Ideally id like to meet the person as soon as we both were free, in a social setting. Then you can judge the connection, and decide if you want to take it further.
Theres no time frame per say. If the chat/messages are fun, you can keep that going indefinite.
Iv also maintained messaging with people iv become friends with but dont meet
No hard and fast rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I normally give 2 weeks. If no suggestion of meeting after 2 weeks of chatting then by past experience it never happens. Exceptions are those living quite a distance then I'll be more flexible but even then two weeks is plenty of time to know if they tick your box and suggest meeting. Remember this is suggesting meeting.
If local I'd say 3 weeks max before social meet. If longer then it rarely happens as as life gets in the way and I'm not the only one they're meeting in that time so it has knock on effects.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah but I’m honest and tell everyone who asks that that person just gave me a verification “to get some1 of their back” "
for the honesty try get to a social |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I’ve been trying but I either don’t get an invite or they’re too far away. But I’ll keep on truckin "
Put up a few more pics mate. Take down the one which is basically showing you've a toilet and a shower in the same room. Put up some variety. Being cut is no guarantee so you need to show something more (I don't mean a cock pic btw)
Change the status message as it sounds whiny.
Get on cam in the chatroom or get to a social asap. They are scary at first but open so many doors (and legs). |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
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"It depends "
Really does, with some one genuine there might be valid reasons why they can't meet straight off, with time wasters it's different , suppose the key is recognising one from the other |
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There is no set time for me its often more to do with free time and where I am working. I dont chat at 5pm and meet at 6pm though it usually takes a week or so as you have to work out if someone is mentally unhinged or just a standard frustrated fabber thats fairly safe to meet. |
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"There is no set time for me its often more to do with free time and where I am working. I dont chat at 5pm and meet at 6pm though it usually takes a week or so as you have to work out if someone is mentally unhinged or just a standard frustrated fabber thats fairly safe to meet. "
Do you have any stats you can share with us with the unhinged vs frustrated fibber? |
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