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over a year ago
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"Rate yours out of 10...
Be honest!
On fab about an 8 in day to day life maybe 6 or 7
Why more confident on Fab? Do share.. "
More time to think of responses, less impact on everyday life.
What about you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rate yours out of 10...
Be honest!
On fab about an 8 in day to day life maybe 6 or 7
Why more confident on Fab? Do share..
More time to think of responses, less impact on everyday life.
What about you?"
On Fab a solid 7.
In life a feeble 5. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its easy to blag confidence, i would consider mine fairly high because i feel competent in the things i do, work, achievements etc, self esteem is a different cookie, and wouldnt be as strong as my confidence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its easy to blag confidence, i would consider mine fairly high because i feel competent in the things i do, work, achievements etc, self esteem is a different cookie, and wouldnt be as strong as my confidence "
I'd have though they go hand in hand.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its easy to blag confidence, i would consider mine fairly high because i feel competent in the things i do, work, achievements etc, self esteem is a different cookie, and wouldnt be as strong as my confidence I'd have though they go hand in hand.."
No, not always, people can have a list of achievements as long as their arm, and still feel empty inside, some try to fill this space with other not so healthy persuits..i once heard it explained as confidence is what you do, and esteem is who you are.. |
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"Rate yours out of 10...
Be honest!
On fab about an 8 in day to day life maybe 6 or 7
Why more confident on Fab? Do share..
More time to think of responses, less impact on everyday life.
What about you?
On Fab a solid 7.
In life a feeble 5."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its easy to blag confidence, i would consider mine fairly high because i feel competent in the things i do, work, achievements etc, self esteem is a different cookie, and wouldnt be as strong as my confidence I'd have though they go hand in hand..
No, not always, people can have a list of achievements as long as their arm, and still feel empty inside, some try to fill this space with other not so healthy persuits..i once heard it explained as confidence is what you do, and esteem is who you are.."
Completely agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say a solid 6 and going in the right direction thanks to fab. A month ago it would have been around a 3 though. Fab has helped my outside world confidence too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good thread Emma
Was curious but now also very surprised at answers!! 
In what way?
Was expecting more confidence..."
I guess we all expect other people to have more confidence and not to be affected by the same doubts and issues as ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is nobody saying 10? Believe in yourself 100% - always! Who cares what other people think."
Because the OP asked people to be honest and very very few people have full confidence all day every day. |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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I think self confidence can vary alot in different situations etc and how comfortable you are in your surroundings and on who's with you at the time.
I can be anything from a 4 to a 9 at different times. |
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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago
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I agree, it can vary big time... in everyday life probably about 6...
On fab...well it depends, one minute can be like a 9 and the next thing one comment can plummet you to a bloody 2!
(And yes...I agree that can happen in real life too before anyone points that out lol)   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 for most things in life except parallel parking that's a minus 10. People of Fab never park near me if you meet me for coffee!
I will pick u up then
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Ah shite I was going to say I'd meet her on a bus route... this is why I cant get meets |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Why is nobody saying 10? Believe in yourself 100% - always! Who cares what other people think."
We all have and will experience situations that throw us and knocks the confidence. Myself I'd say an 8 but on the odd and rare occasion it can slip. |
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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago
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"Why is nobody saying 10? Believe in yourself 100% - always! Who cares what other people think.
We all have and will experience situations that throw us and knocks the confidence. Myself I'd say an 8 but on the odd and rare occasion it can slip."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd say a solid 6 and going in the right direction thanks to fab. A month ago it would have been around a 3 though. Fab has helped my outside world confidence too. "
Totally agree with this. The Fab effect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 for most things in life except parallel parking that's a minus 10. People of Fab never park near me if you meet me for coffee!
I will pick u up then
Ah shite I was going to say I'd meet her on a bus route... this is why I cant get meets"
Great transport links to my place. It's serviced by bus and train lol |
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"8 for most things in life except parallel parking that's a minus 10. People of Fab never park near me if you meet me for coffee!
I will pick u up then
Ah shite I was going to say I'd meet her on a bus route... this is why I cant get meets
Great transport links to my place. It's serviced by bus and train lol"
Nice to be serviced well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree, it can vary big time... in everyday life probably about 6...
On fab...well it depends, one minute can be like a 9 and the next thing one comment can plummet you to a bloody 2!
