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How to become a 'Well played verified' member
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am curious on how someone becomes a well played verified member??
Would be very interested in attending events and other social gatherings but these require members to be well played verified.
As a single male just need a little guidance on how others have become well played verified members.
Any help from other members would be greatly appreciated
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"I am in the same predicament anyone no where and how to get to clubs  "
Dublin, Cork or Limerick... There's always at least 2 of them advertising upcoming Club nights here on the Forum at any given time. Ask for an invite. Try to remember who you've met there, and ask them to verify you.
Hotel prices can make travelling to clubs and events prohibitive here though if you want to overnight. It can actually work out much cheaper to fly over and attend UK Clubs, especially the likes of Jaydees who also provide accommodation. |
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"I never went to a club or anything like that I’m verified decent enough.. just patience and being nice and respectful "
There's a difference between being meet verified and party verified though. Discerning party hosts prefer people to already be party verified so they know someone isn't the type to lose the run of themselves or cause drama and spoil a party for everyone (it happens!). It just depends what you want out of swinging.. Some have no interest in the party scene and prefer the intimacy of private meets. The OP specified being play verified and going to events though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the posts.
Have tried getting invite to clubs but need to have 'played' with people.
Have tried to play with people but some want you to have ' played ' aswell in order to meet.
Catch 22 really.
Am very patient and respectful with all people I make contact with.
Frustrating when I see everyone else having so much fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all the posts.
Have tried getting invite to clubs but need to have 'played' with people.
Have tried to play with people but some want you to have ' played ' aswell in order to meet.
Catch 22 really.
Am very patient and respectful with all people I make contact with.
Frustrating when I see everyone else having so much fun"
Crawl, walk and then run.
Settle for a coffee meet first, not just for the sake of a verification but to make a connection. You might need a little luck but if you continue doing the right things good luck should follow.  |
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"Thanks for all the posts.
Have tried getting invite to clubs but need to have 'played' with people.
Have tried to play with people but some want you to have ' played ' aswell in order to meet.
Catch 22 really.
Am very patient and respectful with all people I make contact with.
Frustrating when I see everyone else having so much fun"
Lots of Clubs etc 'say' you must be play verified to attend, but at the end of the day they're a business and have to cover costs. I know lots of guys and gals who got club invites without ever having had a coffee meet, let alone a play meet. Keep asking.. When they need to fill numbers you'll make the list. |
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"Get yourself to a Club. Simples.
Would irish club organisers not look for verified-only too?
Also veris resulting from a club night aren't necessarily play veris. "
They say they do... But when numbers need to be made up to cover costs, rules get bent. Same as any pay-to-attend event. It's pure economics.
Obviously not all club veris are play veris... But clubs by their very nature have a more 'opportunistic' element to them and guys may be invited to play on the night (if someone just needs a bull for example). The OP asked how to get play verified... I offered a solution. |
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