Winks, how do you feel about them? A nice way of showing interest, or a lazy way of initiating contact without actually mailing?
When you see a wink; are you more likely to mail, wink back or ignore?
For the sake of the question, assume whoever sent this hypothetical wink is quite attractive  |
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I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.
If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time |
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"Lazy in my opinion but I find sending a friend request without even speaking more annoying "
Now they get ignored for sure, instantly assumed to be pichunters if there hasnt been any chat beforehand |
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"I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.
If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time"
I'm exactly the same as this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.
If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time"
That's what I've been doing I thought that's what the winks were for |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"I use them to show interest and appreciate a nice profile. Most women say they recieve too much mail. So i rarely send a message.
If they wink back. Then il send a message. Saves wasting anyones time"
Yes I agree with this 
Guess I know better now judging by the comments |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
Winks are OK with us. All they are is a wink. We check profile, if we like what we see, we wink back and msg with it. We wouldn't be that stuck up to think they are lazy or ignore them. Some people prefer to wink, if that's their thing were OK with that. |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
Tipperary |
Take it for what it is , a mild expression of interest no more, would respond out of courtesy if for no other reason but then I wouldn't be getting them in the volume some ladies on here are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a wink makes quite a lot of sense, why write a longwinded message just to be ignored, a wink shows that you our they have shown interest on your profile or there's and I feel chat can flow better from there, saves hassle for both parties involved, in my eyes it sparks conversation
If you get a wink and they are of no interest to you you don't reply and it often doesn't offend well and so good
You get a wink from someone and your like wow I fancy the fuck out of them
Would you not reply either through a wink or a message I know what I would do but what would them general member of fab do
Guessing why would you ignore make less sense to me if you did,but everyone has there reasons for doing so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Winks, how do you feel about them? A nice way of showing interest, or a lazy way of initiating contact without actually mailing?
When you see a wink; are you more likely to mail, wink back or ignore?
For the sake of the question, assume whoever sent this hypothetical wink is quite attractive "
We always thought it's a nice way of showing interest but guess everyone is different |
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Like most others said I don’t look st them.
Also random friend requests, I don’t look at those either, I just leave them sitting there as it means they can’t send another one.
A message goes a long way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn’t realise there was so much indifference to winks here 
I’ve sent messages before and they’ve just been deleted without reply... or else some girls say they get too many... so why waste time when you can send a quick wink to show you’re interested!?  |
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"If I get a wink I check profile if I like I wink back. Up to them if send a message than "
That's what we do sometimes we'll message thanking them for the wink & if it starts a conversation great |
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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago
kilkenny |
"If I get a wink I check profile if I like I wink back. Up to them if send a message than
That's what we do sometimes we'll message thanking them for the wink & if it starts a conversation great "
Exactly this for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we get a wink we take it as they like our profile.. So we Check out their profile in return and if we like what we see we send a mail to the winker... Not wanker.. Winker |
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