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over a year ago
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This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Would love to hear peoples views on this x |
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Some guys are just "wired" differently. For me when I was in a relationship like this I loved the suspense and not knowing. Waiting to hear all about it.
Personally it was another manifestation of my submissive side however, but Im sure thats not the reason for all guys.
Everyone gets something else from it I would imagine. |
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"This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Would love to hear peoples views on this x "
I would say there is a big difference for me being there or sending her away for fun. |
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Deleted cause of typos.
Was saying. We don’t do the separate meet thing. But love select MMf.
I don’t think vanilla people can or are expected to understand but sharing the person you love (at least for me anyway) deepens our love.
It takes a special connection within a relationship to allow your lover fuck other people. And for us certainly that connection deepens with it.
Being open, honest and encouraging of your lover has led to the most fulfilling relationship either of us has had. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Deleted cause of typos.
Was saying. We don’t do the separate meet thing. But love select MMf.
I don’t think vanilla people can or are expected to understand but sharing the person you love (at least for me anyway) deepens our love.
It takes a special connection within a relationship to allow your lover fuck other people. And for us certainly that connection deepens with it.
Being open, honest and encouraging of your lover has led to the most fulfilling relationship either of us has had. "
I love that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Deleted cause of typos.
Was saying. We don’t do the separate meet thing. But love select MMf.
I don’t think vanilla people can or are expected to understand but sharing the person you love (at least for me anyway) deepens our love.
It takes a special connection within a relationship to allow your lover fuck other people. And for us certainly that connection deepens with it.
Being open, honest and encouraging of your lover has led to the most fulfilling relationship either of us has had. "
Is this the male responding?
I personally love seeing my bf with other women but he would never feel the same way. So I'm just curious about men and what they particularly enjoy about it x |
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As a couple we've done hot wife and me watching the buzz is the same it's about knowing your sending your partner off to act as they want with the knowledge there coming back to you and they only want you  |
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I got really turned on watching my lady friend in the back of the car with him on the way .she teased the life out of me so horny and sexy so bye the time we got to play I was very turned on . But if you are the third wheel it's not the same though . |
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Is this the male responding?
I personally love seeing my bf with other women but he would never feel the same way. So I'm just curious about men and what they particularly enjoy about it x"
Yes. The Male responding.
You mention you love seeing your guy with other women. I imagine the Feelings you get are much the same, if not exactly the same, as a man gets in sharing his woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deleted cause of typos.
Was saying. We don’t do the separate meet thing. But love select MMf.
I don’t think vanilla people can or are expected to understand but sharing the person you love (at least for me anyway) deepens our love.
It takes a special connection within a relationship to allow your lover fuck other people. And for us certainly that connection deepens with it.
Being open, honest and encouraging of your lover has led to the most fulfilling relationship either of us has had.
Is this the male responding?
I personally love seeing my bf with other women but he would never feel the same way. So I'm just curious about men and what they particularly enjoy about it x"
Lol I bet the guys are sickened your boyfriend wont share you with other men. Being you are so fit and allthat
But Id say the green eyed monster would kick in with your boyfriend. He wants you to himself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Is this the male responding?
I personally love seeing my bf with other women but he would never feel the same way. So I'm just curious about men and what they particularly enjoy about it x
Yes. The Male responding.
You mention you love seeing your guy with other women. I imagine the Feelings you get are much the same, if not exactly the same, as a man gets in sharing his woman. "
I've heard a few different opinions on why men like to see their partner with other women so I suppose I was curious to see other views.
It's hard to put into words why I like to see my partner with other women, but I feel it's letting him fulfil his masculinity (if that makes sense) him being completely dominant and 'king of the castle' lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Deleted cause of typos.
Was saying. We don’t do the separate meet thing. But love select MMf.
I don’t think vanilla people can or are expected to understand but sharing the person you love (at least for me anyway) deepens our love.
It takes a special connection within a relationship to allow your lover fuck other people. And for us certainly that connection deepens with it.
