"I seen a profile from a very hot girl and was instantly turned off when she refared to her kid as baggage. Im sorry but come on. Would you class your kids as baggage. ???"
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"I seen a profile from a very hot girl and was instantly turned off when she refared to her kid as baggage. Im sorry but come on. Would you class your kids as baggage. ???"
I dont know the profile but perhaps she was just referring to the child in the manner that a lot of people reading her profile would see it as. Im sure personally she doesnt consider her child as baggage! |
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"I seen a profile from a very hot girl and was instantly turned off when she refared to her kid as baggage. Im sorry but come on. Would you class your kids as baggage. ???
Bloody hell... that is aweful"
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I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2. |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2."
No one is perfect |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2."
Why, would you call children those names.. |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names.."
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names? "
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would.. |
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"I seen a profile from a very hot girl and was instantly turned off when she refared to her kid as baggage. Im sorry but come on. Would you class your kids as baggage. ???
Bloody hell... that is aweful
Aweful as in amazing or awful as in terrible "
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would.."
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"That is shocking but there is obviously a reason why she is saying that. She us probably struggling... Doesn't make it right. "
Jez of course it does not make it right next she'll be saying they were a mistake and wrecked her life... getting in the way if her social life!!! I pity the poor kid/kids growing up with a mother like that |
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"That is shocking but there is obviously a reason why she is saying that. She us probably struggling... Doesn't make it right.
Jez of course it does not make it right next she'll be saying they were a mistake and wrecked her life... getting in the way if her social life!!! I pity the poor kid/kids growing up with a mother like that"
I don't think that is the actual problem. It sounds to me that she needs help. |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
My parents used to call me Frank Spencer, did me no harm. "
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would.."
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car  |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car "
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car "
I disagree with you, this has nothing to do with sex or overthinking anything, i find it to be bad parenting to express derogatory names to children, or in front of them for that matter
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I disagree with you, this has nothing to do with sex or overthinking anything, i find it to be bad parenting to express derogatory names to children, or in front of them for that matter
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It is so wrong on a serious level, but it is happening everyday everywhere. Doesn't make it right but not everyone sees how wrong it is and want to get help to change. |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I disagree with you, this has nothing to do with sex or overthinking anything, i find it to be bad parenting to express derogatory names to children, or in front of them for that matter
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Listen offer then honest help ...pay for the psychotherapy these poor kids will obviously need. Come here there's kid's out there suffering ...really suffering..things you cant imagine. Advocate for them if you feel that strongly. Don't get your tighty whities in a knot over more then likely middle class kids with a dad thats a bit whacky. |
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Kids are not a baggage however describing them as such it's related the to the context.
I met women with kids and they were never a baggage... Loved them when I got the chance to met them too, as much i loved her mom |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I disagree with you, this has nothing to do with sex or overthinking anything, i find it to be bad parenting to express derogatory names to children, or in front of them for that matter
Listen offer then honest help ...pay for the psychotherapy these poor kids will obviously need. Come here there's kid's out there suffering ...really suffering..things you cant imagine. Advocate for them if you feel that strongly. Don't get your tighty whities in a knot over more then likely middle class kids with a dad thats a bit whacky. "
lol, you seem to be the one getting your knickers in a knot. I dont take it personally, how someone chooses to rear their children, i just expressed an opinion and asked a question in the context of the thread the periods are dragging out |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I disagree with you, this has nothing to do with sex or overthinking anything, i find it to be bad parenting to express derogatory names to children, or in front of them for that matter
Listen offer then honest help ...pay for the psychotherapy these poor kids will obviously need. Come here there's kid's out there suffering ...really suffering..things you cant imagine. Advocate for them if you feel that strongly. Don't get your tighty whities in a knot over more then likely middle class kids with a dad thats a bit whacky.
lol, you seem to be the one getting your knickers in a knot. I dont take it personally, how someone chooses to rear their children, i just expressed an opinion and asked a question in the context of the thread the periods are dragging out "
They keep responding... me and my knotty knickers are home free now |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car "
I call my kids gobshites when they do something stupid
I also tell them every day that my life would be nothing without them
As for the 'baggage' reference I've heard it so many times over the years and I think it's disgusting. And it's aimed more at the kids of single parents.
But to see that someone would refer to their own child as baggage, that angers me.
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I call my kids gobshites when they do something stupid
I also tell them every day that my life would be nothing without them
As for the 'baggage' reference I've heard it so many times over the years and I think it's disgusting. And it's aimed more at the kids of single parents.
But to see that someone would refer to their own child as baggage, that angers me.
Tina "
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I call my kids gobshites when they do something stupid
I also tell them every day that my life would be nothing without them
As for the 'baggage' reference I've heard it so many times over the years and I think it's disgusting. And it's aimed more at the kids of single parents.
But to see that someone would refer to their own child as baggage, that angers me.