(And yes...I agree that can happen in real life too before anyone points that out lol) "
So very true
More confident on here chatting to others than in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Between 6 & 10 depend on situation and place where i am, if we add few glass of wine then 12 but i don't won't to become an alcoholic. So 7 on a average. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its easy to blag confidence, i would consider mine fairly high because i feel competent in the things i do, work, achievements etc, self esteem is a different cookie, and wouldnt be as strong as my confidence I'd have though they go hand in hand..
No, not always, people can have a list of achievements as long as their arm, and still feel empty inside, some try to fill this space with other not so healthy persuits..i once heard it explained as confidence is what you do, and esteem is who you are.."
I guess when it's put like that..but I'm happy enough in both...life's to short not to and some one will always have an opinion about ye good or bad so feck em just plough on. |
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Excellent thread work related be very confident probably 9 day to live 6 lot to do with been very shy at start getting to know people and fab depends some days 7 or 8 others 4 but don’t take much notice of it but then other days fab can get to ur normal life stuff.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as a single guy on here getting a meet, even just coffee, can boost your confidence to a 10 ... but i have a line manager & in a few words or email can diminish your confidence to a zeto ... just as well others have confidence in my work & i know i am respected by peers ... but it is so easy to knock a persons confidence |
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I checked with Apples ( who knows about this stuff) before posting...
She tells me in a word..." over"
As a score out of 10..probably around 23...
Btw....sitting on a beach naked in pdi..days like this ya just gotta feel awesome..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oooo well over all I would say an 8 but I was brought up to be confident in my self and abilities my dad was keen on self realisation in my abilities. "
Love this. Great parent concentrating on the important things! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly, no more than a 4 
This should be higher in my humble opinion x"
I agree it should be but howandever.... the joys of being in an age of social media |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly, no more than a 4
This should be higher in my humble opinion x
I agree it should be but howandever.... the joys of being in an age of social media "
U think that contributes the most? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly, no more than a 4
This should be higher in my humble opinion x
I agree it should be but howandever.... the joys of being in an age of social media
U think that contributes the most? "
I think it has a big part to play in it yeah... influences us in more ways than we think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can appear confident and bubbly in all aspects of my life. But it's a low self esteem I struggle with tbh.Good honest thread "
I get that. Similar myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I gotten to a point that I try not to think about any situation/stress myself out. Some days it a 1, on good days I guess a 5"
That's terrible man. Make sure you look after yourself. Everyone has their little insecurities for some people not so little. Believe in yourself and focus on the things that make you feel good about yourself. It's a tough old world out there, be good to yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me. It depends on the mood, the people your with, the situation you're in. You can dress up and look amazing but, feel like shit inside. So 0-10 ?"
Really? I hope this changes for you. What about something your good at it can be anything, like for a sense of achievement no matter how small. Like even taking up painting or drawing. You'd be surprised how something that small can make you feel better. |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
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"For me. It depends on the mood, the people your with, the situation you're in. You can dress up and look amazing but, feel like shit inside. So 0-10 ?
Really? I hope this changes for you. What about something your good at it can be anything, like for a sense of achievement no matter how small. Like even taking up painting or drawing. You'd be surprised how something that small can make you feel better."
I think you took me up wrong. I just meant my confidence varies from day to day. Kinda like most people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me. It depends on the mood, the people your with, the situation you're in. You can dress up and look amazing but, feel like shit inside. So 0-10 ?
Really? I hope this changes for you. What about something your good at it can be anything, like for a sense of achievement no matter how small. Like even taking up painting or drawing. You'd be surprised how something that small can make you feel better.
I think you took me up wrong. I just meant my confidence varies from day to day. Kinda like most people "
Ah ok. As long as you're not a 0-10, when I hear that it really makes me sad but I do empathize and understand about the variation. We all get that I suppose. Should never be a zero though. Be good to yourself |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
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"For me. It depends on the mood, the people your with, the situation you're in. You can dress up and look amazing but, feel like shit inside. So 0-10 ?
Really? I hope this changes for you. What about something your good at it can be anything, like for a sense of achievement no matter how small. Like even taking up painting or drawing. You'd be surprised how something that small can make you feel better.
I think you took me up wrong. I just meant my confidence varies from day to day. Kinda like most people
Ah ok. As long as you're not a 0-10, when I hear that it really makes me sad but I do empathize and understand about the variation. We all get that I suppose. Should never be a zero though. Be good to yourself "
Life knocks people, doesn't mean they stay there lol. I got up this morning after a sleep less night. Course I didn't feel confident. I got showered, slapped on the face and I was good to go.
Isn't that just life. |
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