Being open, honest and encouraging of your lover has led to the most fulfilling relationship either of us has had.
Is this the male responding?
I personally love seeing my bf with other women but he would never feel the same way. So I'm just curious about men and what they particularly enjoy about it x
Lol I bet the guys are sickened your boyfriend wont share you with other men. Being you are so fit and allthat
But Id say the green eyed monster would kick in with your boyfriend. He wants you to himself"
I'm sickened about it myself tbh lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deleted cause of typos.
Was saying. We don’t do the separate meet thing. But love select MMf.
I don’t think vanilla people can or are expected to understand but sharing the person you love (at least for me anyway) deepens our love.
It takes a special connection within a relationship to allow your lover fuck other people. And for us certainly that connection deepens with it.
Being open, honest and encouraging of your lover has led to the most fulfilling relationship either of us has had.
Is this the male responding?
I personally love seeing my bf with other women but he would never feel the same way. So I'm just curious about men and what they particularly enjoy about it x
Lol I bet the guys are sickened your boyfriend wont share you with other men. Being you are so fit and allthat
But Id say the green eyed monster would kick in with your boyfriend. He wants you to himself
I'm sickened about it myself tbh lol"
Im totally with you on this one, OP, and I’m glad you opened the topic however don’t think it will change our guys’s view!
Will keep trying  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Deleted cause of typos.
Was saying. We don’t do the separate meet thing. But love select MMf.
I don’t think vanilla people can or are expected to understand but sharing the person you love (at least for me anyway) deepens our love.
It takes a special connection within a relationship to allow your lover fuck other people. And for us certainly that connection deepens with it.
Being open, honest and encouraging of your lover has led to the most fulfilling relationship either of us has had.
Is this the male responding?
I personally love seeing my bf with other women but he would never feel the same way. So I'm just curious about men and what they particularly enjoy about it x
Lol I bet the guys are sickened your boyfriend wont share you with other men. Being you are so fit and allthat
But Id say the green eyed monster would kick in with your boyfriend. He wants you to himself
I'm sickened about it myself tbh lol
Im totally with you on this one, OP, and I’m glad you opened the topic however don’t think it will change our guys’s view!
Will keep trying )"
Are you in the same boat?! Lol
I most definitely want a MMF.. but how to convince my other half! |
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Are you in the same boat?! Lol
I most definitely want a MMF.. but how to convince my other half!"
Not sure anyone should be convincing anyone. Can Only speak from our experience but it’s more of a ... oh I don’t know. And organic thing or mindset that allows the freedom in a relationship. Convincing seems to imply that one person wants it more then the other.
Perhaps couples nah be the way to go. So he can get use to seeing you with guys when he’s with a girl.
Sexuality is an amazing thing and every couple will ha egbeir own idiosyncrasies. You are already way ahead of many vanilla couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Are you in the same boat?! Lol
I most definitely want a MMF.. but how to convince my other half!
Not sure anyone should be convincing anyone. Can Only speak from our experience but it’s more of a ... oh I don’t know. And organic thing or mindset that allows the freedom in a relationship. Convincing seems to imply that one person wants it more then the other.
Perhaps couples nah be the way to go. So he can get use to seeing you with guys when he’s with a girl.
Sexuality is an amazing thing and every couple will ha egbeir own idiosyncrasies. You are already way ahead of many vanilla couples. "
One person DOES want it more than the other! lol
My partner is not into the idea of me sleeping with another man (a woman is a different story)
Therefore, I have to respect his preference. I also wouldn't class myself as 'vanilla', I have different desires to my bf but obviously there has to be a respect for what your partner wants. |
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Don’t mean to imply you class yourself as vanilla at all. I actually meant it as a compliment.
The fact that you are on here and already are part of the scene in our opinion shows that you are in a good open sex positive relationship.
