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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
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I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable?? |
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over a year ago
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Why on earth would it be unacceptable! Admittedly my own are a bit younger but theres nothing wrong with a father and son sharing a genuine moment of affection. There will come a time when the boy no longer wants to or think it cool but untill then let them be. |
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"Why on earth would it be unacceptable! Admittedly my own are a bit younger but theres nothing wrong with a father and son sharing a genuine moment of affection. There will come a time when the boy no longer wants to or think it cool but untill then let them be. "
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"Why on earth would it be unacceptable! Admittedly my own are a bit younger but theres nothing wrong with a father and son sharing a genuine moment of affection. There will come a time when the boy no longer wants to or think it cool but untill then let them be. "
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I kiss my kids, I give them squeeze hugs (as we call them)
There is nothing wrong in showing affection to your children, no matter their age
I was 29 when my dad died, I kissed and hugged him every time I saw him, every time we were saying goodbye when heading home from visits. I wish to god I could hug and kiss him right now.
There's way too much in this world seen as socially unacceptable these days.
Be comfortable in your feelings for your children, be comfortable expressing those feelings. Let your children know and be confident and comfortable to express theirs
That's just my view
Tina  |
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"I kiss my kids, I give them squeeze hugs (as we call them)
There is nothing wrong in showing affection to your children, no matter their age
I was 29 when my dad died, I kissed and hugged him every time I saw him, every time we were saying goodbye when heading home from visits. I wish to god I could hug and kiss him right now.
There's way too much in this world seen as socially unacceptable these days.
Be comfortable in your feelings for your children, be comfortable expressing those feelings. Let your children know and be confident and comfortable to express theirs
That's just my view
Tina "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not inappropriate at all. We never kissed on the lips in my family because my mam gets the odd coldsore but we kiss on the cheek.
Well I don't because I'm an unaffectionate little weirdo but my sister still does and she is in her twenties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would think it would be more wrong if you didnt kiss your own kids  "
Deffo! Children learn from their parents and surroundings they need to be shown that affection is a good thing and not to feel ashamed by it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would think it would be more wrong if you didnt kiss your own kids
Deffo! Children learn from their parents and surroundings they need to be shown that affection is a good thing and not to feel ashamed by it.
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couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to change the situation a bit, suppose it was father and daughter. Will opinions change?"
Nope not at all! And if it did shake on the person for thinking inappropriately |
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"I want to change the situation a bit, suppose it was father and daughter. Will opinions change?"
I don't think they would or should
My dad had 4 daughters and he was equally affectionate to each of us
My mam was never an overly affectionate woman, we knew she loved us, but she wasn't one for showing it. Dad on the other hand would sweep us up in a bear hug and give us a big kiss on the cheek.
I make a show of my kids when I drop them to their friends, I say, now give your mammy a big kiss bye bye. And they do give me a kiss, they don't care, and I don't care who's watching. My kids are grown, 24,20,17 & 15, 3 of them are boys.
Not 1 of them are "ashamed" or "embarrassed" to hug me or give me a kiss in public
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"I kiss my kids, I give them squeeze hugs (as we call them)
There is nothing wrong in showing affection to your children, no matter their age
I was 29 when my dad died, I kissed and hugged him every time I saw him, every time we were saying goodbye when heading home from visits. I wish to god I could hug and kiss him right now.
There's way too much in this world seen as socially unacceptable these days.
Be comfortable in your feelings for your children, be comfortable expressing those feelings. Let your children know and be confident and comfortable to express theirs
That's just my view
Tina "
Exactly this..... |
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"Why on earth would it be unacceptable! Admittedly my own are a bit younger but theres nothing wrong with a father and son sharing a genuine moment of affection. There will come a time when the boy no longer wants to or think it cool but untill then let them be. "
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Our kids are only ever lent to us. Kiss them, cuddle them, hold them tight. Tell them every day you love them. Part of a poem
Especially our boys show them its ok to kiss, cuddle and cry. Emotions are ok. My boy is 11, ill kiss him every day till he tells me to stop.... then ill still get the odd sneeky one in. Its ok to kiss your child no matter what gender you are or what age your child is. |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
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"I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable??"
Never inappropriate. If you believe it to be, you've been conditioned by the media or other to believe its wrong. It took millions of years to evole right down to you and for you to pass your genes on. Love your kids and show them you love them until the day they die. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"Why on earth would it be unacceptable! Admittedly my own are a bit younger but theres nothing wrong with a father and son sharing a genuine moment of affection. There will come a time when the boy no longer wants to or think it cool but untill then let them be. "
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"I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable??
Never inappropriate. If you believe it to be, you've been conditioned by the media or other to believe its wrong. It took millions of years to evole right down to you and for you to pass your genes on. Love your kids and show them you love them until the day they die. "
Show affection and let them know you love them but you don’t kiss your children on the lips FFS.
