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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was looking around perving as you do ... reading profiles for a change... then I thought about mailing the person because of their amazingly good pictures but after reading i changed my mind and felt quite intimidated by it!
Seems like spectations are so so high, when i read dont like this dont like that , fuzzy , fit guys only , average move on , good looking, if you look like a celebrity...
It seems to me that is such an inflated expectation in some people as they might be the complete opposite of their demands if you know what i mean!
Anyways... rant over didnt mail the girl as profile was off putting |
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By *m389Man
over a year ago
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"You should have what's the worse that could happen lol  "
I know what you mean, being rejected really isn’t the end of the world.
But in aggregate they can really dampen your spirit.
It’s a bit like job hunting, the more rejections you get the more you question your self worth. Why add to the damage and go for something you have no chance at? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a list and the subject I always like to see on a message because I know the have read my profile. I have some rules because on this females get haunted me messages and it's really over whelming and makes it hard to talk to those who are genuine as there messages just get lost. A1 |
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"Can you imagine if the men/women ratio was flipped on fab? Us men would be unbareable with our demands  "
Must be 5ft 8.5 inches exactly
Must have tits like Katie price
Must have an ass like Kim Kardashian
Must look exactly like Jennifer lawrance
Must have numerous pics of their fufu from all angles
Must match all criteria or jog on
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Can you imagine if the men/women ratio was flipped on fab? Us men would be unbareable with our demands
Must be 5ft 8.5 inches exactly
Must have tits like Katie price
Must have an ass like Kim Kardashian
Must look exactly like Jennifer lawrance
Must have numerous pics of their fufu from all angles
Must match all criteria or jog on
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Haha love it so funny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if the men/women ratio was flipped on fab? Us men would be unbareable with our demands
Must be 5ft 8.5 inches exactly
Must have tits like Katie price
Must have an ass like Kim Kardashian
Must look exactly like Jennifer lawrance
Must have numerous pics of their fufu from all angles
Must match all criteria or jog on
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Mine is nothing like that haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if the men/women ratio was flipped on fab? Us men would be unbareable with our demands
Must be 5ft 8.5 inches exactly
Must have tits like Katie price
Must have an ass like Kim Kardashian
Must look exactly like Jennifer lawrance
Must have numerous pics of their fufu from all angles
Must match all criteria or jog on
Mine is nothing like that haha"
You’ll have to tell us |
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By *oo32Man
over a year ago
tipperary |
"Can you imagine if the men/women ratio was flipped on fab? Us men would be unbareable with our demands
Must be 5ft 8.5 inches exactly
Must have tits like Katie price
Must have an ass like Kim Kardashian
Must look exactly like Jennifer lawrance
Must have numerous pics of their fufu from all angles
Must match all criteria or jog on
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Please put "like a virgin touched for the 31st time" in the title so i know your serious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if the men/women ratio was flipped on fab? Us men would be unbareable with our demands
Must be 5ft 8.5 inches exactly
Must have tits like Katie price
Must have an ass like Kim Kardashian
Must look exactly like Jennifer lawrance
Must have numerous pics of their fufu from all angles
Must match all criteria or jog on
Mine is nothing like that haha"
no your is quite good clear to the point not massively demanding just general common sense , yours is not the kind im talking about! These are the ones that make you gringe just reading it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t really understand your point OP. Everyone has an ideal of who they want to meet - that’s not to say it’s going to happen.
If you feel intimidated by someone’s profile, then that’s your problem, not the fabber whose profile you read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway "
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time. |
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"I was looking around perving as you do ... reading profiles for a change... then I thought about mailing the person because of their amazingly good pictures but after reading i changed my mind and felt quite intimidated by it!
Seems like spectations are so so high, when i read dont like this dont like that , fuzzy , fit guys only , average move on , good looking, if you look like a celebrity...
It seems to me that is such an inflated expectation in some people as they might be the complete opposite of their demands if you know what i mean!
Anyways... rant over didnt mail the girl as profile was off putting "
Remember dude a fab 10 is probably a 4 or 5 in the real world. |
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"I was looking around perving as you do ... reading profiles for a change... then I thought about mailing the person because of their amazingly good pictures but after reading i changed my mind and felt quite intimidated by it!
