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So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously  |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "
Do it with people you know  |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously
Do it with people you know "
Mm she'd have to choose wisely then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd make sure I already knew at least one of them very well and trusted him. "
Defo this. Me and Hal have had lots of mfm’s and having him there meant I was always comfortable. And I felt safe. That’s an important issue for me. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"I'd make sure I already knew at least one of them very well and trusted him.
Defo this. Me and Hal have had lots of mfm’s and having him there meant I was always comfortable. And I felt safe. That’s an important issue for me. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny this conversation has been had and guys are a bit more reserved then i thought...a couple of men that would be seriously considered. "
By reserved do you mean not entirely keen? Lots of men aren't comfortable with being naked around other men or performing in front of them or the risk of their naked bodies touching - not that surprising really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before you go mad Rover, make sure you’ve met one of the men first a couple of times. It will help you relax a bit more and enjoy it more. "
Sorry, that was for your friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pick two men you've already met and arrange a drink/meal for all three beforehand.
Ensure all three are comfortable together to avoid any issues."
definitely agree with this ... & it would probably help if the guys were bi & didnt have a problem being naked or touched by another guy... tell your friend to choose wisely |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "
Rover I think the woman should always be in charge, it will make you feel more at ease. Knowing one of the guys well also makes it easier. Wish your friend good luck.
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously
Rover I think the woman should always be in charge, it will make you feel more at ease. Knowing one of the guys well also makes it easier. Wish your friend good luck.
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My friend says thank you and shes excited to someting new |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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As others said choose one you know well, ideally one that has 3sum experience or even better a tag partner or knows someone he got on with in a party/group occasion. Needless to say that you have the last decision if you want to go ahead with the suggestion or not.
Alternatively choose a second person yourself again ideally with 3sum experience. |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously
Rover I think the woman should always be in charge, it will make you feel more at ease. Knowing one of the guys well also makes it easier. Wish your friend good luck.
My friend says thank you and shes excited to someting new "
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"As others said choose one you know well, ideally one that has 3sum experience or even better a tag partner or knows someone he got on with in a party/group occasion. Needless to say that you have the last decision if you want to go ahead with the suggestion or not.
Alternatively choose a second person yourself again ideally with 3sum experience. "
Thank you DH .... fair idea who'd be number one choice ....its number 2 that is giving me bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the most important part of this team work is that men participating in this must be comfortable, and confident about their body first.. it doesn’t really you can’t emphasize on having a mfm without a certain degree of coming in close contact with the other lad in d room..!
If I was presented with that opportunity I’d take it coz im a fan of the idea any way and plus I’m quiet comfortable being naked..!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try not to fall in love rover
Be attracted to both guys, and remember humour is attractive..if theres two holes involved, use condoms accordingly, and change when necessary, i would suggest your friend purchase the condoms...no alcohol prior to the meet also...and finally, do it in your own time..enjoy |
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"I think the most important part of this team work is that men participating in this must be comfortable, and confident about their body first.. it doesn’t really you can’t emphasize on having a mfm without a certain degree of coming in close contact with the other lad in d room..!
If I was presented with that opportunity I’d take it coz im a fan of the idea any way and plus I’m quiet comfortable being naked..!! "
Well judging that one nipple i know id like to see more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "
Do it with people you know and trust. Maybe that you've met before and got on with. And have a safe word if there's anything you're not liking or don't feel comfortable with. Good communication is key. Two guys that respect your boundaries and respect the scenario so it's enjoyable for all too maybe. Enjoy |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously
Do it with people you know and trust. Maybe that you've met before and got on with. And have a safe word if there's anything you're not liking or don't feel comfortable with. Good communication is key. Two guys that respect your boundaries and respect the scenario so it's enjoyable for all too maybe. Enjoy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id say meet one of the guys you're going to have the threesome with and play a domineering role over him... Then make sure the other guys on board and hey presto |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "
Depends on how controlling you plan on being. If you want male on male as you watch them knowing each other may turn bad. If they haven't experienced it before. The main thig should be you getting what you want so set your rules clearly before any play. Its only fun if you all know were you stand. Give clear orders of what you want. |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "
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Clear-cut chat beforehand where fantasy & intentions are made
"As long as cards are all on the table, let's play strip poker" is best approach  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She should be the Domme, that way it would ease the nerves and she would feel safer.
Also use a strapopn on them as it will probably turn you on. Opps I meant it would probably turn your "friend"on |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously
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Clear-cut chat beforehand where fantasy & intentions are made
"As long as cards are all on the table, let's play strip poker" is best approach "
Strip snap instead maybe |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously
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Clear-cut chat beforehand where fantasy & intentions are made
"As long as cards are all on the table, let's play strip poker" is best approach
Strip snap instead maybe "
Dont you have a quicker game ???  |
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If your friend had a regular playmate that'd be an advantage, she needs to have someone to watch her back. As others have said the two guys need to be comfy around each other. I've found that meeting briefly before playing helps ease the mood. A drink wouldn't do much harm once it's not to excess. Neither of the two guys being afraid to cross swords is definitely desirable. Apparently! |
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By *ubeMan
over a year ago
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "
Tell your friend to pick the two man she wants and feels comfortable with then have a straight chat with them, make it clear what she wants of them, let them know how far she is happy to take things, and if they have never met put them in contact with each other so they can chat and hopefully they can get comfortable with each other before they meet up with her, hope everything goes well. |
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"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously
Tell your friend to pick the two man she wants and feels comfortable with then have a straight chat with them, make it clear what she wants of them, let them know how far she is happy to take things, and if they have never met put them in contact with each other so they can chat and hopefully they can get comfortable with each other before they meet up with her, hope everything goes well. "
Thank you _ube ...good advise |
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