If I saw that I would be wondering should I report it to TUSLA.
A hugg and a kiss on top of their head seems about right to me.  |
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"I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable??
Never inappropriate. If you believe it to be, you've been conditioned by the media or other to believe its wrong. It took millions of years to evole right down to you and for you to pass your genes on. Love your kids and show them you love them until the day they die.
Show affection and let them know you love them but you don’t kiss your children on the lips FFS.
If I saw that I would be wondering should I report it to TUSLA.
A hugg and a kiss on top of their head seems about right to me. "
and say what " I seen a parent kiss their child on the lips" arrest me now |
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Ppl are gone so anal these days it's deemed wrong to kiss them on the lips it's wrong to give a slap for been bold what the hell is wrong with ppl.. I kiss my 3 boys daily and hug them more my youngest is 11 and we kiss goodbye on the lips it never cost me a taught cos he is my son. Do we have to now second guess how we show our affection to our kids the same way we have to when we discipline... FFS god love the children of tomorrow soon saying I love you will be deemed inappropriate. God give me strength |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
"I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable??
Never inappropriate. If you believe it to be, you've been conditioned by the media or other to believe its wrong. It took millions of years to evole right down to you and for you to pass your genes on. Love your kids and show them you love them until the day they die.
Show affection and let them know you love them but you don’t kiss your children on the lips FFS.
If I saw that I would be wondering should I report it to TUSLA.
A hugg and a kiss on top of their head seems about right to me. "
Reporting a parent to tusla for a kiss. One of the most silliest comments I've ever read on the internet. You are part of the problem in today's society. |
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"I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable??
Never inappropriate. If you believe it to be, you've been conditioned by the media or other to believe its wrong. It took millions of years to evole right down to you and for you to pass your genes on. Love your kids and show them you love them until the day they die.
Show affection and let them know you love them but you don’t kiss your children on the lips FFS.
If I saw that I would be wondering should I report it to TUSLA.
A hugg and a kiss on top of their head seems about right to me. "
TUSLA jesus but yet in every community theres a child with no dinner going unnoticed. They have enough to do dealing with at risk children |
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"Ppl are gone so anal these days it's deemed wrong to kiss them on the lips it's wrong to give a slap for been bold what the hell is wrong with ppl.. I kiss my 3 boys daily and hug them more my youngest is 11 and we kiss goodbye on the lips it never cost me a taught cos he is my son. Do we have to now second guess how we show our affection to our kids the same way we have to when we discipline... FFS god love the children of tomorrow soon saying I love you will be deemed inappropriate. God give me strength "
I feel your anger at some of the responses. Kiss your boys i di mine unapologetically |
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By *exwaterCouple
over a year ago
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"I kiss my kids, I give them squeeze hugs (as we call them)
There is nothing wrong in showing affection to your children, no matter their age
I was 29 when my dad died, I kissed and hugged him every time I saw him, every time we were saying goodbye when heading home from visits. I wish to god I could hug and kiss him right now.
There's way too much in this world seen as socially unacceptable these days.
Be comfortable in your feelings for your children, be comfortable expressing those feelings. Let your children know and be confident and comfortable to express theirs
That's just my view
Tina "
Dam right |
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"I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable??
Never inappropriate. If you believe it to be, you've been conditioned by the media or other to believe its wrong. It took millions of years to evole right down to you and for you to pass your genes on. Love your kids and show them you love them until the day they die.
Show affection and let them know you love them but you don’t kiss your children on the lips FFS.
If I saw that I would be wondering should I report it to TUSLA.
A hugg and a kiss on top of their head seems about right to me. "
LOL that is all. |
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"I was dropping my son to school this morning he's in sixth class.. And as he got out i looked over to see a father kiss his son on the lips who's in the same class as my son....my question is.. is it inappropriate or acceptable??
Never inappropriate. If you believe it to be, you've been conditioned by the media or other to believe its wrong. It took millions of years to evole right down to you and for you to pass your genes on. Love your kids and show them you love them until the day they die.
Show affection and let them know you love them but you don’t kiss your children on the lips FFS.
If I saw that I would be wondering should I report it to TUSLA.
A hugg and a kiss on top of their head seems about right to me. "
Some familes are more affectionate than others but if you are wondering whether to report this to Tusla then you clearly dont understand what they do and dont appreciate that affection takes many forms.i say kiss them away and remember you are there to make them safe and loved. |
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I have three sons and they get a kiss on the head and they get hugged. I’m not a fan of lip kissing for parents and kids, especially boys. I think boys need to be a bit tougher than girls as they need to be able to protect their family if they become a father. I honestly do believe that our society is against masculinity and traditional boyishness and lip kissing doesn’t help. |
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