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over a year ago
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First of all Good morning! ...now my thought for the day!....Has being on fab made you more age conscious?.. Now in my day to day life I don't think about it,I feel no different now to how I did say 10,15 years ago and when I see an attractive lady I don't think of their age (within reasonable boundaries)and I would imagine in a normal social situation most people don't!...Imagine you getting chatting to someone when you're out, thinking they're very nice and you fancy them,and suddenly they say "I'm 50"!  ..now I doubt you would suddenly think "oh I don't want to meet anyone older than 48", make your excuses and run!...yet that is what some do on Fab ,I understand people having age guidelines, but are we all being very narrow minded in perceiving people by a number? |
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Age is an unfortunate filter at times, its really frustrating when you try to say hi and you too old but as theres so many of us chasing so few you got to thin the herd somehow and i dont know what my BMI is if they were to use that or some other indicator.
Think you have to accept it (or fib lol) |
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"First of all Good morning!...now my thought for the day!....Has being on fab made you more age conscious?.. Now in my day to day life I don't think about it,I feel no different now to how I did say 10,15 years ago and when I see an attractive lady I don't think of their age (within reasonable boundaries)and I would imagine in a normal social situation most people don't!...Imagine you getting chatting to someone when you're out, thinking they're very nice and you fancy them,and suddenly they say "I'm 50"! ..now I doubt you would suddenly think "oh I don't want to meet anyone older than 48", make your excuses and run!...yet that is what some do on Fab ,I understand people having age guidelines, but are we all being very narrow minded in perceiving people by a number?"
We cant criticise folk for having upper limits when we have lower limits lol but that’s simply cos it would be creepy meeting people the age of our children
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I have being to a good few m&gs and partys where ladys have asked me why i have never texted them when i tell them i am over their45 age filter its never a problem |
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"Age is an unfortunate filter at times, its really frustrating when you try to say hi and you too old but as theres so many of us chasing so few you got to thin the herd somehow and i dont know what my BMI is if they were to use that or some other indicator.
Think you have to accept it (or fib lol) "
...BMI! ...think i'm better off using my age!..I don't need to be filtered to oblivion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Age has never been a problem for us and most of the time I seem to go for older men but.... If its getting close to my parents age its just a no  And I have not been in a pub and found any of their friends hot so don't think it will be an issue  |
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"First of all Good morning!...now my thought for the day!....Has being on fab made you more age conscious?.. Now in my day to day life I don't think about it,I feel no different now to how I did say 10,15 years ago and when I see an attractive lady I don't think of their age (within reasonable boundaries)and I would imagine in a normal social situation most people don't!...Imagine you getting chatting to someone when you're out, thinking they're very nice and you fancy them,and suddenly they say "I'm 50"! ..now I doubt you would suddenly think "oh I don't want to meet anyone older than 48", make your excuses and run!...yet that is what some do on Fab ,I understand people having age guidelines, but are we all being very narrow minded in perceiving people by a number?"
No, but it has made me more self body conscious. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing tbh |
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