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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense "
Yes would say I've other meets to arrange at the moment and let him/her know when I'm free again.. Some people just expect u to be free cause they are.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not the other persons business if your meeting others, at the end of the day it’s your life. Sometimes in this world it’s about making things easier on yourself, so better off telling them you have plans. If they are of sound mind (which doesn’t apply to many here) they should be fine with it and probably makes the Chase all that more thrilling, not the gameshow I might add  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meets can be like buses.
I had a morning play meet arranged, had had coffee and everything, hotel booked.
Another lady I was a big fan of messaged me to ask if I was free in the afternoon. I went back to say I couldn't as I had a meet in the morning and wouldn't do two in the one day.
And yes, of course the morning one bailed last minute.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Meets can be like buses.
I had a morning play meet arranged, had had coffee and everything, hotel booked.
Another lady I was a big fan of messaged me to ask if I was free in the afternoon. I went back to say I couldn't as I had a meet in the morning and wouldn't do two in the one day.
And yes, of course the morning one bailed last minute.... "
Oh no  that sucks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the assumption would be that anyone i talk too on here is talking to others with a view to potentialy meeting.
And rightly so!
Id inly be concerned with me and the other persons meet"
That's exactly how I would think... I don't think everyone thinks the same though  |
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"I think the assumption would be that anyone i talk too on here is talking to others with a view to potentialy meeting.
And rightly so!
Id inly be concerned with me and the other persons meet
That's exactly how I would think... I don't think everyone thinks the same though "
Great minds think alike and fools seldom differ. Il let you decide which category we fall in
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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Some peeps think that once you start to make plans with them you are obliged to see out that arrangement and heaven forbid you have your hed turned by ANother before then.
Given that this is a swingers site its surprising how possessive folk can get.
my tuppence worth?
Its nobody's business who or when anybody meets anybody else!
You should not have to explain yourself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We live our life by a single word mantra
"Fuck'm"
We don't think we are bad people, we don't purposely go out of our way to hurt people, but if they don't like us or don't like how we do things, that's kinda they're problem. So in a word "Fuck'm" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is allways those that want a meet when they want it not when u can make it
They will want to know who u have who ur going to meet
At the end of the day ur here to please urself not everyone else
Tell them to move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense "
When ye ready  |
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense "
It's none of anyone's business what you do or who you meet . If we are chatting and they ask to meet we just arrange a day and time that suits . Or say that we ain't interested 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense "
It isn't a problem I ever foresaw my having but I think it is probably better not to mention other arranged meets. If the person gives out about your other meets then so be it, there are few situations where people have to be exclusive in this lifestyle.
I hope this makes sense also. |
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense "
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I think employ some social tact and just say...
"Look, I've a few things on already"
or "I've something organised this weekend"
We should be all grown up enough here not to pry into other people's lives too much & realise that each of us is not the centre of another Fabbers life ...and if you are then a serious chat is needed 
Personally though...
A vague reason is reason enough here on Fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense
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I think employ some social tact and just say...
"Look, I've a few things on already"
or "I've something organised this weekend"
We should be all grown up enough here not to pry into other people's lives too much & realise that each of us is not the centre of another Fabbers life ...and if you are then a serious chat is needed
Personally though...
A vague reason is reason enough here on Fab "
Exactly, well said. |
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Well I would be lucky to get one meet at a time but some lucky sod might have more . A friend met 3 ladies one day one in the morning the other in the afternoon and one in the evening ..I would say it was a close call |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't happen so much now with the couple profile but I always was straight up and if my meet diary busy with arranged meets i would have said that I had a waiting list. Always was received well,and taken in humour. Always felt that a wait, not rushing into a meet provided some time to converse to ensure fab compatibility. If someone I chatted to got pushy about meeting, tetchy or impatient it never progressed to a meet. You win some, you lose some  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense "
You could just be subtle in a nice way, and hopefully the other person is a sane rounded individual and gets the drift without taking any offense. Especially when no offense is meant by it as you are doing nothing wrong. My tuppense worth anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting a meet is really hard for a single guy on here as the a**holes on here using fake profiles/being rude ruin it for us who are absolutely genuine and would love a social meet.
I say get out there and meet as many people as you can when you can. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"So question for you all.... I'm presuming that majority of people chat to lots and lots of people here everyday, some just to chat but more often than not its with the few of meeting at some stage, so.... If the conversation arose about meeting would you say I have afew people to meet first or I have things arranged already etc or do you not mention the other meets and then put up with the messages giving out if you receive a verification??
I hope this makes sense
You could just be subtle in a nice way, and hopefully the other person is a sane rounded individual and gets the drift without taking any offense. Especially when no offense is meant by it as you are doing nothing wrong. My tuppense worth anyway. "
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