That’s obviously( in our opinion) a good thing. |
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As a male I find it unbelievably exciting for my wife to go out meeting solo. I will never forget helping her fix that stocking into its suspender the first time while the taxi waited outside. She has met both a male and a couple solo and watching her get ready, having that knot in my stomach while she’s gone and then the excitement of getting some pics or videos, it was mind blowing stuff for me.
We really struggle to get nights off together so I’d rather she met solo than not at all. We also had exceptional sex together when she returned from each meet and during the days that the meets were being organised we had more sex than we had on our honeymoon.
I have no interest in BDSM but I heard someone describe the hotwifing scenario before as BDSM for the mind. I think there might be some truth to that. Any male who’s sat at home while she’s out and had that knot in there stomach unable to eat for the day will know what I’m talking about.
But there’s also a touch of voyeurism to it. Your wife is your own hot pornstar, but you can’t watch her properly when your taking part aswell.
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By *abbingMan
over a year ago
Belfast |
""As a male I find it unbelievably exciting for my wife to go out meeting solo. I will never forget helping her fix that stocking into its suspender the first time while the taxi waited outside. ""
I find this topic really interesting - as the scenario above of sending wife/gf off to meet solo would be my worst nightmare......the scenario does turn me on a little occasionally as a fantasy only but its not something I'd ever want to act on, as the jealously would drive me nuts
But on the other hand I would love to have a MMF with partner, sharing her with another guy to get her off
I guess my point is the scenarios above of letting partner meet solo and sharing with another are often seen as two sides of the same coin by some outside of sites like this, but for me its completely different
I can see the appeal in threeway MMF, because of the basic taboo, because of watching her enjoy what should be a pleasurable experience, because of the voyeuristic aspect mentioned above, but also by being involved
- the cuckold side of things doesnt appeal to me at all......unless of course Im the one meeting the lady doing the cucking lol |
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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago
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"This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Would love to hear peoples views on this x "
Well for me its alot of things... control, jealousy, emasculination, humiliation.
I would love to be a sissy cuckold in this regard and spoke about it on a number of occasions with different women however the situation never arose due to circumstance or the woman not wishing to take the step.
Still hopefull for one day being cuckolded |
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It's probably different for everyone. For us, I remain dominant at a MMF date. Even thou I might not be participating (at the start) I still call the shots which Scarlett likes as it allows her to be submissive yet still feel safe. Most lads are happy to go along and we wouldn't find a traditional cuckold situation with humiliation and that, appealing.
Some of the best sex we've had is leading up to then immediately after a date.
Someone mentioned the term 'Reclaim Sex' which ties in with a theory called sperm competition/dominance. Simply, the second male ( the husband in our modern day scenario) will fuck the female harder then he would usually, TBC |
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, have a more intense ejactulation, thus producing more cum. The theory explains that this goes back to Neanderthal days when we were primal and animalistic in our procreation pursuits. So, the second male works harder to impress his mate (a little healthy competition) and he cums harder and heavier to try and gain the seed advantage over the first lover.
Of course, it's just a theory so we'd need a study group to explore lol
Might also explain why some guys like eating crrampies from their lover, ie it's akin to trying to remove snakes venom from a bite. Terrible comparison but you get what I mean.
Rhett |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She loves cocks and I love when she is happy. I love to fuck tvs or play with other guys, she loves to watch and join. She loves cum in her pussy, so when Im too busy or tired, she can have cock and cum of skmeone else.
Anyway we really love each other, having happy home with kids.
Sex with others is like a sport for us. |
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Mrs loves cock and pussy so all good here  . Butt as for mmf or solo meets that ain't going to happen with us .
It's either ffm threesome or we meet a couple if she wants more cock .
It may work for some couple's and that's great for them just not for us .
Myself personally I don't get off on seeing Mrs with another man just once she is happy .
