I need some advice from you lovely people, I'm working for a woman at the moment and she is very flirty and touchy kinda person, she has hinted before to me that "she would" now I don't know what to do to be honest, she hasn't made a move on me or anything like that but there is definitely chemistry there, what should I do, advice please? |
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over a year ago
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I guess it depends on the working dynamics.
Is it just the two of ye. If she thinks its just a bit of flirty fun and doesnt want any more it could become quite akward after.
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over a year ago
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"I do casual work for her, I'm doing some painting for her at the moment, so she's in and out of the house "
No harm in chancing it in a respectful way. So long your not dependent on the work. If its casual she might decide not to ask you back  |
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I was thinking that myself, it's hard to know how to approach it though, even though she's flirty I'm not sure how to go about it, I don't want a slap in the face and her bad mouthing me to everyone |
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"I was thinking that myself, it's hard to know how to approach it though, even though she's flirty I'm not sure how to go about it, I don't want a slap in the face and her bad mouthing me to everyone "
You've answered your own question.
Our advice, "Never shit where you eat" |
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"I was thinking that myself, it's hard to know how to approach it though, even though she's flirty I'm not sure how to go about it, I don't want a slap in the face and her bad mouthing me to everyone
You've answered your own question.
Our advice, "Never shit where you eat""
I don't live anywhere near her and it's a one off job |
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"I'd steer clear...things go bad between ye it'll sour the work relationship too...dog never s**ts on his own door step and all that"
good advice I suppose, no point in risking it as it more than likely would be a mistake
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"I was thinking that myself, it's hard to know how to approach it though, even though she's flirty I'm not sure how to go about it, I don't want a slap in the face and her bad mouthing me to everyone
You've answered your own question.
Our advice, "Never shit where you eat" I don't live anywhere near her and it's a one off job "
We were under the impression when you said "I do casual work for her, at the moment I am doing some painting" that it was not a one off or your first time doing work for her.
Our bad,if we misinterpreted you
And the Never shit where you eat comment was not meant literally, you also mentioned that you wouldn't want her to take your advances the wrong way and start bad mouthing you all over town.
To us the answer is quite simple. |
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over a year ago
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"Yes but it's hard not to be tempted, she's hot and very flirty and always touching my arm and stands really close to me "
Nope still wouldn't go there.
If things turn sour,which they usually do,you'll be out of a job. |
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"I was thinking that myself, it's hard to know how to approach it though, even though she's flirty I'm not sure how to go about it, I don't want a slap in the face and her bad mouthing me to everyone
You've answered your own question.
Our advice, "Never shit where you eat" I don't live anywhere near her and it's a one off job
We were under the impression when you said "I do casual work for her, at the moment I am doing some painting" that it was not a one off or your first time doing work for her.
Our bad,if we misinterpreted you
And the Never shit where you eat comment was not meant literally, you also mentioned that you wouldn't want her to take your advances the wrong way and start bad mouthing you all over town.
To us the answer is quite simple. "
yes and I know myself the answer lol but just seeing did fab agree with me |
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"A one off? What's the worse that can happen. We all live in fear at times. she's single and I'm not lol"
You get nowhere and learn nothing in life without asking the question. Do it respectfully and good or bad it’ll be fine....but ask.....otherwise you’ll never know.  |
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"So tell me this, if it was you in this situation what would you ask her how would you phrase it "
if you think you're getting the "come on signal", there is no full well way of knowing without chancing it. Fear leaves a lot of what ifs in life.
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"So tell me this, if it was you in this situation what would you ask her how would you phrase it "
“Would it be impolite of me to ask if you’d like to go for a drink sometime?” ....along those lines.
Polite....yet to the point and warrants a reply. Either way you’ll know. |
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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago
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A little bit of flirting back at her when she flirts with you should gauge what her intentions are, however don't rush into anything I case it goes tits up and you don't get paid for all your hard work |
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"A little bit of flirting back at her when she flirts with you should gauge what her intentions are, however don't rush into anything I case it goes tits up and you don't get paid for all your hard work "
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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She could be leading you on and then drop you as soon as you show interest. Have had plenty of it done on me over the years.
