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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't read too much into it myself. I'd still be curious as to whether or not the other person enjoyed it but surely you'd know if they didn't? "
Not being cheeky but the load of cum he left over Mrs S tits would say he did lol..
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"I wouldn't read too much into it myself. I'd still be curious as to whether or not the other person enjoyed it but surely you'd know if they didn't? Not being cheeky but the load of cum he left over Mrs S tits would say he did lol.."
That would usually suggest that alright  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't read too much into it myself. I'd still be curious as to whether or not the other person enjoyed it but surely you'd know if they didn't? Not being cheeky but the load of cum he left over Mrs S tits would say he did lol.."
That may just suggest that he had abstained for a few days before the meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do they display verification on their profile? Some people genuinely only return them so did u write one for them ? "
We did indeed and checked to make sure they received it..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't read too much into it myself. I'd still be curious as to whether or not the other person enjoyed it but surely you'd know if they didn't? Not being cheeky but the load of cum he left over Mrs S tits would say he did lol.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't read too much into it myself. I'd still be curious as to whether or not the other person enjoyed it but surely you'd know if they didn't? Not being cheeky but the load of cum he left over Mrs S tits would say he did lol.."
this made me laugh out loud 
Dont read too much into it sometimes people are busy or even plain lazy to write something!
In my personal experience even if it was not so good i would have write something brief but if i didnt write somethings was probably cause I was just plain lazy or short or inspiration |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Personally If its after a social meet and they have never left you a veri before, its rude and ignorant. It asks you in the list of verifications do you want to verify them in return afterall.
If its after an actual meet but they already have verified you previously i can see how that can get lost.
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Oh I’m with the ones who leave feedback on a meeting but if you’re meeting up loads of times , then one or two would be fine ( with the same person) It’s good to leave your verification so it helps both you for others to see what you’re like |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally If its after a social meet and they have never left you a veri before, its rude and ignorant. It asks you in the list of verifications do you want to verify them in return afterall.
If its after an actual meet but they already have verified you previously i can see how that can get lost.
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Thanks guys iv one question slightly off the thread...but were the hell did ye get those boots I'd love a pair for Mrs S.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh I’m with the ones who leave feedback on a meeting but if you’re meeting up loads of times , then one or two would be fine ( with the same person) It’s good to leave your verification so it helps both you for others to see what you’re like "
True...we'd thought about maybe meeting the guy again but now not so sure..
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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I actually didn’t think verifications were so wanted if someone has loadsa them already 
I think they are nice to get but I don’t stress if I don’t get one and I don’t leave one for everyone and I don’t always want everyone knowing what I’m doing but
I shall be more attentive to them in the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a person verifies their meet and their meet doesnt bother verify them, I agree that it shows rudeness and lack of manners.
Worse still is if they say they 'forgot about it' well.....I'm sorry but that only adds to the insult.
And some even have the b*lls to show the verif they got however briefly.
Yip it happened to me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a person verifies their meet and their meet doesnt bother verify them, I agree that it shows rudeness and lack of manners.
Worse still is if they say they 'forgot about it' well.....I'm sorry but that only adds to the insult.
And some even have the b*lls to show the verif they got however briefly.
Yip it happened to me. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a person verifies their meet and their meet doesnt bother verify them, I agree that it shows rudeness and lack of manners.
Worse still is if they say they 'forgot about it' well.....I'm sorry but that only adds to the insult.
And some even have the b*lls to show the verif they got however briefly.
Yip it happened to me. "
Did you hunt them down and make them suffer |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Personally If its after a social meet and they have never left you a veri before, its rude and ignorant. It asks you in the list of verifications do you want to verify them in return afterall.
If its after an actual meet but they already have verified you previously i can see how that can get lost.
Thanks guys iv one question slightly off the thread...but were the hell did ye get those boots I'd love a pair for Mrs S.."
Tilly London and yes they are fuckin awesome. I bought them for her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a person verifies their meet and their meet doesnt bother verify them, I agree that it shows rudeness and lack of manners.
Worse still is if they say they 'forgot about it' well.....I'm sorry but that only adds to the insult.
And some even have the b*lls to show the verif they got however briefly.
Yip it happened to me. Did you hunt them down and make them suffer "
No lol i have better things to do with my time.