Mr dirty xx |
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By *m158Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
Been married 20 years and have had some great meets here as a couple and also seperately. Male here spends a lot of time away with work and really gets a kick of the Mrs having the odd seperate meet and sending some pics of the meet. Definitely the 'reclaim sex' as one calls it is really hot
Need to have a very secure relationship and thankfully we have....it has really kept the spice between us alive |
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Not happened yet and maybe it never will, but Mrs knows Its my fantasy to see her in group action. For me it's about sitting back and watching her in action with multiple guys, her face as someone other than me enters her,the noises she makes,etc and of course the reclaim sex after and probably for a few days later.
But like I said Mrs is turned on by the idea but is extremely nervous and I'm ok if it never happens.
But here's to hoping it will
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
"Not happened yet and maybe it never will, but Mrs knows Its my fantasy to see her in group action. For me it's about sitting back and watching her in action with multiple guys, her face as someone other than me enters her,the noises she makes,etc and of course the reclaim sex after and probably for a few days later.
But like I said Mrs is turned on by the idea but is extremely nervous and I'm ok if it never happens.
But here's to hoping it will
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Well if I can assist in anyway  |
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Absolutely love this, first happened in a club as a foursome, but I kept looking at what my wife was doing rather than seeing to my new partner!
After that, it was MMF all the way and sometimes up to 4 guys with her. It completely turned me on, watching my wife being fucked and facialised by guys, all hard at the same time because of the same girl. Primeval experience I would say, complete buzz and then she always returned to me. Best sex ever was had afterwards where we would relive and reenact the events of the evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Only once I have had a wife in front of her husband, travelled an hour and a half drive, I was so excited on the way. When I arrived at their place I got really nervous so they agreed I could start with her alone and he walked in five minutes into it. They really got off on me doing my thing only rule I could not kiss her on the lips but I kissed everywhere else. He wanted me to finish on her body. It was a good experience overall. They were cool and made me feel at ease, even had a cup of tea after haha. I didn't ask too many questions but they were a bit older than me. I think it probably spices things up in their own sex life. I was glad to oblige...
Would love to hear peoples views on this x "
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I had husband and wife situation too earlier this year, had a great time. They gave me directions on what they liked and wanted from the meet and I was happy with the terms also. Lots of fun for everyone and she acted out some fantasies while in a safe environment. Well worth a go! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Would love to hear peoples views on this x "
Hi blondie,
I think it is a massive turn on, if I was attached I would love to share.
I meet a married couple maybe 4 or 5 times a year, for the last few years and it’s great fun.
If your BF is not into it, maybe he never will be....but if he was any way curious there is loads of ways to try get him interested.....firstly meeting the right fella that is patient.
Maybe something as innocent as a strip tease to start with....maybe bringing another man in to watch ye play....there is always gentle ways to stoke his interest....but he has to be some way curious to start with.
By the sounds of it, you would like this more than him....so maybe it’s having a big boy conversation about it and tell him it’s something you’d like to try....maybe as a threesome, maybe as a hotwife out of his sight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hubby loves watching me being satisfied by 2 men and being dominated. He just loves his wife being an absolute slut with 2 men and I ain't complaining |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My hubby loves watching me being satisfied by 2 men and being dominated. He just loves his wife being an absolute slut with 2 men and I ain't complaining "
With a body as hot as yours, it's too good not to be shared |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My hubby loves watching me being satisfied by 2 men and being dominated. He just loves his wife being an absolute slut with 2 men and I ain't complaining "
Well you definitely look incredible, I'd love to be one of those 2 men to shar you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you in the same boat?! Lol
I most definitely want a MMF.. but how to convince my other half!
Not sure anyone should be convincing anyone. Can Only speak from our experience but it’s more of a ... oh I don’t know. And organic thing or mindset that allows the freedom in a relationship. Convincing seems to imply that one person wants it more then the other.
Perhaps couples nah be the way to go. So he can get use to seeing you with guys when he’s with a girl.
Sexuality is an amazing thing and every couple will ha egbeir own idiosyncrasies. You are already way ahead of many vanilla couples.
