but remember there a good few woman on here that they say that their single too and their not!!! Especially in one case with me about 6 or 7 months ago we were in bed and she got a text that her husband was 10 mins away and asked her if she needed bread before he came home! Well I was out like a bullet!!!!
All sexes are the same on here!
You were in her place and did not notice the tell tell signs of a man living there too. How convenient.... until he came home. "
Not always what u want us to do open the drawers in the house ? U would not know if a man or woman lived in my house i am not into clutter very minimalistic so no idea what sex lived there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is true that there are guys on here that are attached and playing behind their girlfriend/wife back, but remember there a good few woman on here that they say that their single too and their not!!! Especially in one case with me about 6 or 7 months ago we were in bed and she got a text that her husband was 10 mins away and asked her if she needed bread before he came home! Well I was out like a bullet!!!!
All sexes are the same on here!
You were in her place and did not notice the tell tell signs of a man living there too. How convenient.... until he came home. "
Nope because when we went back to her place we entered the door on the side that went into kitchen and we then went to the bedroom down the hall, no sign of a male living there! |
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you would be surprised the amount of women would rather blame the other woman than her partner..........it means its easier for her to forgive him.............silly bitches that do but such is some women |
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap"
Honestly lad, some of the men on here are very sensitive. People will always have opinions tgat you disagree with, but really the woe be me attitude of some of the guys on here gets tiresome.. if ye are having that bad a time on here move on. And if you are that sensitive in everyday life it must be tough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A rant
Which applies to all genders.
I had an unpleasant email exchange today as a result of a 'single' guy being found out by his girlfriend.
It wasn't pleasant for either of us.
And has totally knocked me back when I was already in a difficult place.
Why do it? I cannot understand the deceit here. If you are in a relationship admit it.
Drops mike"
Sorry to hear this so unfair but shit happens and life goes on. Time is a healer hun chin up not your fault here. If it were me on the other hand it would be my fault.... |
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap
Honestly lad, some of the men on here are very sensitive. People will always have opinions tgat you disagree with, but really the woe be me attitude of some of the guys on here gets tiresome.. if ye are having that bad a time on here move on. And if you are that sensitive in everyday life it must be tough"
I call it like it is in my opinion i do not go along with popular opinion in the hope of getting a meet there are good and bad on here and they are not all men |
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap
Honestly lad, some of the men on here are very sensitive. People will always have opinions tgat you disagree with, but really the woe be me attitude of some of the guys on here gets tiresome.. if ye are having that bad a time on here move on. And if you are that sensitive in everyday life it must be tough"
Lots of men and women with serious issues here IMO. It's just that women are allowed get away with more. |
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"you would be surprised the amount of women would rather blame the other woman than her partner..........it means its easier for her to forgive him.............silly bitches that do but such is some women"
I think it's more that blaming the third party allows them to ignore their own part in creating a crappy relationship. |
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap
Honestly lad, some of the men on here are very sensitive. People will always have opinions tgat you disagree with, but really the woe be me attitude of some of the guys on here gets tiresome.. if ye are having that bad a time on here move on. And if you are that sensitive in everyday life it must be tough
I call it like it is in my opinion i do not go along with popular opinion in the hope of getting a meet there are good and bad on here and they are not all men "
Yip there are good and bad thats a normal enough outlook, calling it a hotbed of man haters is not quite as reasoned a view.
I love the go to argument when someone disagrees with your point of view though they must be doing it to pander... god forbid people are actually having more positive interactions than you on here, or you know actually enjoying it |
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap
Honestly lad, some of the men on here are very sensitive. People will always have opinions tgat you disagree with, but really the woe be me attitude of some of the guys on here gets tiresome.. if ye are having that bad a time on here move on. And if you are that sensitive in everyday life it must be tough
Lots of men and women with serious issues here IMO. It's just that women are allowed get away with more. "
Thank u a honest overview by an intelligent person sites like this attract people with those said views :- |
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"you would be surprised the amount of women would rather blame the other woman than her partner..........it means its easier for her to forgive him.............silly bitches that do but such is some women
I think it's more that blaming the third party allows them to ignore their own part in creating a crappy relationship. "
good point x |
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"you would be surprised the amount of women would rather blame the other woman than her partner..........it means its easier for her to forgive him.............silly bitches that do but such is some women"
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap
Thats unfair to say that"
Ok miss fab a higher proportion than in the same amount in real life don't forget u are talking to males on here not ladys |
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap
Thats unfair to say that
Ok miss fab a higher proportion than in the same amount in real life don't forget u are talking to males on here not ladys "
I actally have chatted to both genders here |
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"Would there be a need to lie if more people were able to accept that total monogamy is not always the only way? I lie to my wife. Wish I didn't have to."
You don't "have to", it's a choice you make. |
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"I think fab is a hot bed of man haters and ladys with big issues its hard to find the sane ladys in the heap
Thats unfair to say that
Ok miss fab a higher proportion than in the same amount in real life don't forget u are talking to males on here not ladys
I actally have chatted to both genders here "
Good for u miss fab well i am finished chatting on the way to munster match with the lads as they say women will come and go but u will always have the lads lol |
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"Would there be a need to lie if more people were able to accept that total monogamy is not always the only way? I lie to my wife. Wish I didn't have to."
Lmao on your profile you actually admit your wife was checking your phone!
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Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ... |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ..."
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners. |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners. "
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing? |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?"
