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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place??? |
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"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???"
Look through the forums for a meet and greet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're probably 100% MF couples, I'm a gay guy, not really much point getting verified by a straight couple haha. Thanks though"
Look for socials, people post them in the forums all the time. You're just being verified genuine so why does it matter who does it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if u do meet the type of person ur looking for.ur not guarnthed play with them either just because its a social meet.u might be better waiting for ur hickey to go first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Purely going by your profile you're ruling out meeting anyone straight or bi curious, that's probably 95% of this site.
If you're after a verification it's best to get your first one or two through social meets.
Once you get those then another door opens. |
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"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???"
You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.
If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???
You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.
If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck."
To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.
Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.
Alot of socials require meet verification.
Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???
You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.
If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.
To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.
Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.
Alot of socials require meet verification.
Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people"
But sure newbies can't verify newbies!
Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.
Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???
You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.
If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.
To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.
Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.
Alot of socials require meet verification.
Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people
But sure newbies can't verify newbies!
Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.
Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people. "
Surely who he wanta to meet is irrevent.
Yes new people cannot verify new people thats why the Fab community could do more to organise events to help people who really want to get involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???
You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.
If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.
To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.
Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.
Alot of socials require meet verification.
Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people
But sure newbies can't verify newbies!
Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.
Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people.
Surely who he wanta to meet is irrevent.
Yes new people cannot verify new people thats why the Fab community could do more to organise events to help people who really want to get involved"
Who he wants to meet is relevant to getting a verification. A verification or two from a social event is better than none at all.
Plenty of guys on here will agree that Socials open the door to more intimate meets.
The community does plenty as pointed out by numerous posts in relation to Meet and Greets.
No one is going to take you by the hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree socials can be good for straight/bi people, but its kinda pointless meeting straight men and women when you're a gay guy"
It will open the door for meeting the gay guys that wont meet without a verification |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See a lot of profiles on here saying they won't meet if I'm not verified. How am I supposed to get verified if no one will meet me in the first place???
You are not entitled to a meet, you are not guaranteed a meet and signing up to this site does not mean that anyone will want to meet you.
If you get a meet it'll be through being nice, polite and having a personality that is appealing. That and a lot of luck.
To be fair he never said he was entitled and he asked a legitime question.
Its a catch 22 for alot of nice polite people.
Alot of socials require meet verification.
Prehaps as a community we couod organise more socials for new people
But sure newbies can't verify newbies!
Lots of people won't meet newbies and it's purely down to trust.
Lots and lots of fake profiles on here and the OP on his profile pretty much states he doesn't want to meet straight or bi people.
Surely who he wanta to meet is irrevent.
Yes new people cannot verify new people thats why the Fab community could do more to organise events to help people who really want to get involved
Who he wants to meet is relevant to getting a verification. A verification or two from a social event is better than none at all.
Plenty of guys on here will agree that Socials open the door to more intimate meets.
The community does plenty as pointed out by numerous posts in relation to Meet and Greets.
No one is going to take you by the hand. "
I could be wrong on this because I have no inyerest im M+G myself but majority of them I have seen are invite only and they tend to go to people who are already verified and the ones that are organised for new people more often than not fall through.
I will admit I missed the posts where the OP was reluctent to go to them anyway  So I may have gone off on my own tangent |
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Oh sweet baby jebus the lad is trying to get verified he's not looking for a ffff kidney. He's not looking to play with straight or bi because he's gay, that's all has stating. Hes young, he's gay and trying to spread his wings . OP you can just meet a verified person for a coffee who will verify you as a real person. Good luck in your search. |
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"Oh sweet baby jebus the lad is trying to get verified he's not looking for a ffff kidney. He's not looking to play with straight or bi because he's gay, that's all has stating. Hes young, he's gay and trying to spread his wings . OP you can just meet a verified person for a coffee who will verify you as a real person. Good luck in your search."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is op not looking only for gay people even for just a vert though.dont think he wants to meet straight maybe im reading the thread wrong and maybe not reading between the lines ..i could be wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe rewrite your profile, you can clarify what your looking for in a less aggressive manor and I'm not being harsh on you
I just looked at your profile and your read does sound a little aggressive :-/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe rewrite your profile, you can clarify what your looking for in a less aggressive manor and I'm not being harsh on you
I just looked at your profile and your read does sound a little aggressive :-/"
Agreed 
And the fact you're here at least a year without a veri. That may put peeps off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I know but I'm on here over a year with no veris because no one will meet me! I've already said I don't want to meet women or straight couples, I'm not really interested in the 'social' thing, just looking for a bitta sex. It's a lot easier on other sites without veris, people don't seem to be so up their own hole, but maybe its just me 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I know but I'm on here over a year with no veris because no one will meet me! I've already said I don't want to meet women or straight couples, I'm not really interested in the 'social' thing, just looking for a bitta sex. It's a lot easier on other sites without veris, people don't seem to be so up their own hole, but maybe its just me
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Well why not stick to the other sites then. If it's easier .... |
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