Could also be getting the painting done and then waiting on you to make a move and then tell you to fuk off and not pay you for the work..
Finish the job, get paid, put the money in your pocket and say hi do you fancy going for a date?
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"She could be leading you on and then drop you as soon as you show interest. Have had plenty of it done on me over the years.
Could also be getting the painting done and then waiting on you to make a move and then tell you to fuk off and not pay you for the work..
Finish the job, get paid, put the money in your pocket and say hi do you fancy going for a date?
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This is exactly what I was going to say! |
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"She could be leading you on and then drop you as soon as you show interest. Have had plenty of it done on me over the years.
Could also be getting the painting done and then waiting on you to make a move and then tell you to fuk off and not pay you for the work..
Exactly this. Tread cautiously and when you get paid be very polite and ask if she would like to meet for a coffee or a drink sometime. If she’s interested she’ll agree. If not, you’ve done nothing wrong and you have been paid. Be respectful and at least you’ll have a clear conscience.
Best of luck
Finish the job, get paid, put the money in your pocket and say hi do you fancy going for a date?
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"Lol I'm laughing here. Didn't op say she was married and some are suggesting going on a date? I reckon if anything both just want a bit of fun. Get the money most deffo then do what you want!"
She’s single he’s not  |
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"Lol I'm laughing here. Didn't op say she was married and some are suggesting going on a date? I reckon if anything both just want a bit of fun. Get the money most deffo then do what you want!
She’s single he’s not "
even better |
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"Lol I'm laughing here. Didn't op say she was married and some are suggesting going on a date? I reckon if anything both just want a bit of fun. Get the money most deffo then do what you want!
She’s single he’s not even better "
I reckon looking for a discount or a free paint job |
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"Lol I'm laughing here. Didn't op say she was married and some are suggesting going on a date? I reckon if anything both just want a bit of fun. Get the money most deffo then do what you want!
She’s single he’s not even better
I reckon looking for a discount or a free paint job "
looking at that pic I wouldnt say no to doing some "general maintenance" work for you |
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"Lol I'm laughing here. Didn't op say she was married and some are suggesting going on a date? I reckon if anything both just want a bit of fun. Get the money most deffo then do what you want!
She’s single he’s not even better
I reckon looking for a discount or a free paint job looking at that pic I wouldnt say no to doing some "general maintenance" work for you "
Ah now I’d work you hard |
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"Lol I'm laughing here. Didn't op say she was married and some are suggesting going on a date? I reckon if anything both just want a bit of fun. Get the money most deffo then do what you want!
She’s single he’s not even better
I reckon looking for a discount or a free paint job looking at that pic I wouldnt say no to doing some "general maintenance" work for you
Ah now I’d work you hard "
biscuit and tea as payment |
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Get paid first and then flirt back abit ask her to hold the ladder splat of paint on her top , oh let me wipe that off for you or leave the job give her a ring half hr later asking is she home that u forgot Some gear there .. you’ll soon get your answer when u arrive back ie. her demeanour knowing it’s last chance... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need some advice from you lovely people, I'm working for a woman at the moment and she is very flirty and touchy kinda person, she has hinted before to me that "she would" now I don't know what to do to be honest, she hasn't made a move on me or anything like that but there is definitely chemistry there, what should I do, advice please? "
If it goes shit shaped can you afford to walk out on your job? |
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One thing you can do is flirt back if she backs off. If so do you and leave it there. If she ok with and keeps at then you have a decision to make. Until then its nothing but being nice. Sometimes my ex flirts with me but id never make that move unless she did first. It may be just teasing so id use the same approach to that woman if I was you. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"I was thinking that myself, it's hard to know how to approach it though, even though she's flirty I'm not sure how to go about it, I don't want a slap in the face and her bad mouthing me to everyone
You've answered your own question.