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society". |
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"nothing worse then cheaters and liars she didnt have go take it out on u the she should be taking it out on him"
Common enough reaction to focus the blame anywhere but on the relationship itself and the people in it. |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society". "
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating. |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating. "
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions. |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions. "
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here? |
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"Would there be a need to lie if more people were able to accept that total monogamy is not always the only way? I lie to my wife. Wish I didn't have to."
I think society are very accepting that not everyone remains monogamous in a relationship or marriage, that's life. Some choose an open relationship or extra marital affairs, some with and some without permission, I'm pretty blasé about it.
Here lies the issue, a person may not wish to be complicit in that situation. By not informing a person of a partner they cannot make an informed decision. You're very open about your situation on here, not everyone is. |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions.
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here?"
You might imagine so, but no doubt many lie because they know that admitting the truth will reduce the number of others willing to meet them. |
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"Would there be a need to lie if more people were able to accept that total monogamy is not always the only way? I lie to my wife. Wish I didn't have to.
I think society are very accepting that not everyone remains monogamous in a relationship or marriage, that's life. Some choose an open relationship or extra marital affairs, some with and some without permission, I'm pretty blasé about it.
Here lies the issue, a person may not wish to be complicit in that situation. By not informing a person of a partner they cannot make an informed decision. You're very open about your situation on here, not everyone is."
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions.
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here?
You might imagine so, but no doubt many lie because they know that admitting the truth will reduce the number of others willing to meet them. "
True. But easier in the long run. I've been on Plenty of Fish. I was probably the only married guy there admitting it. |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions.
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here?
You might imagine so, but no doubt many lie because they know that admitting the truth will reduce the number of others willing to meet them.
True. But easier in the long run. I've been on Plenty of Fish. I was probably the only married guy there admitting it."
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions.
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here?
You might imagine so, but no doubt many lie because they know that admitting the truth will reduce the number of others willing to meet them. "
One women who I found out was married put it like this:
She wasnt happy in her marrage, on fab she could be someone else, she didnt have to be the unhappy wife she could be the sexy single.
She didnt want every second mail discussing it so chose to hide it.
Being honest it it didnt bother me if your up front or not. At tge end of the day the real deceipt is in her marrage and if your going to cheat what would make her be honest on Fab |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions.
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here?
You might imagine so, but no doubt many lie because they know that admitting the truth will reduce the number of others willing to meet them.
One women who I found out was married put it like this:
She wasnt happy in her marrage, on fab she could be someone else, she didnt have to be the unhappy wife she could be the sexy single.
She didnt want every second mail discussing it so chose to hide it.
Being honest it it didnt bother me if your up front or not. At tge end of the day the real deceipt is in her marrage and if your going to cheat what would make her be honest on Fab"
That was a point I made a long way up the thread |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions.
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here?
You might imagine so, but no doubt many lie because they know that admitting the truth will reduce the number of others willing to meet them.
One women who I found out was married put it like this:
She wasnt happy in her marrage, on fab she could be someone else, she didnt have to be the unhappy wife she could be the sexy single.
She didnt want every second mail discussing it so chose to hide it.
Being honest it it didnt bother me if your up front or not. At tge end of the day the real deceipt is in her marrage and if your going to cheat what would make her be honest on Fab
That was a point I made a long way up the thread"
By not being up front about your situation u are dragging an innocent person like geordie into your lies and mess just like the angry husband outside my gate shouting for all the neighbours to hear be up front honest and let the other person decide if they want to meet or not |
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Sorry this has happened to you geordie and also sorry for the innocent lady dragged into it (tho no excuse for her having a go at you but he probably lied to her as well)
Ignore the troll. Sites full of them. Thats why true single males who are respectful and get swinging are unicorns. |
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"Yes it is a choice. The choices are ... asking my wife would she like to explore the swinging lifestyle ... exploring it on my own ... being totally faithful ...
Or end your marriage and both of you could pursue compatible partners.
Yes another choice. But does it have to be that all or nothing?
Maybe ask your wife? I don't really care what you do, my issue was with your attempt to blame your personal choices on "society".
You do have a point. But wherever way you look at "society" it does influence us. And i do know that I'm lying and cheating.
As adults we have to own our decisions and actions.
We do. Lying can make things easier. Generally tho ... because fab is unashamedly upfront about being a sex and swinging site ... there should be less deceit here?
You might imagine so, but no doubt many lie because they know that admitting the truth will reduce the number of others willing to meet them.
One women who I found out was married put it like this:
She wasnt happy in her marrage, on fab she could be someone else, she didnt have to be the unhappy wife she could be the sexy single.
She didnt want every second mail discussing it so chose to hide it.
Being honest it it didnt bother me if your up front or not. At tge end of the day the real deceipt is in her marrage and if your going to cheat what would make her be honest on Fab
That was a point I made a long way up the thread
By not being up front about your situation u are dragging an innocent person like geordie into your lies and mess just like the angry husband outside my gate shouting for all the neighbours to hear be up front honest and let the other person decide if they want to meet or not "
Ya thats actually a fair point, it still wouldnt really bother me but I can understand that |
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Sorry you've been subjected to this OP. I've had a similar experience in the past where someone who told me he was separated, had been (in his own words) less than economical with the truth, and then put us both in a situation where he was virtually bound to get caught.
I don't know whether I was used as a cry for attention or as a catalyst to end a stagnant marriage (we did not keep in touch), either way, it wasn't a pleasant experience. The wife never spoke to me directly, but did contact many of my friends to tell them what a horrible person I was and made passive aggressive comments in a chatroom. I guess it was easier to blindly blame me than find out the truth.
I hope the dust settles soon and you can get back to enjoying life without complications |
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