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Are M&Gs, Clubs, a Waste of Money, or Value for Money?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is coming on the back of posts i have seen here, by women and men stating they dont always hook up for sex at these events. Why would some people spend a couple of hundred for the pleasure of not having sex? Is this what differentiates swingers from the non swinger population here...id be interested in peoples thoughts on the matter.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For those who prefer more intimate private play it's a great way of meeting potential playmates...
The last M&G we attended cost €20, a bargain!!! We even got a very sexy goodie bag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would some people spend a couple of hundred for the pleasure of not having sex"
Because spending a couple of hundred for guarenteed sex is getting an escort  |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We found the ones we have attended to be a great way of meeting quite a few people. If you click then the social has been done so it’s just a matter of organising a play meet.
We have made some lovely friends out of them also.
It’s a great way to socialise also with like minded people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would some people spend a couple of hundred for the pleasure of not having sex
Because spending a couple of hundred for guarenteed sex is getting an escort "
But surely if your planning to attend one of these events, your going to do your homework i imagine, such as kik groups, flirting on forum,PMs etc, in the build up, are you not already on a promise as such prior to arriving, and is it not a big dissapointment if this doesnt materialise  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For those who prefer more intimate private play it's a great way of meeting potential playmates...
The last M&G we attended cost €20, a bargain!!! We even got a very sexy goodie bag."
You can have a meet and greet at mine free of charge anytime  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would some people spend a couple of hundred for the pleasure of not having sex
Because spending a couple of hundred for guarenteed sex is getting an escort
But surely if your planning to attend one of these events, your going to do your homework i imagine, such as kik groups, flirting on forum,PMs etc, in the build up, are you not already on a promise as such prior to arriving, and is it not a big dissapointment if this doesnt materialise "
Chatting, flirting to someone online whether here or kik is not a promise for anything.whether it be a one to one social drink meet or attend a m&g.people will chat there in person and then make a decision whether they want to bring things futher along. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
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I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would some people spend a couple of hundred for the pleasure of not having sex
Because spending a couple of hundred for guarenteed sex is getting an escort
But surely if your planning to attend one of these events, your going to do your homework i imagine, such as kik groups, flirting on forum,PMs etc, in the build up, are you not already on a promise as such prior to arriving, and is it not a big dissapointment if this doesnt materialise "
I take your point alright, but sure you could arrange a private meet and not click in person. I imagine the level of dissapointment links directly to your expectation. Go with tge attitude of a fun social night with like minded people and anything else is a bonus. Go expecting to play and tgats the only thing that will make it a good night |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why would some people spend a couple of hundred for the pleasure of not having sex
Because spending a couple of hundred for guarenteed sex is getting an escort
But surely if your planning to attend one of these events, your going to do your homework i imagine, such as kik groups, flirting on forum,PMs etc, in the build up, are you not already on a promise as such prior to arriving, and is it not a big dissapointment if this doesnt materialise
Chatting, flirting to someone online whether here or kik is not a promise for anything.whether it be a one to one social drink meet or attend a m&g.people will chat there in person and then make a decision whether they want to bring things futher along."
And there was i, thinking, we seemed to be getting on alright here on the forum, i have the verification already written in my head. Thank you for that miss fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would some people spend a couple of hundred for the pleasure of not having sex
Because spending a couple of hundred for guarenteed sex is getting an escort
But surely if your planning to attend one of these events, your going to do your homework i imagine, such as kik groups, flirting on forum,PMs etc, in the build up, are you not already on a promise as such prior to arriving, and is it not a big dissapointment if this doesnt materialise
Chatting, flirting to someone online whether here or kik is not a promise for anything.whether it be a one to one social drink meet or attend a m&g.people will chat there in person and then make a decision whether they want to bring things futher along.
And there was i, thinking, we seemed to be getting on alright here on the forum, i have the verification already written in my head. Thank you for that miss fab "
I get on with everyone one lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously lost for words on some people's attitudes towards swinging.
Just because most of us have liberal attitudes towards sex, does not mean just beacuse you have turned up and payed your entrance you are guaranteed the ride |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seriously lost for words on some people's attitudes towards swinging.
Just because most of us have liberal attitudes towards sex, does not mean just beacuse you have turned up and payed your entrance you are guaranteed the ride "
Its a bit tongue n cheek, loosen up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean "
The hubbies know what you mean? Am I being overly sensitive or is that an incredibly sexist comment you made?
I've been to 4 m&g, on one occasion I was very much hoping to get to know one particular person a lot better (and I did  ). For the other 3, it was a chance to put faces to names, to meet old friends and make new ones. A social for me is just that, I don't usually intend to play. Some people are just impossible to resist |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean
The hubbies know what you mean? Am I being overly sensitive or is that an incredibly sexist comment you made?
I've been to 4 m&g, on one occasion I was very much hoping to get to know one particular person a lot better (and I did ). For the other 3, it was a chance to put faces to names, to meet old friends and make new ones. A social for me is just that, I don't usually intend to play. Some people are just impossible to resist "
Me sexist, oh god no..its just us single guys tend to forget the high maintenance costs of some ladies, when weve not been in relationships for a while, im not suggesting they dont cover these costs themselves, or they dont look the better for it am i ok on that one sally, pheww, that was close |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been to my first at the weekend, great experience and I'd like to think I made some new friends that wouldn't have been possibly made through just kik groups and messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean
The hubbies know what you mean? Am I being overly sensitive or is that an incredibly sexist comment you made?
I've been to 4 m&g, on one occasion I was very much hoping to get to know one particular person a lot better (and I did ). For the other 3, it was a chance to put faces to names, to meet old friends and make new ones. A social for me is just that, I don't usually intend to play. Some people are just impossible to resist "
Ya I was a bit emm "hubbies" so the married women don't pay for their own things no ?
