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True or false, bad sex can ruin a relationship
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship
It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.
One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments
So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship? |
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"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship
It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.
One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments
So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?"
If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship
It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.
One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments
So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?
If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese "
Straight to the point.   |
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"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship
It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.
One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments
So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?"
So you met every few months and the sex was boring and one sided , better off apart. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship
It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.
One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments
So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?
If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese "
That is the best summary I've ever seen haha
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship
It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.
One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments
So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?
So you met every few months and the sex was boring and one sided , better off apart."
Agreed |
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I'm afraid sex is a very important part of an relationship. It pulls you together and makes you closer . If the sex is not good and a partner aint willing to change and try make the sex good . The relationship might break up . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm afraid sex is a very important part of an relationship. It pulls you together and makes you closer . If the sex is not good and a partner aint willing to change and try make the sex good . The relationship might break up . "
That's what happened haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"true bad sex will only last a little while
great sex is the key to great relationship"
It just makes everything else gel better, otherwise it just slowly becomes a point of friction..that's what hapened with me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And why alot cheat also.
Yes I think sex is a big part of a relationship.
Trust.honesty.communication.
Keeping things spicy is a must.
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Agreed...I can honestly say that I've never once cheated in a relationship but I can see how easily it can happen if one is just miserable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex and intimacy are very important to a healthy and stable relationship. Can’t have one without the other. "
Agreed. Both feed off each other. A lot of problems are caused by a lack of communication. But if the sex is just plain bad then something dramatic is needed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well the amount of people on here as singles that love there partners but are here just for sex I'd say that relationships are not as important as sex good sex "
If that were the case why aren't they leaving the relationship? |
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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago
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"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship
It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.
One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments
So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?
If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese "
How's the sex there's lots of places that deliver lol (Mel) |
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"It’s a fact I love making love not just have sex wham bang thank you not into that "
You’re on the wrong site then - this is a swingers site not a relationship site - although lots of people seem to get confused by that fact ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a fact I love making love not just have sex wham bang thank you not into that
You’re on the wrong site then - this is a swingers site not a relationship site - although lots of people seem to get confused by that fact ....."
I’m not on here looking for a relationship people I’ve been talking to on this don’t just want a quickie they want proper sex not just a quickie and that’s what I’m saying not saying I’m looking for a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well the amount of people on here as singles that love there partners but are here just for sex I'd say that relationships are not as important as sex good sex
If that were the case why aren't they leaving the relationship?"
Some enjoy the 'thrill' of cheating |
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