One person DOES want it more than the other! lol
My partner is not into the idea of me sleeping with another man (a woman is a different story)
Therefore, I have to respect his preference. I also wouldn't class myself as 'vanilla', I have different desires to my bf but obviously there has to be a respect for what your partner wants. "
Sounds to me like he has no respect for what you want !!!!! He is getting his cake and eating it, respect goes both ways ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you in the same boat?! Lol
I most definitely want a MMF.. but how to convince my other half!
Not sure anyone should be convincing anyone. Can Only speak from our experience but it’s more of a ... oh I don’t know. And organic thing or mindset that allows the freedom in a relationship. Convincing seems to imply that one person wants it more then the other.
Perhaps couples nah be the way to go. So he can get use to seeing you with guys when he’s with a girl.
Sexuality is an amazing thing and every couple will ha egbeir own idiosyncrasies. You are already way ahead of many vanilla couples.
One person DOES want it more than the other! lol
My partner is not into the idea of me sleeping with another man (a woman is a different story)
Therefore, I have to respect his preference. I also wouldn't class myself as 'vanilla', I have different desires to my bf but obviously there has to be a respect for what your partner wants.
Sounds to me like he has no respect for what you want !!!!! He is getting his cake and eating it, respect goes both ways ! "
I've never openly had that convo with him because I know it wouldn't be for him. Therefore, I wouldn't want to do anything that I knew wouldn't turn him on. That wouldn't turn me on (if you get me).
He has massive respect for me btw and also ... that's the thing about cake, you're meant to eat it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My wife is very passionate player and loves a good hard fuck, as well as I do. We both love a lot of kissing and touching. It turns me on to see her face and body language when she is receiving that pleasure from another man. When I look into her eyes, I can see she is being satisfied, turned on and if I come close to her, she will pass a lot of that energy to me through the kiss and a touch. There is a lot of desire, passion and heat in seeing your partner taking the pleasure from another man and woman.
Same goes for her, she gets turned on a lot seeing me pleasuring another woman and she loves to join in to please myself and her at the same time.
We haven't had a chance yet to experience MFM nor MFF only but we did as part of MFMF play of course.
Neither of us in fact has any interest in separate meets. We joined the swing scene to fulfill our desire of having others to play with us and playing without each other would just take away a pleasure of seeing each other play with others, which for us is a very important part of a game |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"My wife is very passionate player and loves a good hard fuck, as well as I do. We both love a lot of kissing and touching. It turns me on to see her face and body language when she is receiving that pleasure from another man. When I look into her eyes, I can see she is being satisfied, turned on and if I come close to her, she will pass a lot of that energy to me through the kiss and a touch. There is a lot of desire, passion and heat in seeing your partner taking the pleasure from another man and woman.
Same goes for her, she gets turned on a lot seeing me pleasuring another woman and she loves to join in to please myself and her at the same time.
We haven't had a chance yet to experience MFM nor MFF only but we did as part of MFMF play of course.
Neither of us in fact has any interest in separate meets. We joined the swing scene to fulfill our desire of having others to play with us and playing without each other would just take away a pleasure of seeing each other play with others, which for us is a very important part of a game "
this is pretty close to our experience |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
"My hubby loves watching me being satisfied by 2 men and being dominated. He just loves his wife being an absolute slut with 2 men and I ain't complaining "
2 men under 40 judging by your filters  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
n my eyes, Gemma is the hottest woman in the world. To see her be wild and living life to the Max turns me on. When I see her getting fucked, its like the best porno ever. The way she looks, the eyes, the sounds, its fucking class. Shes outrageous in my eyes. She gets so turned on by being able to drive me wild, who wouldn't want that. I love that she loves it and she loves that she makes me so turned on visually, she loves that I think shes the hottest woman in the world.
We spend weeks talking about it afterwards, the last time she did we had sex practically for 2 days non stop.