I have been to 5 socials and not hooked up or even kissed anyone at them but I have made some great friends and hope one or two of those may lead to fun.
Think going to a social or MnG with attitude oh have to get my moneys worth is the wrong attitude to go to a social or MnG with. For me I don't flirt in Kik groups as find it awkward to flirt with someone I've never met. So for me the social takes that initial first meet out of the way and hopefully will lead to something at another time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean
The hubbies know what you mean? Am I being overly sensitive or is that an incredibly sexist comment you made?
I've been to 4 m&g, on one occasion I was very much hoping to get to know one particular person a lot better (and I did ). For the other 3, it was a chance to put faces to names, to meet old friends and make new ones. A social for me is just that, I don't usually intend to play. Some people are just impossible to resist
Ya I was a bit emm "hubbies" so the married women don't pay for their own things no ?
I have been to 5 socials and not hooked up or even kissed anyone at them but I have made some great friends and hope one or two of those may lead to fun.
Think going to a social or MnG with attitude oh have to get my moneys worth is the wrong attitude to go to a social or MnG with. For me I don't flirt in Kik groups as find it awkward to flirt with someone I've never met. So for me the social takes that initial first meet out of the way and hopefully will lead to something at another time. "
But, you may as well be describing going to a wedding, and god knows for some reason weve enough of them to be going to.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean
The hubbies know what you mean? Am I being overly sensitive or is that an incredibly sexist comment you made?
I've been to 4 m&g, on one occasion I was very much hoping to get to know one particular person a lot better (and I did ). For the other 3, it was a chance to put faces to names, to meet old friends and make new ones. A social for me is just that, I don't usually intend to play. Some people are just impossible to resist
Me sexist, oh god no..its just us single guys tend to forget the high maintenance costs of some ladies, when weve not been in relationships for a while, im not suggesting they dont cover these costs themselves, or they dont look the better for it am i ok on that one sally, pheww, that was close "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a m&g at my place last tuesday for fabbers in the south east tea coffee and a chat putting faces to names and for people to see if they wanted to meet again for fun as it happened 2 returned to my place last night to play so it did what it said on the tin lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean
The hubbies know what you mean? Am I being overly sensitive or is that an incredibly sexist comment you made?
I've been to 4 m&g, on one occasion I was very much hoping to get to know one particular person a lot better (and I did ). For the other 3, it was a chance to put faces to names, to meet old friends and make new ones. A social for me is just that, I don't usually intend to play. Some people are just impossible to resist
Ya I was a bit emm "hubbies" so the married women don't pay for their own things no ?
I have been to 5 socials and not hooked up or even kissed anyone at them but I have made some great friends and hope one or two of those may lead to fun.
Think going to a social or MnG with attitude oh have to get my moneys worth is the wrong attitude to go to a social or MnG with. For me I don't flirt in Kik groups as find it awkward to flirt with someone I've never met. So for me the social takes that initial first meet out of the way and hopefully will lead to something at another time.
But, you may as well be describing going to a wedding, and god knows for some reason weve enough of them to be going to.."
Well excuse me but I'm not going along for the ride so to say but hey each to their own. Not all of us have such a hectic social life. If yours is that good you obviously don't need Fab. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Had a m&g at my place last tuesday for fabbers in the south east tea coffee and a chat putting faces to names and for people to see if they wanted to meet again for fun as it happened 2 returned to my place last night to play so it did what it said on the tin lol"
savage James, thats what its all about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like many things you get back as much as the effort you're willing to make so it's not just about the amount you've spent to get there.
Personally I've never spent a couple of hundred euro on any event but I'm sure it's possible to spend that kind of money per person if you wanted too. I've never been to clubs abroad for example.
I take your point _ilder, you get back what you put in, i was just surprised that some are not getting it in. I would imagine for the ladies a couple of hundred would be easily spent, hair, make up, clothes, lingerie. The hubbies know what i mean
The hubbies know what you mean? Am I being overly sensitive or is that an incredibly sexist comment you made?
I've been to 4 m&g, on one occasion I was very much hoping to get to know one particular person a lot better (and I did ). For the other 3, it was a chance to put faces to names, to meet old friends and make new ones. A social for me is just that, I don't usually intend to play. Some people are just impossible to resist
Ya I was a bit emm "hubbies" so the married women don't pay for their own things no ?
I have been to 5 socials and not hooked up or even kissed anyone at them but I have made some great friends and hope one or two of those may lead to fun.
Think going to a social or MnG with attitude oh have to get my moneys worth is the wrong attitude to go to a social or MnG with. For me I don't flirt in Kik groups as find it awkward to flirt with someone I've never met. So for me the social takes that initial first meet out of the way and hopefully will lead to something at another time.
But, you may as well be describing going to a wedding, and god knows for some reason weve enough of them to be going to..
Well excuse me but I'm not going along for the ride so to say but hey each to their own. Not all of us have such a hectic social life. If yours is that good you obviously don't need Fab."
Ahh, sure i cant even get the ride on the sex part of the site, social life is a mess, im just asking questions and looking for acceptance, never mind the ride |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It was well worth driving the whole way to mayo a while back to a m&g to get a peck on the cheek for the sexy miss sally o brien "
A peck on the cheek, now that i would be dissapointed with.. What was that commitments song, ride sally ride |
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By *ajobMan
over a year ago
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OP this is a community of sorts after all...its great for folk to go and enjoy new experiances in or outa the bedroom and that includes meeting up with like minded and different folk from all over the land at a big M&G somewhere...its great fun and ood to meet ppl in person...but yes you should try and get yourself meet verified if you wanna be taken seriously from ppl on here tbh |
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