Seems like spectations are so so high, when i read dont like this dont like that , fuzzy , fit guys only , average move on , good looking, if you look like a celebrity...
It seems to me that is such an inflated expectation in some people as they might be the complete opposite of their demands if you know what i mean!
Anyways... rant over didnt mail the girl as profile was off putting "
we have 100% straight in ours no one listens  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you imagine if the men/women ratio was flipped on fab? Us men would be unbareable with our demands
Must be 5ft 8.5 inches exactly
Must have tits like Katie price
Must have an ass like Kim Kardashian
Must look exactly like Jennifer lawrance
Must have numerous pics of their fufu from all angles
Must match all criteria or jog on
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Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile is probably strict because of time wasters,and complete idiots which there is way to many on fab, everyone has rules dos and donts, its shows respect when you get back them you can explain you have read them and I know you don't like this etc etc
but can you compromise, be polite with it there is always a chance if they see your are respectful thoughtful and read there profile which most people don't you might surprise them they will see the real you and take it from there. |
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time. "
There’s a fine line between “intimidating” and “ranty”...... |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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The imbalance of men and women on here comes with pros and cons from a women's perspective. While it's great to have the upper hand and the choice, the attention can be overwhelming and there's the danger that you loose touch to the ground which may become apparent in profile bios and exaggerated/inflated preferences.
It is tricky enough to write a good female fab blurb to set out your preferences without sounding like a negative and stuck up bitch. However it's possible and as the profile reflects to a certain degree your personality and attitude you might think twice how you portray yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The imbalance of men and women on here comes with pros and cons from a women's perspective. While it's great to have the upper hand and the choice, the attention can be overwhelming and there's the danger that you loose touch to the ground which may become apparent in profile bios and exaggerated/inflated preferences.
It is tricky enough to write a good female fab blurb to set out your preferences without sounding like a negative and stuck up bitch. However it's possible and as the profile reflects to a certain degree your personality and attitude you might think twice how you portray yourself. "
this is exactly what i meant! Thank you , exaggerated/inflated preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time. "
Same |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time.
Same "
Just to explore different perspectives, would you ladies approach an intimidating male profile?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time.
Same
Just to explore different perspectives, would you ladies approach an intimidating male profile? "
Yes most definately.
Same as for those ladies myself included,s out the time wasters.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time.
Same
Just to explore different perspectives, would you ladies approach an intimidating male profile? "
I sure would if it was well written and I liked his pictures. Why not? I have nothing to lose |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time.
Same
Just to explore different perspectives, would you ladies approach an intimidating male profile?
I sure would if it was well written and I liked his pictures. Why not? I have nothing to lose "
sorry to say but this is just being contrary to prove a point because is bullshit not a change women would mail a profile like that ! Not a chance ! Zero nada! |
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"Profile did it’s job then didn’t it? Advised what she was looking for and if you feel you weren’t that then chances are mail wouldn’t have been replied to anyway
Spot on!! I have one of those "intimidating" profiles. But I get tons of messages every day and thanks to my intimidating profile I know before I even read a message who has and hasn't bothered to read my profile before writing to me. It saves me a lot of time.
Same
Just to explore different perspectives, would you ladies approach an intimidating male profile?
I sure would if it was well written and I liked his pictures. Why not? I have nothing to lose sorry to say but this is just being contrary to prove a point because is bullshit not a change women would mail a profile like that ! Not a chance ! Zero nada! "
Yeah, I personally wouldn't but not because I would find him intimidating. I'm here from fetlife where my bio is ten times worse but also where I clearly state that I am a dominant woman.
I wouldn't mail a man with a profile like mine because it indicates a dominant man which is not what I'm looking for.
The men who have read my profile and still mail me, and there is a lot of them, do so BECAUSE they like what I have written and how I have written it.
Just because you are intimidated by words on a screen doesn't mean we all are. |
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I wouldn't be to worried about saying hello. As long as its respectful almost everyone gets a reply. I don't see the point in being rude. if we dint reply it's because the mail is asking for something outside our profile do's and dont's. Doesnt always work out well though.
Last night our last polite thanks for the mail but we arent meeting was met by "get off your high horse and go f*$k yourself" . I can see why many don't reply all the same |
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