I call it James Dean principle, he was the first pinup, everyone thought he was hot and cool but most of all they loved him because he was wild. If your wife is w |
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"n my eyes, Gemma is the hottest woman in the world. To see her be wild and living life to the Max turns me on. When I see her getting fucked, its like the best porno ever. The way she looks, the eyes, the sounds, its fucking class. Shes outrageous in my eyes. She gets so turned on by being able to drive me wild, who wouldn't want that. I love that she loves it and she loves that she makes me so turned on visually, she loves that I think shes the hottest woman in the world.
We spend weeks talking about it afterwards, the last time she did we had sex practically for 2 days non stop.
I call it James Dean principle, he was the first pinup, everyone thought he was hot and cool but most of all they loved him because he was wild. If your wife is w"
Your mindest and the attitude to each other sounds so much like us, it's crazy! |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"n my eyes, Gemma is the hottest woman in the world. To see her be wild and living life to the Max turns me on. When I see her getting fucked, its like the best porno ever. The way she looks, the eyes, the sounds, its fucking class. Shes outrageous in my eyes. She gets so turned on by being able to drive me wild, who wouldn't want that. I love that she loves it and she loves that she makes me so turned on visually, she loves that I think shes the hottest woman in the world.
We spend weeks talking about it afterwards, the last time she did we had sex practically for 2 days non stop.
I call it James Dean principle, he was the first pinup, everyone thought he was hot and cool but most of all they loved him because he was wild. If your wife is w
Your mindest and the attitude to each other sounds so much like us, it's crazy! "
Thank you absolutely stunning profile btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My hubby loves watching me being satisfied by 2 men and being dominated. He just loves his wife being an absolute slut with 2 men and I ain't complaining
With a body as hot as yours, it's too good not to be shared "
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"My hubby loves watching me being satisfied by 2 men and being dominated. He just loves his wife being an absolute slut with 2 men and I ain't complaining
Well you definitely look incredible, I'd love to be one of those 2 men to shar you! "
Mmm sounds hot  |
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"This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Would love to hear peoples views on this x "
Mr C here, we have been lucky enough to meet lots of single ladies on here but I do love an MMF nothing hotter |
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He must be jealous so sorry but I have seen this lots of times before... I believe you have to try it at least once I didn't think I'd be into it but once I did it I found it hot as fuck
Since I have organised 3 or 4 lads to pleasure herself on occasion......blindfolded |
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"Any advice on how one brings up this idea knowing the lady has never had a threesome but you have an idea she might enjoy it? "
Ask her if she has any fantasies. And then when she asks you about yours say I think it would be so hot pleasing you with another guy. See what she says. It took my husband 2 years of convincing me but so glad I went for it. Its so much fun, especially being on a night out and I'm not afraid to say this guy or girl is hot and my hubby will tell me to go chat to them hehe |
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Me & my wife did it with a group of other lads in a pub after hours, a few years ago.. We still pillow talk about it and both get off on it... it was Better even wetter then I’d ever imagined lol |
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"Any advice on how one brings up this idea knowing the lady has never had a threesome but you have an idea she might enjoy it?
Ask her if she has any fantasies. And then when she asks you about yours say I think it would be so hot pleasing you with another guy. See what she says. It took my husband 2 years of convincing me but so glad I went for it. Its so much fun, especially being on a night out and I'm not afraid to say this guy or girl is hot and my hubby will tell me to go chat to them hehe "
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"This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Would love to hear peoples views on this x "
We have done it a few times with mmf and even mmmmmf.. Worked really well until 1 idiot told half of our town about it.. Wife was absolutely gutted but we’ve been on the lookout of late again.. |
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"He must be jealous so sorry but I have seen this lots of times before... I believe you have to try it at least once I didn't think I'd be into it but once I did it I found it hot as fuck
Since I have organised 3 or 4 lads to pleasure herself on occasion......blindfolded "
In order to be jealous, I think you need to be insecure. He's not.
