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How to tell a lady you’re dating about swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Could really do with help here. Dating a woman at the moment and I want to tell her that I’m into this lifestyle. I get the vibes she may be as well as we are always checking out people and passing comments. She is very flirty, such a turn on. Anyone have any advice?

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By *he rover returnedWoman over a year ago

xxx

Maybe just be straight with her.... tell her you've interest in this lifestyle gauge her reaction

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By *lurrynfeeCouple over a year ago

donegal

Be straight with her and tell her ur into it all im sure she'll be honest back if she is too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honest communication, why would you want a relationship without?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all, really appreciate it. She knows I like when she wears tights and my nylon fetish but that’s it. I’m sure if she’s not comfortable with it she’ll tell me and that will be that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best to be straight up with her on the subject, hope it goes well and we'll look forward to the couples profile

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Can't see the problem if your only dating....better to talk about it now rather then wait untill later in case it turns into a serious relationship...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talking from past experience,unless you are 100% sure,I wouldn't tell you are a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I would just be like "Did I ever tell you the time my old boss used to be a swinger and we all found out in work?" Blah blah, then hit her with the "would you ever have interest in swinging?" Easy peasy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes a lot to think about in fairness. I am slightly

Nervous telling her or brining it up

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Send her a few warning notices about your rights

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Maybe get a contract wrote up

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

If I was dating a lady I would not be bodared to be on here ..I would give her my all .

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