Our advice, "Never shit where you eat""
exactly! |
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"Job done and paid for, met her for a coffee after that, plenty of flirting and banter but that was it, still none the wiser what to do "
Told you what to do woody erase her from your naughty mind my friend Or you know where you will end up lol  |
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"Job done and paid for, met her for a coffee after that, plenty of flirting and banter but that was it, still none the wiser what to do "
You got your answer. This fantasy will tease you for years. Walk on, find another house to paint. But, you did the right thing in not pushing it.
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"Go home and have a wank, then meet her and see if u still think she’s flirting with you....
The horny mind it’s always the most reliable  "
It’s NOT the most reliable* (obviously this was what I was supposed to say!) |
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Update : I had to meet up last week to get the remaining payment off her so I suggested meeting half way for a coffee, she met me we had coffee and a chat then she gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek when leaving, she wants me to do more work for her |
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"Update : I had to meet up last week to get the remaining payment off her so I suggested meeting half way for a coffee, she met me we had coffee and a chat then she gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek when leaving, she wants me to do more work for her "
She's enjoying flirting with you,you'd have got more than a peck if she was seriously up for it. |
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"Update : I had to meet up last week to get the remaining payment off her so I suggested meeting half way for a coffee, she met me we had coffee and a chat then she gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek when leaving, she wants me to do more work for her "
She has you exactly where she wants you!! She is probably following this thread anyway!! |
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"Update : I had to meet up last week to get the remaining payment off her so I suggested meeting half way for a coffee, she met me we had coffee and a chat then she gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek when leaving, she wants me to do more work for her
She has you exactly where she wants you!! She is probably following this thread anyway!!"
quite possibly she is lol it would be great if she was on here |
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"Update : I had to meet up last week to get the remaining payment off her so I suggested meeting half way for a coffee, she met me we had coffee and a chat then she gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek when leaving, she wants me to do more work for her
She's enjoying flirting with you,you'd have got more than a peck if she was seriously up for it."
perhaps, but I'm married and she's single so maybe she's holding back because of that?? |
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over a year ago
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Whats with the eyes Woody?
Wanna tell us more?
I wish there was more to tell but there isn't, although she has been in contact with me a few times with flirty texts full of sexual innuendos "
Stop telling everyone our secrets woody  |
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We have been exchanging texts regularly and we met before Xmas for a coffee, some of the texts were pretty flirty but she hasn't said anything directly to me about fun it's all been sexual innuendo and flirting, I honestly don't know what to do about it |
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"We have been exchanging texts regularly and we met before Xmas for a coffee, some of the texts were pretty flirty but she hasn't said anything directly to me about fun it's all been sexual innuendo and flirting, I honestly don't know what to do about it "
Are you wanting to date her or just fuck her? |
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"She’s flirting your flirting feck it go for it I don't want to just come straight out with it though incase she's only teasing and not really interested "
Yous met for coffee yeah and have been texting
I’d say she is u won’t know till u try lol |
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"She’s flirting your flirting feck it go for it I don't want to just come straight out with it though incase she's only teasing and not really interested
Yous met for coffee yeah and have been texting
I’d say she is u won’t know till u try lol "
Pm me your suggestions as to what I should say |
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"I was thinking that myself, it's hard to know how to approach it though, even though she's flirty I'm not sure how to go about it, I don't want a slap in the face and her bad mouthing me to everyone "
best pass on it...not worth the drama. |
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"She’s flirting your flirting feck it go for it I don't want to just come straight out with it though incase she's only teasing and not really interested
Yous met for coffee yeah and have been texting
I’d say she is u won’t know till u try lol Pm me your
suggestions as to what I should
say "
It's either sink or swim. Woody
Just make sure you have a life jacket.
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"I do casual work for her, I'm doing some painting for her at the moment, so she's in and out of the house "
Ask her to hold the ladder.
As you're stretching make sure it falls out of the dungarees,
She'll either go for it or run ,
Either way you'll be fucked  |
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"I do casual work for her, I'm doing some painting for her at the moment, so she's in and out of the house
Ask her to hold the ladder.
As you're stretching make sure it falls out of the dungarees,
She'll either go for it or run ,
Either way you'll be fucked "
lol that's true |
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