He gave a feeble excuse and more lies to add to his already long list so I blocked him. Have to say he was the biggest disappointment of any meet I have had with his behaviour.
But sure you live and learn.
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I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally If its after a social meet and they have never left you a veri before, its rude and ignorant. It asks you in the list of verifications do you want to verify them in return afterall.
If its after an actual meet but they already have verified you previously i can see how that can get lost.
Thanks guys iv one question slightly off the thread...but were the hell did ye get those boots I'd love a pair for Mrs S..Tilly London and yes they are fuckin awesome. I bought them for her "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!)"
Have to agree, 99% of what is written in them is bullshit anyway. Are people really that desperate for validation? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a person verifies their meet and their meet doesnt bother verify them, I agree that it shows rudeness and lack of manners.
Worse still is if they say they 'forgot about it' well.....I'm sorry but that only adds to the insult.
And some even have the b*lls to show the verif they got however briefly.
Yip it happened to me. Did you hunt them down and make them suffer
No lol i have better things to do with my time.
He gave a feeble excuse and more lies to add to his already long list so I blocked him. Have to say he was the biggest disappointment of any meet I have had with his behaviour.
But sure you live and learn.
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Definitely...lets just say between the two gents...it's the more mature we'd meet again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually drop a verification for the first, it's rare that I really verify for second and third meets, but I do think if it's a first off meet if you left a verification and it wasn't a write off then it's rude not to return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a couple of meets that were pretty good and neither of us left a veri...think it was a "ill say when you say" thing... Which left both parties insulted lol.
But sure I'm to blame as much as they were |
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"I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!)
Have to agree, 99% of what is written in them is bullshit anyway. Are people really that desperate for validation? "
Lol well i like to think mine arent 99% bullshit but yeah i think people should make their own mind up about someone rather than believing all the veris. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!)
Have to agree, 99% of what is written in them is bullshit anyway. Are people really that desperate for validation?
Lol well i like to think mine arent 99% bullshit but yeah i think people should make their own mind up about someone rather than believing all the veris. "
We had no probs verifying the guy at all..he even asked one or twice but we'd just been busy so it took a day or so to do it...guess we thought even a verify to say we are genuine would have done is all. |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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"i heard this can happen a lot, so some people wait to get their veri first."
Do you mean done people wait to do anything until they get a verification?? That has to be fake news? So the veri is more important then the sex?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!)
Have to agree, 99% of what is written in them is bullshit anyway. Are people really that desperate for validation?
Lol well i like to think mine arent 99% bullshit but yeah i think people should make their own mind up about someone rather than believing all the veris. We had no probs verifying the guy at all..he even asked one or twice but we'd just been busy so it took a day or so to do it...guess we thought even a verify to say we are genuine would have done is all."
When on as a couple we did give guys honest veries as its more important to a single guy than a couple who do not need them to get meets you could read between the lines if they were good or not |
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"I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!)
Have to agree, 99% of what is written in them is bullshit anyway. Are people really that desperate for validation?
Lol well i like to think mine arent 99% bullshit but yeah i think people should make their own mind up about someone rather than believing all the veris.
We had no probs verifying the guy at all..he even asked one or twice but we'd just been busy so it took a day or so to do it...guess we thought even a verify to say we are genuine would have done is all."
I wouldnt worry about it, you already have enough veris for people to see you're genuine x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!)
Have to agree, 99% of what is written in them is bullshit anyway. Are people really that desperate for validation?
Lol well i like to think mine arent 99% bullshit but yeah i think people should make their own mind up about someone rather than believing all the veris.
We had no probs verifying the guy at all..he even asked one or twice but we'd just been busy so it took a day or so to do it...guess we thought even a verify to say we are genuine would have done is all.
I wouldnt worry about it, you already have enough veris for people to see you're genuine x "
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By *ynxxxMan
over a year ago
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Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people?"
If you block them the veri will disappear apparently. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people?"
....kind of what happened |
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"Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people?"