He's just not wired that way to find it a turn on. |
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"This one is for the men out there who get turned on seeing their wife/gf have sex with other men. What is it that turns you on about it? What is the attraction of a MMF? I can understand a 4some as you may get to shag another hot female lol but I specifically want to know about sending the 'wife off for fun'
Would love to hear peoples views on this x
We have done it a few times with mmf and even mmmmmf.. Worked really well until 1 idiot told half of our town about it.. Wife was absolutely gutted but we’ve been on the lookout of late again.."
That's awful, hope yer ok. Some people are such assholes. |
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"Any advice on how one brings up this idea knowing the lady has never had a threesome but you have an idea she might enjoy it?
Ask her if she has any fantasies. And then when she asks you about yours say I think it would be so hot pleasing you with another guy. See what she says. It took my husband 2 years of convincing me but so glad I went for it. Its so much fun, especially being on a night out and I'm not afraid to say this guy or girl is hot and my hubby will tell me to go chat to them hehe "
You two need to have a sit down with my wife
Would love to share her in a mmf but cant get her to be comfortable in herself to let go and just go for it |
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"Any advice on how one brings up this idea knowing the lady has never had a threesome but you have an idea she might enjoy it?
Ask her if she has any fantasies. And then when she asks you about yours say I think it would be so hot pleasing you with another guy. See what she says. It took my husband 2 years of convincing me but so glad I went for it. Its so much fun, especially being on a night out and I'm not afraid to say this guy or girl is hot and my hubby will tell me to go chat to them hehe
You two need to have a sit down with my wife
Would love to share her in a mmf but cant get her to be comfortable in herself to let go and just go for it "
Might be a bad idea for her to discover your on here as a single lol |
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"Any advice on how one brings up this idea knowing the lady has never had a threesome but you have an idea she might enjoy it?
Ask her if she has any fantasies. And then when she asks you about yours say I think it would be so hot pleasing you with another guy. See what she says. It took my husband 2 years of convincing me but so glad I went for it. Its so much fun, especially being on a night out and I'm not afraid to say this guy or girl is hot and my hubby will tell me to go chat to them hehe
You two need to have a sit down with my wife
Would love to share her in a mmf but cant get her to be comfortable in herself to let go and just go for it "
You should definitely try have a talk with her about it. She's probably afraid it might ruin the relationship you have (that was my fear) reassure her nothing will change if she wants to experiment and it's just sex. Id be heartbroken if my hubby did it without me knowing when I was trying to "let go". It takes a lot of time. It took me 2 years to agree so be patient with her. Focus your efforts on her, make her feel special and sexy, buy her lingerie and you never know what might happen |
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Wife used to be very shy about sex. 20years later its the opposite. Meeting new friends and chatting about sex with who've had threesomes, been with other girls, the internet, porn, Ann summers parties and large dildos etc... have changed her. Now she loves big cock. She loves that full stretched felling reaching spots I can't. So who an I to deny this.
Me, I'm.as open minded you'll find. One can't deny their wife these desires. Its a massive turn on for me knowing my wife craves big cock. Strange at first because us men have been conditioned to be jealous of this. Once I started getting aroused thinking about her with other men with bigger cocks and who can fuck her better than me, there was no denying it no more.
In the vanilla world, no one will understand.
After seeing so many people we know die, we've realised were here only for a short time. So, no point in living a lie. We have yet to explore other sexual experiences but they are on our bucket list. |
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Interesting post.. so here a new angle for ye. How about where the male is bi. Likes fun with other bi guys. Likes to play while his female partner watches and possibly joins in the fun.. and they all have fun together |
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"Interesting post.. so here a new angle for ye. How about where the male is bi. Likes fun with other bi guys. Likes to play while his female partner watches and possibly joins in the fun.. and they all have fun together"
Wouldn't want anyone feeling left out now, would we? |
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Would love to hear peoples views on this x "
My husband would love to see me gang banged... By fat old men.. Sigh.. Was all for it until he got to the last bit... |
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