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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my other half are staying in a city centre hotel in a few weeks,
I am looking for a couple to help introduce my missus to the idea of swinging!
If this is ye pm me and lets see what we can come up with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?"
Yeah thats exactly it, but you knew that before you asked the question. So why question it?
Best of luck with your adventure Op  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?
Yeah thats exactly it, but you knew that before you asked the question. So why question it?
Best of luck with your adventure Op "
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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Can't tell you how much I've heard stories of guys trying what you're doing op.
Its usually ended with the wife going apeshit but I haven't heard evey story so maybe its worked out in the guys favour before and I just haven't heard about it
Do let us know how it goes and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea
If it works it works if it don't it don't
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea
If it works it works if it don't it don't
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To be honest I think it would be way better if you brought up this idea with your wife yourself and maybe talk about plans and what you might like to happen and bring all of this in as rollplay for awhile and see how receptive she is to this
But to drop her into a situation that she has no idea about is just not right ,
Chat to her see how it goes and take it from there . Best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?
Yeah thats exactly it, but you knew that before you asked the question. So why question it?
Best of luck with your adventure Op "
Because I can ask a question
That's why  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea
If it works it works if it don't it don't
To be honest I think it would be way better if you brought up this idea with your wife yourself and maybe talk about plans and what you might like to happen and bring all of this in as rollplay for awhile and see how receptive she is to this
But to drop her into a situation that she has no idea about is just not right ,
Chat to her see how it goes and take it from there . Best of luck "
Thanks for the advice!
Maybe the idea of the whole thing has me not thinking straight lol |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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I can't see why anyone would do this... or put it this way....a couple who are into swinging spend an evening with you and your other half, the convo turns to swinging and on the slim chance she says yes, then great.....but the flip side is that she says no....now the swinging couple are stuck in the middle of your domestic....what's the up side for them? Are you and your missus like 11/10's? Cause it seems to me it would be so much easier if the swinging couple just met another swinging couple.....anyway, best of luck with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea
If it works it works if it don't it don't
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I think you have been watching too much porn. Yes we have met people on holiday or at a bar and just got chatting which progressed to going back to their room but we never went out intending to do so..Wouldn't it be better just to talk to your wife openly about swinging..could save alot of crap in the long run. |
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Jesus if Niall had done this to me when he wanted to broach the subject when he first did, I'd have knocked his block off and I'd be single right now.
The OP wants to basically corner his woman and try coax her into swinging with a couple of strangers
That's just not on
Tina  |
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"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.
Maybe not the best way, but a way  "
It's totally not the best way, it's not a good way in any sense. Would u not just try talk to her about it? Instead of throwing it in her face so to speak
Tina |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.
Maybe not the best way, but a way
It's totally not the best way, it's not a good way in any sense. Would u not just try talk to her about it? Instead of throwing it in her face so to speak
Tina "
Well I ain't exactly goin to tell someone to force themselves on her or to push it on her, if the idea was welcomed well and good if not well thats ok too |
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"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.
Maybe not the best way, but a way
It's totally not the best way, it's not a good way in any sense. Would u not just try talk to her about it? Instead of throwing it in her face so to speak
Tina
Well I ain't exactly goin to tell someone to force themselves on her or to push it on her, if the idea was welcomed well and good if not well thats ok too"
No one thinks ur gonna force someone on her physically
But it could be seen as forcing a situation on her that will possibly make her very uncomfortable. I'm just trying to say there's a much better way of approaching the subject than landing her in it as such |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea
If it works it works if it don't it don't
To be honest I think it would be way better if you brought up this idea with your wife yourself and maybe talk about plans and what you might like to happen and bring all of this in as rollplay for awhile and see how receptive she is to this
But to drop her into a situation that she has no idea about is just not right ,
Chat to her see how it goes and take it from there . Best of luck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To put the lady in a public, socialising place - to be potentially embarrassed by approaches from people from this lifestyle - unawares - is a deeply disrespectful way to introduce anyone to the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To put the lady in a public, socialising place - to be potentially embarrassed by approaches from people from this lifestyle - unawares - is a deeply disrespectful way to introduce anyone to the scene."
Well I am hardly gonna to put her in a situation where that would happen! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is more, call it a fantasy if you will, that we meet a couple, have a few drinks and a few laughs, some flirting and the likes. And maybe the couple would mention that they were into the swinging scene. And it goes from there.
If it was well received great, if not everyone goes there seperate ways and that would be it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op in my opinnion u dont need another couple to sit her down and talk to her about getting into swinging.
Yee are a commited proper couple.sit down with her one to one and tell her what ud like to do.she either going to be interested or not.
Bringing another fab couple into it even for just a chat and drink isnt going to work .and you wouldnt be very respectful of ur partner doing it this way.
Best of luck though which ever way you decide to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and 'drinks' etc - would be where? In a bar! - it sure won't be in a hotel bedroom behind closed doors, will it???
"It is more, call it a fantasy if you will, that we meet a couple, have a few drinks and a few laughs, some flirting and the likes. And maybe the couple would mention that they were into the swinging scene. And it goes from there.
If it was well received great, if not everyone goes there seperate ways and that would be it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is he for real .
No need the shitty comment.  "
Hahaha you have presumably been cheating on your wife here and now want to drop her into a potentially embarrassing and distressing situation for your entertainment, but yeah, Chocko is the shitty one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some people are very quick to judge on here, nobody knows what goes on in my life!
Thanks for the constructive comments from most of ye, it definitely helps
I will definitely think about this and see what happens |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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I think this should be a fantasy that you both enjoy at first..and then if she's happy move it along...but i fear for your relationship if you think she is going to appreciate this surprise...and as was said above no swinging cpl would dream of being part of it.....mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly not you judging op
Just thinking of it from ur other half side
If it was me i wouldnt like to be deceived or find out that way even if its only drinks and chat.
Honestly if u care anything for her you will sit down and talk to her one on one.u could be pleasently surpised she might be curious about it.
Best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly not you judging op
Just thinking of it from ur other half side
If it was me i wouldnt like to be deceived or find out that way even if its only drinks and chat.
Honestly if u care anything for her you will sit down and talk to her one on one.u could be pleasently surpised she might be curious about it.
Best of luck"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really think this is a bad idea have you every talked to your wife about the idea of swinging because if you can't talk about the idea of then there is very little change it bit for ye |
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You should talk about it with your Wife she will either say yes or no put yourself in her shoes how would you feel if your wife unexpectedly brought you swinging ask her to go to a meet and Greet chats only first and go from there |
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"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.
Maybe not the best way, but a way "
Talk to her and tell her you are on a swinging site,... And she what she says. Then take it from there. |
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