Tina
I live in an equal opportunities household....my pretend adults call me a gobshite and i call them the same .... but deep down its the Waltons....night jimbob "
It's the very same in my house rover
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I call my kids gobshites when they do something stupid
I also tell them every day that my life would be nothing without them
As for the 'baggage' reference I've heard it so many times over the years and I think it's disgusting. And it's aimed more at the kids of single parents.
But to see that someone would refer to their own child as baggage, that angers me.
Tina
I live in an equal opportunities household....my pretend adults call me a gobshite and i call them the same .... but deep down its the Waltons....night jimbob
It's the very same in my house rover
Although since I have 4 and Niall has 4 I'd class us more as Brady Bunch material than Waltons "
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I call my kids gobshites when they do something stupid
I also tell them every day that my life would be nothing without them
As for the 'baggage' reference I've heard it so many times over the years and I think it's disgusting. And it's aimed more at the kids of single parents.
But to see that someone would refer to their own child as baggage, that angers me.
Tina
I live in an equal opportunities household....my pretend adults call me a gobshite and i call them the same .... but deep down its the Waltons....night jimbob
It's the very same in my house rover
Although since I have 4 and Niall has 4 I'd class us more as Brady Bunch material than Waltons
Bloody hell guys .... tell me yoy have bought TVs (telleboxes not transvestites) "
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Im thinking this woman is a single mom... with regrets! Maybe never got to live and enjoy her life when younger and while she most lightly is a great mom she just finds it hard to probably a) meet someone and b) get the freetime to play and have fun when she needs to. |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them Gobshite 1 and 2.
Why, would you call children those names..
Why does anyone call anyone names?
Some, to try and belittle others, im sure there are many reasons, the neame gobshite to me, is not expressing a sign of affection., children internalise this shit more than we as adults would..
I live in a house where if your not called a name somethings wrong .. your overthinking this. Chill out have a ride and you wont give a fiddlers what some stranger on the interweb calls his kid's,dogs,wife or car
I call my kids gobshites when they do something stupid
I also tell them every day that my life would be nothing without them
As for the 'baggage' reference I've heard it so many times over the years and I think it's disgusting. And it's aimed more at the kids of single parents.
But to see that someone would refer to their own child as baggage, that angers me.
Tina
I live in an equal opportunities household....my pretend adults call me a gobshite and i call them the same .... but deep down its the Waltons....night jimbob
It's the very same in my house rover
Although since I have 4 and Niall has 4 I'd class us more as Brady Bunch material than Waltons
Bloody hell guys .... tell me yoy have bought TVs (telleboxes not transvestites)
We don't watch much telly "
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"I seen a profile from a very hot girl and was instantly turned off when she refared to her kid as baggage. Im sorry but come on. Would you class your kids as baggage. ???"
Not exactly a classy thing to say but many men refer to family as baggage on here too. |
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"I have referred to mine as baggage on another site.I think its not meant as derogartory , just a way of saying "I live on my own". I know I love my kids and would do anything for them even though I call them
No one is perfect "
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There is also a profile on this thread that demands face pic and must have been verified.Yet she has no pics or veris.Point im making is we are all entitled to say what we like as and when. |
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To me, it means that she believes that because she has kids that she's less likely to find a meet/partner so is more just selling herself short than putting her kids down. More a reflection of how she views her dating status...
Now, have also chatted to women who've said that "I wish I never had him/her" which is a much more serious statement..
Have met single moms and what attracts me the most is that they're first and foremost a proud Irish mammy and that family always goes before Fab! |
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"I seen a profile from a very hot girl and was instantly turned off when she refared to her kid as baggage. Im sorry but come on. Would you class your kids as baggage. ???"
I have a child myself so I can see where she's coming from. Just because both men and woman that haven't got children to see them as baggage. Not nice but true so many men and woman wont touch people with children. |
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over a year ago
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From a single mans point of view with no kids,i know what
she says.Baggage is not the kids.,It's the x, the x's parents ,grand parents.so on so on.At least she's honest.That's my speak.
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"I seen a profile from a very hot girl and was instantly turned off when she refared to her kid as baggage. Im sorry but come on. Would you class your kids as baggage. ???
I have a child myself so I can see where she's coming from. Just because both men and woman that haven't got children to see them as baggage. Not nice but true so many men and woman wont touch people with children."
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I've to say this thread has completely blown of proportion a remark on a profile no one else except the op has seen it. We don't have the context nor do we have an idea of the persona.
My best guess is that she wanted to say she can't meet at the drop of a hat because she has a child.
Op why do you judge a person for one expression on a profile of a sex site? |
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By *addubMan
over a year ago
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It's just a way of saying that they have to plan ahead. I have seen ads on dating sites saying only people with no baggage. I have kids that don't live with me but are with me 4-5 days a week love them to bits there not baggage there kids |
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i see the social justice warriors are out in strength full of outrage against those they know nothing of on behalf of those they know nothing of.
There is a little word missing in the ops question. Context! |
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