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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
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...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names?   |
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"I'm the same I usually remember people by what they got up to...like 'yer one who fell down the stairs' or yer man who did the pole dance' I'd be known as 'yer one with no filter'  "
ha ha brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names? "
Probably for most ppl it is bad.
If you would introduce yourself to me,it is risk that i will ask 5 minutes later.
Pardon what is your name again?
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names?
Nope. I'm the same "
Phew! I'm not the only one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names?
Nope. I'm the same
Phew! I'm not the only one.
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I remember a face, a smile or even a laugh or a pair of tits...But often not the name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that's pretty sad,not to remember someones name you have been intimate with.I would always know a name even before a meet. We all love sex here but common decency should still prevail xx. |
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"I think that's pretty sad,not to remember someones name you have been intimate with.I would always know a name even before a meet. We all love sex here but common decency should still prevail xx."
I wouldn't say it's a lack of common decency, certainly it's just I can't remember and the more I try the more I forget...nothing to do with where my penis has or to be more accurate hasn't been |
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I use to be terrible with names, but something I do now when I'm introduced to someone, I think of someone I know with the same name. It's in the moments after the introduction the name is gone, never to be remembered. So if you associate the person with a familiar face there is more of a chance you will remember it. Sounds ridiculous but 100% works for me.  |
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"I think that's pretty sad,not to remember someones name you have been intimate with.I would always know a name even before a meet. We all love sex here but common decency should still prevail xx."
Thanks for the moral judgment there... ill sleep easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry if I've offended you,was not my intention. We are all different people and personalities. Even outside of Fab I just think it's a nice compliment to remember someones name,that's all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry if I've offended you,was not my intention. We are all different people and personalities. Even outside of Fab I just think it's a nice compliment to remember someones name,that's all. "
Yee you are totally right,
But some people, seriously can't remember, my self included.
Believe me you have to see that smile on my face when I actually do remember some one name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah funny thing about names.
Sometimes the names people give you aren't the real ones.
So best just to stick with some alias name."
Has happened me a few times too  |
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Awful memory for names. Ill sometimes try and blag it next time we speak but it’s embarrassing to even try especially after you seen someone lose control in a sweaty heap of orgasms to admit you haven’t a clue who they are lol...
if i call you “hornydrawers” or something hopefully you will understand  |
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry if I've offended you,was not my intention. We are all different people and personalities. Even outside of Fab I just think it's a nice compliment to remember someones name,that's all. "
No offense taken and I think you made a fair point it's normally the first initial effort we make when meeting someone namely to associate name and person.
However this is fab, and not knowing a person's proper first name has very little to do with indecency. Here on fab their proper identity isn't really important to me and I normally stick with their fab name or give them a nice nick name. I just meet the person as such, naked and without the worldly frills and surely they get my full attention. |
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It's funny though. Women often say they don't want to be "A notch on somebodys bed post" yet people cant be bothered to remember someones name. In reality lads everybody is used here for sex. If somebody didn't remember my name I wouldn't bat an eyelid |
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When we met, of course we know their names.. wouldnt spend a night calling someone 'Cumslut' or 'BigDick2018' 
Do i remember the names of everyone we have met? Considering some were one night upto 4 and 5 years ago, i think we can be allowed forget..
Theres folk i worked with years ago that i forget their names now  |
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's funny though. Women often say they don't want to be "A notch on somebodys bed post" yet people cant be bothered to remember someones name. In reality lads everybody is used here for sex. If somebody didn't remember my name I wouldn't bat an eyelid "
Ideally it should be a balanced experience - and my meets normally are - so that nobody feels used or treated like a bed post notch ride.
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After the first meet, we and my wife always play on first meet if attracted.
After first meet Lynn, if she has had a geat time will exchange numbers with them to allow her to arrange follow up meets.
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"It's funny though. Women often say they don't want to be "A notch on somebodys bed post" yet people cant be bothered to remember someones name. In reality lads everybody is used here for sex. If somebody didn't remember my name I wouldn't bat an eyelid when the term used for sex crops up, it's generally ment as that, just plain sex, not that you're using somebody else for your own pleasure. Always should be a two way street
Ideally it should be a balanced experience - and my meets normally are - so that nobody feels used or treated like a bed post notch ride.
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"It's funny though. Women often say they don't want to be "A notch on somebodys bed post" yet people cant be bothered to remember someones name. In reality lads everybody is used here for sex. If somebody didn't remember my name I wouldn't bat an eyelid "
Being a notch on somebody repost.
This applies to us as Lynn playing alone and not feeling used.
However one off meets that just that. A one off this could be looked by some as used. This is usually both using each other for a common goal. Good sex |
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"...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names? "
I hope you never get called to a police line up ....eh guard can you get them to drop their trousers and I will tell you |
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"I wipe my cock on their curtains and it eliminates the need for first names
Credit card details will do to pay the dry cleaner.  "
There'd be nothing dry about the cleaning that'd be needed after that! |
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We don't give out our real names , only our fab names! Someone happened to find Rebecca on fb before and threatened to post all sorts on her page if she didn't do as he said so as you can imagine, it was very upsetting and as a result we are a little bit more cautious with information we give out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names? "
The two ladies I've met I knew their first names only remember one now as we still meet but can understand someone not remembering names. That's why I put mine on my page just in case ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names? "
im terrible with names ... i can remember faces & where I know people from but it would take a few meets for me to remember the name ... although i do normally remember the profile name... go figure |
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"I think that's pretty sad,not to remember someones name you have been intimate with.I would always know a name even before a meet. We all love sex here but common decency should still prevail xx."
Ha sure if you are on a night out and have a one nighter there’s no hope of remembering their names. As for here I go by fab or kik names it’s easier |
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"I think that's pretty sad,not to remember someones name you have been intimate with.I would always know a name even before a meet. We all love sex here but common decency should still prevail xx.
Ha sure if you are on a night out and have a one nighter there’s no hope of remembering their names. As for here I go by fab or kik names it’s easier "
if you know them you will |
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"I think that's pretty sad,not to remember someones name you have been intimate with.I would always know a name even before a meet. We all love sex here but common decency should still prevail xx.
Ha sure if you are on a night out and have a one nighter there’s no hope of remembering their names. As for here I go by fab or kik names it’s easier if you know them you will "
I’m good at remembering them not their real name |
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By *lowersMan
over a year ago
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Last year I was in a city centre shop waiting as my wife was buying some things. A girl came up to talk to me and I remembered I’d slept with her back in my single days. While we were talking my wife came over and the obvious and polite thing to do was to introduce them to each other but I couldn’t remember the girl’s name so I didn’t. And I felt bloody awful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No.. And it doesn't really bother me tbh, I've met lots that still call me by my fab name and I have no need to correct them. There is also someone I meet quite regularly and we have both decided we don't want to know each others names. I've no problem with people we have met knowing our names but it's certainly not a neccesity, I'm sure I've been called worse |
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By *acy69Woman
over a year ago
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"...normally know the proper first names of your meets? I'm terrible with names, I'm great with faces and I recocknise owners just by their cocks but when it comes to names I'm hopeless. So is it bad when I can't recall their names? "
Once u get their name put it into ur notes section u will soon remember |
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