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over a year ago
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So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.
But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. |
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"So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.
But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
Because they think they are the best and nobody should sy no to them. Condescending like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Miss a just block & move on, I wouldn't give the spoilt brats any acknowledgement.you know what your looking for & they probably get offended when you knock them back. (Tell them to grow up & then block X |
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We have been lucky to meet two unicorns and enjoy our time together .. one thing you never do with anyone is push them into a decision they are unsure of ..for us all parties involved need to want to play that's when the magic happens  op if you feel pressured at all move on you need to be comfortable xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.
But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
Some people get too excited when they start chatting to someone and it seems like all good and then turn around 180 degrees. Some people are not mature enough to realise we are here to have fun and if one side is not align with you anymore they get offended  just pass by and continue with your life and don’t be bothered, if this continues worst case you block them. If they are constantly online does not mean you should be. xx
Have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.
But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
Because it's all about them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No point trying to understand why people insult or are pushy here.u will be a long time here trying to figure out people here.its defeating the purpose of u coming here in the first place.
If u feel they are demanding and pushy and insulting block them and move on .plenty of nice folks here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dealt with a couples profile like this before
They used to bug me when I had the couples profile and then messaged looking to meet when I was back on singles profile if I could provide a single bi fem...
I just blocked them |
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Well, if it's a couple... it's not as if either of them have gone a few months without & are just looking to have sex...
They probably had a fantasy   and you had to "spoil it all" by saying "No thanks" or "Let's chat for a bit first" 
If they're so insulting, at least now they have each other to have angry sex with  |
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"So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.
But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
Some people get frustrated at the first hint at intimidation or aggression its just best to block. |
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I read a message, had to get up to go home from work, no time to reply. Marked as unread so I would remember to check it later and reply.
Got home had message calling me every name under the sun they seen i read and marked as unread, they were not into games, etc etc etc.
In a way its good, cause you can just cross them off the list. |
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I have been on and off fab for a few years and have to admit that I have blocked far far more this time round than ever before.
Maybe my tolerance for idiots has reduced with age lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I swear some people are just unreal on this. 90% of the time I only like talking to one or two people at a time because it get a to much. You get flooded with messages lose what your saying at then people send you loads of messages and start calling you horrible names. Mannors cost nothing and would get better responses and most messages are so vulger for a first message. |
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"I read a message, had to get up to go home from work, no time to reply. Marked as unread so I would remember to check it later and reply.
Got home had message calling me every name under the sun they seen i read and marked as unread, they were not into games, etc etc etc.
In a way its good, cause you can just cross them off the list."
Exactly, better to find out what people are like at the message stage rather than ending up meeting psychos. |
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Have got to the point I’m almost afraid to reply to guys now as it happens so often and in chat I v rarely reply to anyone as it’s almost straight away hi to wanna meet? I am now a lurker ?? |
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"Have got to the point I’m almost afraid to reply to guys now as it happens so often and in chat I v rarely reply to anyone as it’s almost straight away hi to wanna meet? I am now a lurker ??"
Same, tbh  |
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"Have got to the point I’m almost afraid to reply to guys now as it happens so often and in chat I v rarely reply to anyone as it’s almost straight away hi to wanna meet? I am now a lurker ??
Same, tbh "
Thats not good. I must be lucky as I have had very few nasty messages. I do have a lot of filters on though..maybe that helps.
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"So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.
But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
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Block them?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.
But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
Petty and childish people everywhere there loss no need for that bs |
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