I have no idea if you can reclaim a veri but in this no strings world best to just move on. It would be a bit spiteful to reclaim a veri just because they didnt return one. If someone hounds/begs/pressures you for a veri and then does not return one, when you asked them to, it's really more of a reflection on them than you. Be the better person! |
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We have 23 veris out of those 23, 2 couples veri us twice . We’ve only played with 5 of those veris and some of the couples of the 5 we have met numerous times but we don’t put veris up for each other again and again. Can’t see the point . And if I’m totally honest I don’t like people knowing everything we do.. I would say just move on , he got his pleasure now he’s onto his next one ..xxx |
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"We have 23 veris out of those 23, 2 couples veri us twice . We’ve only played with 5 of those veris and some of the couples of the 5 we have met numerous times but we don’t put veris up for each other again and again. Can’t see the point . And if I’m totally honest I don’t like people knowing everything we do.. I would say just move on , he got his pleasure now he’s onto his next one ..xxx"
And hopefully the OP got their pleasure too! |
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By *ynxxxMan
over a year ago
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"Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people?
I have no idea if you can reclaim a veri but in this no strings world best to just move on. It would be a bit spiteful to reclaim a veri just because they didnt return one. If someone hounds/begs/pressures you for a veri and then does not return one, when you asked them to, it's really more of a reflection on them than you. Be the better person! "
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"We have 23 veris out of those 23, 2 couples veri us twice . We’ve only played with 5 of those veris and some of the couples of the 5 we have met numerous times but we don’t put veris up for each other again and again. Can’t see the point . And if I’m totally honest I don’t like people knowing everything we do.. I would say just move on , he got his pleasure now he’s onto his next one ..xxx
And hopefully the OP got their pleasure too! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people?
If you block them the veri will disappear apparently. "
Veri does disappear if u block a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people?
If you block them the veri will disappear apparently.
Veri does disappear if u block a person"
But it remains on the verification summary which I don't like |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now, I'm not too bothered about receiving veris from meets as I have 1 or 2 already.
But what gets me, is when the other person hounds/begs/pressures you into writing a veri for them. As soon as you do, it gets published immediately and then when you ask for one in return you get blanked.
Isn't that a bit rude? Is there a way of reclaiming veris from those kinds of people?
I have no idea if you can reclaim a veri but in this no strings world best to just move on. It would be a bit spiteful to reclaim a veri just because they didnt return one. If someone hounds/begs/pressures you for a veri and then does not return one, when you asked them to, it's really more of a reflection on them than you. Be the better person! "
We wouldn't reclaim as it was a good meet ( in our eyes at least ) and Mrs enjoyed the xtra cum over her breasts lol...ah guess live and learn as they say..we'll just know better nxt time.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have 23 veris out of those 23, 2 couples veri us twice . We’ve only played with 5 of those veris and some of the couples of the 5 we have met numerous times but we don’t put veris up for each other again and again. Can’t see the point . And if I’m totally honest I don’t like people knowing everything we do.. I would say just move on , he got his pleasure now he’s onto his next one ..xxx
And hopefully the OP got their pleasure too! good point lol "
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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago
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I really wouldn't worry about it you have verifications alread.
some people don't give others a verification after a meet, some don't for the weirdest of reasons, and some because they are to lazy to string a few words together lol but don't let it get to you it looks like your both doing fine on here best of luck to you both. |
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By *rBakersMan
over a year ago
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Anyone have this happen to them?..
I was with a couple recently and met in a hotel. We tried to verify each other the next day but it just kept saying verification saved.
I think it might be because we had logged into the same WiFi at the hotel.
Anyone else ever experienced this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My view was and still is... I don’t meet for the verification, I do write verifications to my playmates but I know that not everyone like to write themselves so I am not bothered... does not mean the meeting wasn’t good as I do have follow-up meetings with some of those people who do not write anything.
So don’t take it personally - just enjoy the journey. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really wouldn't worry about it you have verifications alread.
some people don't give others a verification after a meet, some don't for the weirdest of reasons, and some because they are to lazy to string a few words together lol but don't let it get to you it looks like your both doing fine on here best of luck to you both. "
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"I dont really get the whole veri thing. Imo it's akin to keeping a public record of your fab life, something id rather keep private. i dont really want a record of who i met and when i met them and what we did! I know you can hide it but then ive come across people who are suspicious of that so its a bit of a predicament. How about after a meet just send the person a msg saying you had a great night or whatever. I understand the need for the first few just to make sure people are genuine but after that what's the point of it all? (Btw no problem with anyone who has left us a veri and is reading this, its just something ive thought about lately!!!)"
What she said
Thanks for helping me articulate my views on the subject |
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